Should Couples Live Together before Marriage?

[nHaRuToH_XXX]

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ganahan ang laki ug live in kay anytime makagawas siya..

[omad]

bisan pag mag live in mo, it's not a ticket that you will know each other better..

ganahan ang laki ug live in kay anytime makagawas siya..

^^ I agree. and if the "live-in" don't work, the guy would come out of that relationship "scot-free" while the girl is branded as "damaged goods", "easy girl", "biaaattccchhh" etc etc. then tell me who this girl would attract in the future? - players - 'coz to tell you honestly, if you've experienced a "live-in" relationship, guys won't take you seriously anymore - Filipino guys that is -. they would be interested in you because of - s*x - and that's a reality. think twice and think hard 'coz you're the one who has "more to lose" compared to your bf. I won't blame you if you'd pursue this endeavor, being 22 is when you think you're always "right". I was 22 once and I felt invincible at that age. but I'm a guy and I don't have a reputation to uphold. but if you insist on doing it then nobody here can stop you but yourself, but please, don't come back here crying when it's all said and done 'coz "I told you so" won't be enough to ease your pain.

guys please don't hate me, I know you would want me to tell her "go ahead" but my conscience bothers me no-end. it's really up to her to make this decision though. all we could do is guide her into the right direction but the final decision is up to her. good luck.

[nHaRuToH_XXX]

@omad...

I agree w/u...


Girl....after ka magamit/mapahimuslan niyag maayu....sooner or later that married man will dump u and u'll get nothing but regrets and next 2 that u'll be a l***r....peace but thats the truth..

[baliguat]

bati jud liver in

[faithfulnina]

i appreciate your ideas guys. di ra man sad ako ang nag huna2 ani. wa man sad cya namugos. kaming duha ang ganahan but we're really thinkin it thru. i know y'all think guys are the same. pero naa man say laki nga tarong jud. di manggamit, di sad mangabusar. mo consider ba kaha ko ana nga butang if i think hez not worth the risk? im the type of girl na di dali mo trust. pero hez an exception to that rule kay he has proven man sad na theres no reason for me not to trust him. :mrgreen:

[mitch_a888]

^^^ if we're in love, we can only see the positive side of the relationship and the attitude of our partner as well. i can even tell that my boo is also an exception to the rule among others. but i broaden my mind to any possibilities, to think that i'm 26 and he's 28.

[amaw]

i appreciate your ideas guys. di ra man sad ako ang nag huna2 ani. wa man sad cya namugos. kaming duha ang ganahan but we're really thinkin it thru. i know y'all think guys are the same. pero naa man say laki nga tarong jud. di manggamit, di sad mangabusar. mo consider ba kaha ko ana nga butang if i think hez not worth the risk? im the type of girl na di dali mo trust. pero hez an exception to that rule kay he has proven man sad na theres no reason for me not to trust him.Â* :mrgreen:

I'm sure he is....but when you're in the honeymoon stage in your relationship, everybody is excempted to the rules...

Don't get me wrong, I am not judging you guys, but if you want an advice, go get married, intead of living-in together....and if you're not ready yet for that marriage thingy...then stay as bf and gf so you'd continue the getting-to-know-each-other stage, at the same time, save and save and save.

[be*aaach]

Not really a good idea. I have a friend. I can't speak for him, but his life was devastated because of living-in. Worse than being married pa kuno. There's no commitment, binding whatsoever. The flame will die out faster kung mag live-in. That's what he said.

And there's a good chance of an unwanted pregnancy and other complications.

there is a lot of truth into this...

[crackedthoughts]

NOT a good idea jud na live in. For one, it's not at all acceptable in the eyes of GOD. Just because we see a lot of people doing it it doesn't make it right. Pareho ra na sa kabaw ka na mamatay ka if tugpa ka from a bridge but because there's a lot of people doing, tugpa sad ka. Ok ra tingali na sa mga guys but sa girls, if comes a time na magbulag mo, you're left with nothing na jud. Kafaet.. Mag-unsa pa ang mahay kung humana.

[sinsiyo]

this is an old question and definitely has a an old fashion answers...from the looks of it you cant find a positvie answers with regards to your decision of living with your partner w/o being married...but if you are willing to take the risk theres nothing we can do...but if you are thinking of your future better not try to pursue it...remember love can wait and what you are experiencing now is just part of the test...so better think it over...