Should Couples Live Together before Marriage?

[monrose29]

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hmmm... mura man tag nag na-a sa trial court ani..

Human sa makuting pag susi mahitungod sa isue nga pag live-in nila ni faithfulnina og NID kinsa nag pangidaron sa 22-23 nga gusto na jud nga mag minyo, inabagan sa atong makuti nga diskusyon mga idea og solosyon gikan sa atong mga tinahod nga mag membro neng atong kapunongon, ni gawas ang resulta nga silang duha nagka hinigugma-ay og andam ng modawat sa sakramento sa kaminyo-on...

atangi sa dili ma dugay ang resulta neng atong TOPIC nga nag ulohan " Pakaslan.. Pakaslan Ko Ikaw Ubos og Ibabaw"

ahehehehehhehee

kini inyong suki sa kahanginan Noy_Noah..mag pasalamat kaninyo og ma ayong buntag mga igso-on...


mo hagok nako.. waaaaaaaaaaaaa

[faithfulnina]

@monrose29

wahehehhehe naunsa na man ka dong oi! katog na! pero tenk yu sa imong mahinungdanong mga pulong.

[angel6017]

ummm dili..
kay sauna murag ana na jud mi sa akong ex sakit lng kung mag buwag na mo
kay maanad ka nga tupad mo matug

[faithfulnina]

@angel6017

huhuhu ka sad..

[angel6017]

@angel6017

huhuhu ka sad..

as in ug naka realize ko wala na man gud moy itago sa usat usa
dili na cya xciting ma stuck up mo you wont have plans na to get married
kay unsa pa man kuyg na gud mo

[faithfulnina]

minyo na jud ko oi. di na nako buhian ng akong bugoy.. hahay. watchu tink angel6017?

[amaw]

ummm dili..
kay sauna murag ana na jud mi sa akong ex sakit lng kung mag buwag na mo
kay maanad ka nga tupad mo matug

mau bitaw nang naka-kuan sa live-in.....kay kinahanglan sad i-kondisyon nimo imong sarili nga kung unsa man gani mahitabo(magbulag) andam gyud kang modawat....sa way kusmod......

[omad]

with both of you at a tender age (22 and 23) I won't recommend either.. stable jobs? do you think both your income can rent yourselves a decent apartment? pay the bills? electric, water etc etc..? what I'm saying is if you decide in staying together either living in or getting married, living separately from your parents is the important part of it. if you live with either of your parents, finding out the "real persons in both of you" would be difficult. it won't serve its purpose.

live-in set-ups is a lose-lose scenario for the women. granting that you know the guy inside-out, that won't be a guarantee that he'll stick with you no matter what happens in the future. there's no tie that binds both of you, in this instance, a marriage certificate. he can just leave you in an instant or look for somebody younger without worrying about legal issues. that's how simple that is for him.

if I were a parent for either of you I'll advice you both to wait for a couple of years and decide if you wanna get married by then. I was 22 once and I felt the same way you do during that time. if I resorted in living in with my gf during that time, I would have pitied that woman I was with 'coz I moved on quickly after I got bored with her. that's a point to ponder 'coz as a man I would tell you all those sweet nothings just to get to your drawers, and after I'm done with you it's "hasta la vista" baby.

all the guys reading my post would be laughing secretly like a hyena circling its prey. it won't be the guys who'll be crying after a failed live-in relationship. trust me on that.

[angel6017]

minyo na jud ko oi. di na nako buhian ng akong bugoy.. hahay. watchu tink angel6017?

Thats nice .....
may paka heheehhe...
but anyway naa nmn sad koy lain uyab after that tragic moment this time wa mi nag leave in ahehehehehe
i think its reli good kay ma feel jud nimo ang unsa jud ang uyab! ahehehehe
but then maka mingaw tung sauna nga mag kuyug ug tulog mag away sa remote control sa tv hehehe
ug mag awat sa tandayan

[mhai...07]

well as for me..living in is okie..
but of corse when u live together it doesnt stop up to there..
u have to think on ways to live since separate na mu sa inyo home..
u have to discuss things out with ur half..
make sure na uve been feed up na sa inyo batan.on life..
and the most make sure u made the ryt track baka kc wen u live for three days quits na kaagad..

it happend to my friend..
sobwa nya kc love ung guy same as the guy too...
so decide cla live-in..
come wat may d nagtagal kc d kaya hirap ng buhay..

its gonna ba really hard i was witness tlga of there relationship..
kc u have to learn to live on ur own..
and u have to make uur move to earn living and the most respect ng tao..

isa pa once u get into real living in thing...
its like ur turining back to ur parents..

basta for me maganda pa rin ung relationship na d lng blessed by GOD pati ng parents na rin..