How do you overcome bitterness?

[redhot777]

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ang taw nga way problema, di boang, but gilaay lang sa life hahaha

imoha pod na hehehe. pero try kano og ask sa mga people around if naa ba silay problems..
except sa mga bata nga wa pay bout hap.

[anjerika]

imoha pod na hehehe. pero try kano og ask sa mga people around if naa ba silay problems..
except sa mga bata nga wa pay bout hap.

problems will always be there to continually make us grow. sometimes problems do appear but because nag grow na ta so much we don't even see it as a problem anymore kay sayon na siya i solve, labi nag na agian na or naay mutabang nimo pag solve hehe

[Blackjellybean27]

even if unsa pana ka layu imo na dagan. problems will always be problems.
better deal with it.

there are problems you just keep on facing head on, but d jud sya ma wa.
running away for me was like taking a break from it
and i needed that.
anyway its done, thats how i dealt with it. kanya-kanya dba?

[miramax]

But what if a person seems to enjoy his bitterness?
It may sound crazy but...I guess he does.

Di bah being odd in anything or sumthn is one big factor of being bitter as well?

in laymans' term...kana bang hilig kaayo ug paligas?

[inna-iks]

I think time can help jud. Nya not to concentrate on the bitterness and to try to distract yourself and stop thinking about it.

[i-c-u-p]

Always ask.
WHAT ELSE COULD THIS MEAN.

This will change your life is you ask this to every failure and frustration you encounter.

The Reason why someone gets upset and feel bitter is how they attach the meaning to the situation.
Failure to get the raise from your boss because my co worker...... Abandoned by your relationship, because of......Terminated from your job because of ......

To all situation in life you should find as many positive meaning as you come up with the negative ones...

The best example is the separation of a relationship....
1.Instead of thinking that you are "not" presentable to the society...I would say, I must been so good that he feels intimidated with my presence once we are expose to the society...


How about being terminated from your job..
1. Instead of feeling incapable and unqualified.....I would say, I must be needed somewhere were my skills and knowledge will flourish, and the institution will value me and I will value them which in turn makes me happy to go to work

[miramax]

We all can overcome our bitterness...but it's a matter of choice.

A choice to make.

Like I know somebody here, he got almost evrytyn, good family & career.

But for no reason, he's always been bitter to life, to his surroundings, to the people around him, to his friends.

I remembered once when i asked him what's the reason for being bitter, what's the problem?

He just replied & say..."ing-ani man jud ko beh"

Now can somebody tell me, what else can we do to help him? Does he needs clinical help?

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

misery loves company...no matter wat u do, wer u go, problems are always der to deal with...so just live life to the fullest...dont dwell on bitter pasts...move on and learn from ur mistakes...and apply wat u have learned...ur life depends on wat u make out of it...just keep going and never lose hope...always strive for the best...and always choose to be happy...

[esotericlove]

misery loves company...no matter wat u do, wer u go, problems are always der to deal with...so just live life to the fullest...dont dwell on bitter pasts...move on and learn from ur mistakes...and apply wat u have learned...ur life depends on wat u make out of it...just keep going and never lose hope...always strive for the best...and always choose to be happy...

thats right sis, choose to be happy than thinking those things and people na maka pa better.. i agree..