Merged: All Love Problems

[sadgirl]

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Guys, help me, im so depressed, i don't know if its my fault why he change or he just pretended to like me and all he wanted was to hurt me. Sakit kaau. I don't how how to face life anymore. I wanna die because he left me.... huhuhu... this is so hard for me. i expected a lot from him.

To him: i love you so much, pls come back to me.

[karwren]

about me:

arang-arang(dili gwapo di sad bati)

buotan

sweet

pero:

shy type lang
nya hilomon

pero ngano man
cge lage ko ka basted

maypa sultian nalang kos ginoo daan unsay plano niya nako f single blessedness ba akoa ma dawat or d,i para di nako mangita

What do you think is God telling you? Keep praying lang bay and let Him know sa imu prayers that you wanna know what His palns are for you and ipaklaro niya sa imuha. He honors sincere prayers.

[sadgirl]

Guys, this is the story:

We worked at the same company. Nya, when I first saw him, dli nako sya feel. The cgi sya pacute nako, todo paramdam jud. Then naa ko friend, since dli man kaau ko talkative, sila primi istoryahay. Pirmi ko nya tagdon. Lahi ra jud iya treatment nako. Nya, watching me at a distance bah. Gikilig sad ko, nya na inlove intawn ko niya. Every now and then, magchange sya ug way para magpapansin. Dli man sad kaau ko mopansin niya. Mura bitaw sya mag-emote, as if broken hearted sya. Adto sya sumbong sa ako friend.

My questions are: drama ra kaha to niya, para naay syay reason para makatalk cla sa ako friend, meaning ang ako jud friend iya ganahan. iya ra kaha ko gigamit. Pero, bsan wala ko, magkatalk man jud cla, nganu kinahanglan pa man ko niya iapil-apil. close naman ni cla. dugay-dugay baya sad to iya pagcgi paramdam. Or naa ba koy nahimo nga nalain sya. mura man wala oi.

To the boys, mabuhat ninyu nga pa-inlovon ang usa ka girl, nya moadto daun mo sa lain. What for? Basin makasabot rako sa reason, nya mwala na ang kasakit nga akong gibati.

I need your honest and sincere answers.

[karwren]

Guys, this is the story:

We worked at the same company. Nya, when I first saw him, dli nako sya feel. The cgi sya pacute nako, todo paramdam jud. Then naa ko friend, since dli man kaau ko talkative, sila primi istoryahay. Pirmi ko nya tagdon. Lahi ra jud iya treatment nako. Nya, watching me at a distance bah. Gikilig sad ko, nya na inlove intawn ko niya. Every now and then, magchange sya ug way para magpapansin. Dli man sad kaau ko mopansin niya. Mura bitaw sya mag-emote, as if broken hearted sya. Adto sya sumbong sa ako friend.

My questions are: drama ra kaha to niya, para naay syay reason para makatalk cla sa ako friend, meaning ang ako jud friend iya ganahan. iya ra kaha ko gigamit. Pero, bsan wala ko, magkatalk man jud cla, nganu kinahanglan pa man ko niya iapil-apil. close naman ni cla. dugay-dugay baya sad to iya pagcgi paramdam. Or naa ba koy nahimo nga nalain sya. mura man wala oi.

To the boys, mabuhat ninyu nga pa-inlovon ang usa ka girl, nya moadto daun mo sa lain. What for? Basin makasabot rako sa reason, nya mwala na ang kasakit nga akong gibati.

I need your honest and sincere answers.

....You also need to ask yourself, if naa ba gyud siya gi sulti gyud sa imu with the intent of courting you? Basin misunderstanding of signals recieved from both of you and the guy's end?. Lisud man mag assume. If mu assume ta, then dinha mag start ang false hope kay basin dili mao ang assumptions sah?

I suggest you channel yourself on things that are really facts. Kanang imu other friends or get yourslf busy with things you enjoy doing, rather than wonder for something you might not really find a sure answer to, unless you get the answer from the horse's mouth. Asking us in the forum, will not be that guy's answer, but just another set of mere assumptions, Pwede true, pwede ug dili.. Puros lang siya pwede.

[sadgirl]

....You also need to ask yourself, if naa ba gyud siya gi sulti gyud sa imu with the intent of courting you? Basin misunderstanding of signals recieved from both of you and the guy's end?. Lisud man mag assume. If mu assume ta, then dinha mag start ang false hope kay basin dili mao ang assumptions sah?

I suggest you channel yourself on things that are really facts. Kanang imu other friends or get yourslf busy with things you enjoy doing, rather than wonder for something you might not really find a sure answer to, unless you get the answer from the horse's mouth. Asking us in the forum, will not be that guy's answer, but just another set of mere assumptions, Pwede true, pwede ug dili.. Puros lang siya pwede.

Hehehe, mau sad. Kinsa man say dli magassume ato iya paramdam oi, dli lang nako mapost dri kay naa nya nakaila namo, litche tong lakiha...

Cgi2x, ill act nlang as if wala ko dutli sa iya paramdam, kay wala koy assurance.

[aozora]

hey, im not a girl (not yet a woman ), this is just my opinion.
i have a friend that is using the same tactics. kanang ganing magpaluoy2, emote2, pabroken2 hearted just to get someone's attention - ang girl nga iyang gidiskarte-an or to everyone who knows the girl para maka tell sa girl.
how come this guy is doing that way?
i just think the guy is naive. he has a lot to learn how feelings of a woman are wired. maybe ikaw ang una niya nga prospect.

naa pud diay girl ma in love ug ingon ana noh? gikilig pud ka, how cute. hahahaha...
are you really that in love sa guy? or na luoy lang ka?

my answer to your "To the boys" question: yup that is possible, everything is possible. just think it that way para safe. :P

if you really really like the guy, help him!
tell him directly to get your contact and tell him to date you if that's what he wants.
start from there and don't give-in sa iyang begging.

[luke0917]

basin na TOA (transfer of affection) na nuon ang guy kay wla man nimo pansina. grab the opportunity unta ka adto sis kay nka feel na gud ka ug love nya, hehe.

[cool_guy]

basin na TOA (transfer of affection) na nuon ang guy kay wla man nimo pansina. grab the opportunity unta ka adto sis kay nka feel na gud ka ug love nya, hehe.

tumpak! murag sakto ka bro, sort of bridge is the owner imo friend ang bridge pra sa imoha since cla cge talk na balhin adto sa imo friend ang feeling sa guy para nimo.

[psyche_08]

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[P4case]

guys clear up my mind...

we're been together for 5 years as bf-gf relationship we've been tru a lot and we know each other very well...ive decided that this girl is the one 1 want to marry and i undoubtly love her, i really respect her for this 5 long years we chose do not engaged in s*x. we planned not to do the deed until marriage, everything went well until she had a problem regarding her reproductive organ, she undergoes major operation which requires to pull off her ovaries..both ovaries my problem now is that she does not produce any more hormones.. that affects her sexual desire, abi nko okey ra pro as time goes by i think affected pud ko..even sa kiss wla na cya sa mood im frustrated already i know la nya ni gtuyo and wla pud cya sala sa among situation, dghan na kaau ko mga wat ifs, damned i hate this life...

i know naa medication ani but the risk is too high