For gurls: Do u like that ur bf have many girl friends? I mean,hinamiga au xa ba???

[chinody]

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ok raman na daghan friends na girls. basta dli lang mo lapas sa boundary.hehehe

[Blackjellybean27]

ay ambot, close to my heart jud this topic. hehe. karon lng ko naka time post diri.
I don't like na uyab ko daghan kaau girl friends.
especially those girls who flirts with him, unya friends lang daw cla. well it's true na friends lang cla. pero to the girl, it might be something else noh. especially if you make pansin the girl and talk to her. awww sos. kahibaw baya mo some girls are just feelers. hehehe. na feeling nila, oi ganahan jud sya nako. my bf is very friendly, ma PR kind of guy. ok lang naman nako managad siya amiga pero d lang ganahan nako if makig chika pa sya if naa ko. k OP kaau feeling ko. For example lang, if laag mi sa mall and then he sees a girl friend, then mag hi ang girl niya unya makig chika niya. haiz, ako naman no idea what the hell they are talking about noh. so to me it's bastos already. wla respect, dba?

[Blackjellybean27]

oh by the way since we're on the topic, naa jud girl na bastos kaau. she manages one of the restos near my bf's work place. my bf told me about her, nakig chika pa daw about her love life. I'm like, WTF?! manager ka and that's how you conduct yourself? makig chika lng ka to your clients about your love life!? btw, that girl has seen me and my bf together a lot of times na ha. everytime magpatagad jud, KSP! i told my bf already that i dont like the way she is acting. so he has avoided her na. one time we ate sa resto ng girl.. and we were the only ones did2. me and my bf lang i mean ang customer. so naa ang girl sa pikas na table, doing whatever i think. out of the blue, nakig chika lng sya sa bf ko from where she's sitting and as if wla ko dira. sos, my Lord! ka bastos pa naman ng attitude. ang bf ko k ang replies nya sa girl k "uhmm ok", "yeah".. kanang short na gaani na mga replies k he knows maglagot jud ko. hala cge gihapon chika ang peste. naa ko question ha: if the next time she does that, naa ko right to say something to her? like interrupt her? k basin murag nag stoop lang ko to her level bah.

[cp103]

para nku d jud ko ganhn ug akong uyab naa daghan friends nga gurl..
ambot nganu..
murag ma insecure ko..
magselos ko daun gani pag ako uyab magtagd2x sa iya mga amiga..
mo hilom nlang ko..

not trying to offend u or anything sis ha, but just wanted to let you know that "insecurity" is a sign nga dili ka confident sa imo self. Try to have more confidence, and pilay pusta, mawala ra na imo selos2x dinha, and guys love women who exudes confidence.

[cp103]

oh by the way since we're on the topic, naa jud girl na bastos kaau. she manages one of the restos near my bf's work place. my bf told me about her, nakig chika pa daw about her love life. I'm like, WTF?! manager ka and that's how you conduct yourself? makig chika lng ka to your clients about your love life!? btw, that girl has seen me and my bf together a lot of times na ha. everytime magpatagad jud, KSP! i told my bf already that i dont like the way she is acting. so he has avoided her na. one time we ate sa resto ng girl.. and we were the only ones did2. me and my bf lang i mean ang customer. so naa ang girl sa pikas na table, doing whatever i think. out of the blue, nakig chika lng sya sa bf ko from where she's sitting and as if wla ko dira. sos, my Lord! ka bastos pa naman ng attitude. ang bf ko k ang replies nya sa girl k "uhmm ok", "yeah".. kanang short na gaani na mga replies k he knows maglagot jud ko. hala cge gihapon chika ang peste. naa ko question ha: if the next time she does that, naa ko right to say something to her? like interrupt her? k basin murag nag stoop lang ko to her level bah.

hmmm, it's understandable y you would be so pissed-off at the girl, but really, do you think it's healthy on your relationship, not to mention your health? i mean, if your so concerned about stooping down to her level, then y are you so affected by what she is doing? Sis, you might not realise this, but the second that you let your emotions get the best of you, then that just means you already lost and stooped down to her level, even if she doesn't know it. The person is not even worth your frustration so don't let affect you, learn to master your emotions. Have more faith in your boyfriend coz you might not accept this, but another reason that you get pissed-off @ that woman is bcoz deep inside, you feel insecure, that you might loose your bf to that girl. I've already said something about insecurity, please read my earlier post nlng.

[Blackjellybean27]

hmmm, it's understandable y you would be so pissed-off at the girl, but really, do you think it's healthy on your relationship, not to mention your health? i mean, if your so concerned about stooping down to her level, then y are you so affected by what she is doing? Sis, you might not realise this, but the second that you let your emotions get the best of you, then that just means you already lost and stooped down to her level, even if she doesn't know it. The person is not even worth your frustration so don't let affect you, learn to master your emotions. Have more faith in your boyfriend coz you might not accept this, but another reason that you get pissed-off @ that woman is bcoz deep inside, you feel insecure, that you might loose your bf to that girl. I've already said something about insecurity, please read my earlier post nlng.

Honestly, it is hard man gud not to feel anything and believe me I have already kept quiet all through out that entire conversation she had with my bf while i was around. smile2x lang gihapon, as if d affected. I think even if d sya nag flirt2x sa bf ko k sapoton gihapon ko k nag talk baya mi ng bf ko, unya she just interrupted and kept talking to my bf as if i wasnt around noh. yup maybe you are right about the insecure part, I just cant help it considering the fact na my bf gve his number to her. pero wla naman daw cla ng txt or nagkita did2 near sa work place niya. I don't feel insecure na I'm going to lose him to her. I just dont like the feeling na basin madala lang ng temptation bf ko. lalaki baya. LOL.

[cp103]

Honestly, it is hard man gud not to feel anything and believe me I have already kept quiet all through out that entire conversation she had with my bf while i was around. smile2x lang gihapon, as if d affected. I think even if d sya nag flirt2x sa bf ko k sapoton gihapon ko k nag talk baya mi ng bf ko, unya she just interrupted and kept talking to my bf as if i wasnt around noh. yup maybe you are right about the insecure part, I just cant help it considering the fact na my bf gve his number to her. pero wla naman daw cla ng txt or nagkita did2 near sa work place niya. I don't feel insecure na I'm going to lose him to her. I just dont like the feeling na basin madala lang ng temptation bf ko. lalaki baya. LOL.

OT: @ blackjelly:lelz, typical jud na w/ girls noh, to think nga madala jud mi mga guys sa temptation, and i have to say that your right, but not entirely, it all boils down to how faithful the guy is to you. You can consider it as something of a test, a test that he must pass or else.

Going back, i understand how frustrating it is nga naa jud mga tao maki.saw2x sa inyo, and it's unavoidable jud, wala ta ma.hems ana coz we live in an unperfect world. All you can do is be more patient than you are right now, and not sweat the small stuff, if you do that, the small will just be small stuff, no biggie at all.

OnT: Anyway, i think ot na au ko so i'll jump right back into the topic... IMO, i think it does not matter if daghan "amiga" ang inyo bf or not, but rather, how emotionally mature is the guy that should really counts. kay if emotionally mature na jud ang 1 ka guy, even if tanan niya friends kay girls, wala man mahitabo ghapon, coz he knows how to handle himself and his emotions (unless of course he will be the next Bb. gandang hari... )

[Blackjellybean27]

OT: @ blackjelly:lelz, typical jud na w/ girls noh, to think nga madala jud mi mga guys sa temptation, and i have to say that your right, but not entirely, it all boils down to how faithful the guy is to you. You can consider it as something of a test, a test that he must pass or else.

Going back, i understand how frustrating it is nga naa jud mga tao maki.saw2x sa inyo, and it's unavoidable jud, wala ta ma.hems ana coz we live in an unperfect world. All you can do is be more patient than you are right now, and not sweat the small stuff, if you do that, the small will just be small stuff, no biggie at all.

OnT: Anyway, i think ot na au ko so i'll jump right back into the topic... IMO, i think it does not matter if daghan "amiga" ang inyo bf or not, but rather, how emotionally mature is the guy that should really counts. kay if emotionally mature na jud ang 1 ka guy, even if tanan niya friends kay girls, wala man mahitabo ghapon, coz he knows how to handle himself and his emotions (unless of course he will be the next Bb. gandang hari... )

Sorry don't mean to generalize. I'll just say mostly nalng, not all guys. hehe.
OH well, thumbs up jud ko diri na comment. I mean basta emotionally mature ang guy, doesnt matter kng super daghan girls na friends niya, k he'll know it's just going to be that and nothing more. So even if igat2x to the next level ang girl, kibir sya.
I've yet to meet a guy like that though. LOL. seems like they're rare

[ilovedogs]

issue kaau ni nko sauna sa akong bf, im ok with girl friends... BUT MANY girl friends?!? sige na namo awayan sauna, kay dli ko ksabot nganong daghan xa ug miga nga babae then txt2x galore pa jd. and naa mi away nga usahay muabot nag buwag2x kunuhay.haha and you know what? the moment i stopped nagging him about it, niundang xa. i dunno.. ningstop lng jd xa and i dont say anything na prior to that.. he's still friends with these girls but not textmates na... so bacn if dli kaau ka mu-nag sis, bacn mustop pd xa. let them be boys.

[Blackjellybean27]

issue kaau ni nko sauna sa akong bf, im ok with girl friends... BUT MANY girl friends?!? sige na namo awayan sauna, kay dli ko ksabot nganong daghan xa ug miga nga babae then txt2x galore pa jd. and naa mi away nga usahay muabot nag buwag2x kunuhay.haha and you know what? the moment i stopped nagging him about it, niundang xa. i dunno.. ningstop lng jd xa and i dont say anything na prior to that.. he's still friends with these girls but not textmates na... so bacn if dli kaau ka mu-nag sis, bacn mustop pd xa. let them be boys.

YOU ARE SOOOOO RIGHT sis!!
hehehe...
i stopped nagging na, kibir na jd.
and guess what he stopped texting na jud (hala balik2x jud ko sa chika ko tonight oi, pasensya na mga peeps. hehehe)
and about that girl who manages the resto na cgeg igat2x niya. i havent seen her around did2. ambot naunsa na sya. hehehe. once again, kibir.