What if you fall in love with the "wrong" person?

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mao jud sis. saun ni atong society sobra man ka conservative gud. judgmental sad kaau. sad but it's true.

[shemustbeasnob]

mao jud bro..if you love her, dawaton lng jd nmo cia and tanan2 niya. and since you know her job even before you were lovers, so understand lng sah jd ka karon.love pd guro kay na nmo imong chica.
mao guro mgselos imong chica kay syempre, naa bya ciai lain2 kakuyog2 so she thinks pd nga basn ikw naa pd...so even if in.ana make her feel nga u love her, and u accept her, besides love works in mysterious ways..wa ta kybao mkadaog ka sa lotto or siya, so di na cia kylangan mgwork or pwdy pd nga mangita mo og work together like mg.migrate mo or wat...murag ipalayo lng nmo cia sa iyang naandan na work ba...guide her lng pd...it's the risk that you are taking...

[miramax]

Ako opinyon is...

Your in a dilemma coz, your caught between your emotions and ego.

Which can be a result of 2 things;
a. Falling with the right person at the wrong time (wrong tayming kay naa sya sa stage na she's not emotionally & financially stable)
b. Falling at the right time with the wrong person (right tym kay i guess this is the tym na na lovestruck kah kaso it happens lang na natamaan ka sa usa ka gfh)

Ikaduhang opinyon nako bro, take it from me as a woman, I agree with others who say that your girl is weak. What made me assess her this way, kc , I think I can relate to her situation, I have a family member who have had a brain tumor b4 and we're penny less, during dat period of time. And even before I was younger , I do receive a lot of indecent proposals from men with high statures in our society. It's indeed temptous especially if you're in a situation that you're in dire need of financial assistance and you seem to be helpless.
But I remain strong and It gives me more challenge to have more faith, faith in God & myself that I can surpass these trials. And thank God I did. Sorry bro huh, pero para nako, depende ra gyud nha sa tawo bha. If you want to play with the devil naa ra jud nah nimo.
I do have a lot of friends who are into this line of work, I'm not tryin to prejudice but most of them, although there are other options available but they reject it kay naget used naman sila sa mga material things or way of living nila nah dili galisud bha kay they earn good man ,easy money ika nga.

I'm gonna tell you one example bro, I had this former classmate from USC, who happens to have beauty & brains. She's a typical promdi. She excel in her studies, I mean , she can get a good job even if her course is not in demand nowadays but what she did, she get herself into showbizness prior to that gegarahe sya sa usa ka prominent chinese businessman from Cebu, then later she turned out as a bold star, when she was interviewed, she qouted," yes, I go into this type of career coz my parents are old and I want to give them comfort in life, if I work in an office , how much would i earn monthly,here, you just stripped your clothes and you'll get 30K minimum". So, can you blame me" she added.

Mao na diha! my advice to you bro, have a heart to heart talk with your girl, so you'll figure out if she's TRUE, andun na tayo, someone is ill in her family but's that's not just aint enuf excuse to make.
If she's really true to you she can make a sacrifice, like the way how she sacrifice her body & dignity for her family. Ask her, if she can make that same sacrifice for you , because if she says she can't that means you're not standing in the same ground bro.
And that's the right time for you to "Think & Ponder" if it's worth sacrificing from your end and or if she's worth keeping.
All THE BEST, bro.

[Fern]

hmmmm she will never escaped that lifestyle.... she will forever be marked

do you know why some women who are in the flesh trade dili gusto mu give up bisag naka daog sila ug lotto... its because of something i fail to understand gyud... wa ko kabaw sa reason... basin na addict

sad to say.... gyud

[jom22488]

ana diay jud na basta makatrabahog ingonana?? nga magpangita?? kalain di man siguro.. trabaho ra bya na.. nuon paet pd jd nga situation.. lisuda pd ana nga sit oi.. ang akoa ana ba naa paba nay chance nga ma "interested" pd xa anang iyang mga clients in a sense nga "interested" pd xa nimu??

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Ako opinyon is...

Your in a dilemma coz, your caught between your emotions and ego.

Which can be a result of 2 things;
a. Falling with the right person at the wrong time (wrong tayming kay naa sya sa stage na she's not emotionally & financially stable)
b. Falling at the right time with the wrong person (right tym kay i guess this is the tym na na lovestruck kah kaso it happens lang na natamaan ka sa usa ka gfh)

Ikaduhang opinyon nako bro, take it from me as a woman, I agree with others who say that your girl is weak. What made me assess her this way, kc , I think I can relate to her situation, I have a family member who have had a brain tumor b4 and we're penny less, during dat periodof time. And even before I was younger , I do receive a lot of indecent proposals from men with high statures in our society. It's indeed temptous especially if you're in a situation that you're in dire need of financial assistance and you seem to be helpless.
But I remain strong and It gives me more challenge to have more faith, faith in God & myself that I can surpass these trials. And thank God I did. Sorry bro huh, pero para nako, depende ra gyud nha sa tawo bha. If you want to paly with the devil naa ra jud nah sa tawo.
I do have a lot of friends who are into this line of work, I'm not tryin to prejudice but most of them, although there are other options available but they reject it kay naget used naman sila sa mga material things or way of living nila nah dili galisud bha kay they earn good man ,easy money ika nga.

I'm gonna tell you one example bro, I had this former classmate from USC, who happens to have beauty & brains. She's a typical promdi. She excel in her studies, I mean , she can get a good job even if her course is not in demand nowadays but what she did, she get herself into showbizness prior to that gegarahe sya sa usa ka prominent chinese businessman from Cebu, then later she turned out as a bold star, when she was interviewed, she qouted," yes, I go into this type of career coz my parents are old and I want to give them comfort in life, if I work in an office , how much would i earn monthly,here, you just stripped your clothes and you'll get 30K minimum". So, can you blame me" she added.

Mao na diha! my advice to you bro, have a heart to heart talk with your girl, so you'll figure out if she's TRUE, andun na tayo, someone is ill in her family but's that's not just aint enuf excuse to make.
If she's really true to you she can make a sacrifice, like the way how she sacrifice her body & dignity for her family. Ask her, if she can make that same sacrifice for you , because if she says she can't that means you're not standing in the same ground bro.
And that's the right time for you to "Think & Ponder" if it's worth sacrificing from your end and or if she's worth keeping.
All THE BEST, bro.

i agree to this bro....

[rickflag]

[qoute miramax]
Ako opinyon is...

Your in a dilemma coz, your caught between your emotions and ego.

Which can be a result of 2 things;
a. Falling with the right person at the wrong time (wrong tayming kay naa sya sa stage na she's not emotionally & financially stable)
b. Falling at the right time with the wrong person (right tym kay i guess this is the tym na na lovestruck kah kaso it happens lang na natamaan ka sa usa ka gfh)

Ikaduhang opinyon nako bro, take it from me as a woman, I agree with others who say that your girl is weak. What made me assess her this way, kc , I think I can relate to her situation, I have a family member who have had a brain tumor b4 and we're penny less, during dat periodof time. And even before I was younger , I do receive a lot of indecent proposals from men with high statures in our society. It's indeed temptous especially if you're in a situation that you're in dire need of financial assistance and you seem to be helpless.
But I remain strong and It gives me more challenge to have more faith, faith in God & myself that I can surpass these trials. And thank God I did. Sorry bro huh, pero para nako, depende ra gyud nha sa tawo bha. If you want to paly with the devil naa ra jud nah sa tawo.
I do have a lot of friends who are into this line of work, I'm not tryin to prejudice but most of them, although there are other options available but they reject it kay naget used naman sila sa mga material things or way of living nila nah dili galisud bha kay they earn good man ,easy money ika nga.

I'm gonna tell you one example bro, I had this former classmate from USC, who happens to have beauty & brains. She's a typical promdi. She excel in her studies, I mean , she can get a good job even if her course is not in demand nowadays but what she did, she get herself into showbizness prior to that gegarahe sya sa usa ka prominent chinese businessman from Cebu, then later she turned out as a bold star, when she was interviewed, she qouted," yes, I go into this type of career coz my parents are old and I want to give them comfort in life, if I work in an office , how much would i earn monthly,here, you just stripped your clothes and you'll get 30K minimum". So, can you blame me" she added.

Mao na diha! my advice to you bro, have a heart to heart talk with your girl, so you'll figure out if she's TRUE, andun na tayo, someone is ill in her family but's that's not just aint enuf excuse to make.
If she's really true to you she can make a sacrifice, like the way how she sacrifice her body & dignity for her family. Ask her, if she can make that same sacrifice for you , because if she says she can't that means you're not standing in the same ground bro.
And that's the right time for you to "Think & Ponder" if it's worth sacrificing from your end and or if she's worth keeping.
All THE BEST, bro.

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i agree to this bro....

you got a point mga sis. good for both of you you're both strong girls. i think i even know the person you're referring to kay we were school mates pod sa USC. everyday we are faced with various life challenges but we have different ways of solving it. ika nga depende sa diskarte lang. it's good to know that there are still people like you that are willing to stand on your principles. i sometimes thought it's rarity these days. i am inspired upon learning this.

though i am not condemning her ha. i do love her, and will try my best to understand her the best that i can. i just feel lang gyud nga basin ako ray maka guide niya back to the right path, ambot lang naa na siguro koy Messiah complex. i tried telling her that many times, believe me, pero her commitment to her family is really very strong for her. i can relate to that since if i were in her place siguro i would do anything too to save a family member. kung makadaug pa lang kog lotto solve na siguro tanan namong problems.

[Maikeru]

@TS: Well, naa rajud na nimo bro. But things can change man bro, but it will take a lot of courage, patience and hardwork lang. I'm not sure where ko nakaHear or read this (maybe here in istorya). There were a couple nga ang wife is addicted to prohibited drugs. What the husband did, he tried to change his wife one step at a time. and eventually it worked. But as I've said, it takes a lot of courage, patience and hardwork.
If you love her, then you'd be willing to take that sacrifice to change her life.

[RainDrizzle07]

mao jud sis. saun ni atong society sobra man ka conservative gud. judgmental sad kaau. sad but it's true.

dli conservative oie.. judgmental pa noon, close/narrow minded, kusog mo discriminate & mo stigmatized
mao na ato society!! conservative bah... d jud ko motou anah

( pero dli lang nako tananon kay naa sad ko kaila na conservative na mga taw in the truest sense of the word)

The very reason why I empathize with CSW (commercial *** worker) because when I was 15 I am already an advocate of Adolescents Reproductive Health,STD/HIV AIDS, Substance Abuse..we do symposium/talks on schools & Brgy.

During that time we also attended seminars, trainings (Bohol, Tagaytay, Manila) para we will become effective in what we do, naka storya jud mi ato ug HIV/AIDS positive na person and pag 17 nako thats the first time na naay "recorded" na AIDS sa CEBU 5 person to sila pero in different Brgy.

And we do counseling as well, so sa counseling did2 mastorya tanan why nasulod sa ingon ana na situation, or why they get pregnant at an early age, why they do drugs. Louy jud baya.Sure maka ingon jud ka na

"10% of Life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is made up of how you react to what happens to you."

pero ako masulti ana na quotes kay its easier said than done, kay if you were in their shoes, if you were a confused adolescent,how would you know na what you have done? will lead you to that thing? okey ra cguro if you have a complete and happy family or a parent to guide you pero ug ingon ana na you have no one to turn too for survival, for security na mokapit jud kas patalim oie, or mopilit jud ka sa asa imong tou makahatag nmo ug security.

And then our society sos!! manlibak daun..daghan au negative/side comments anang mga taw nga naa anang sitwasyona, dli nlng jud mosabot nano na ingon anah, but then again we are train to see the negativity of everything and anything, we don't bother to really see what's behind the facade, what's the reason behind why an individual choose to do what they have done or what they are doing.

Kuyaw ng mga adik oie kay ug ma praning na cla, pd na cla mo patay, daghan nmn gani gpamatay.
AT risk ang CSW kay pd na cla masakit and makahatag ug sakit.
Graveh ang psychological effect sa teenage mom/dad.

pero ato society gamay ra au naka pangutana, unsa kayha rason nano nag adik2x xa? ang makit an kay

"ah bogoy man gd ng bata-a, asa man diay padungan kyog2x mga adik" kundi "kriminal mana ug pamilya gd mao ng ma ingon ana sad"

or

"mao na kay namurikat man mao ng nasakit, mereci!!" "sus, ggabaan na oie kay tungod nya, nag buwag c mao ni mao nah"

or

"dah kay bata pa gani nag igat2x nmn may ra jud!" "bigaon, kundatan mang dako"

tsk..tsk..tsk... ana jud ang masulti.. ug makit an daun bah.. sad but true..


(ey bro xnxa if I am ranting.. lol.. just feed up with all the bullshit! hehehe..)

I'll pray for you and for your gf.. ^_^
if ever dli magka kamo at least
you both know na what you feel
towards her is genuine and that you really
do whatever it takes to make ur situation work,
pero kay against all odds man jud
ang importante you take a step ^_^

[RainDrizzle07]

hmmmm she will never escaped that lifestyle.... she will forever be marked

do you know why some women who are in the flesh trade dili gusto mu give up bisag naka daog sila ug lotto... its because of something i fail to understand gyud... wa ko kabaw sa reason... basin na addict

sad to say.... gyud

Addiction maybe and also they are already used to it.
mao ng uban bsag naharuhay na ang life
kay nakabana ug foreigner or to some who are
really lucky & wise naka tigom ug dako
unya nag negosyo..kay..mangita jud anang lifestyle
nla before..

What they really need is a counseling or pa rehab sila
Psychological nmn effect ana gd.. ^_^