Sakto ba ni, Staying in a relationship out of FEAR or PITY?

[inc-pankz]

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gugmang kalouy is no good at all sa relationship. .

[jennilexshop]

none of the above bad na tnan

[angelbymistake27]

if you only hold on to the relationship just because you felt pity on him...better let him go...you are not loving the person..and the more you do that..you are hurting him blindly and so with yourself....why not confront him and let go...move on with your individual lives after...

[sweetplayer]

pity is not love..

[gcc4426]

kaluoy sd anang "out of pity" ...

kasakit.

[ramsgood]

i remember way back katong naa ko clasmate ,naa siya BF but ni ana siya namo na dli na daw nya love ya bf nagdugay lng sila kay mahadlok siya sa ya bf and nalooy rasad siya....so we try to understand sa situation dn dapatan daw siya sa ya bf usahay mo skul siya naa siya bun og sa iya bukton...then one afternoon ako og ako mga barkada together with my fren nagkyog me panggawas sa skul nya naa ya bf sa gawas naghuwat nya....as we walk padong sa puj stop nag away sila nya gibira ya buhok sa bf nya gi hanaan siya og sumbag...at that moment wala me kapugong sa amo self ako giduol ang guy ako gi ingnan nga "bai yaw na ingon ana u gf uyab pa gani mo mag ingon ana naka kahilas gud nimo" dn nitubag sad ang guy nga dli daw me mag apil2x kay wala me labot uyab daw to nya so nainit me tanan ako siya gi ingnan nga close fren man gud na nako nya imo ing anaon at that time amo gikulata ang guy kay totaly napungot namn jud me hilas kaau mo sulti...........then amo gi ingnan ang ako close fren nga biyaa nana imo bf wala kay kalipay ana puros nalang kahadlok og pag antos imo madawat sa ya mga kamot.............mas dako pa ang gubot nga maabot kng dli ka mobiya ana...

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kng dli xa makigbuwag sa ya bf mas mag antos siya bati man jud ng mostay ka sa relation nga kalooy lng og kahadlok ang imo na feel u cant realy feel the real happines of love...mas maau pa nga sa sau ya na biyaan ang ya bf kay mas dako ang gubot ang moabot if magpadayon siya kay ang ya family og frens mo react man jud na kadugayan......

[ronz_rodz]

To have someone stay with you out of guilt, pity or fear...is not real love.
To have someone with you because it makes YOU feel good...is not real love.
To be with someone because it makes THEM feel good...is not real love.
If love MUST have a promise or guarantee of tomorrow, it is not real love.

[michzy]

better let go of the relationship kay wala jud padulngan. Out of pity or fear, same ra gihapon. I have a relationship before nga i only answered him because he was so kind to me, and out of pity na pud. He struggled much just to win me. Although, i given him chance, nothing grows in my heart, so keep my agony short, I told him to end the relationship and the effect,he was very hurt.

Better not to say in relationship when it is only for pity or you just afraid of him/her.!

[sweetplayer]

hadlok mubuwag kay mahadlok- mahadlok na mawa sya nimo or mahadlok na dili ma ok ang usa.
hadlok mubuwag kay pity? - kani mas luoy gali if d ka mubuwag tungod kay nahadlok ka kay ur only hurting ur partner slowly. for sure ang comitment wala na coz its just for the sake nga na pity ka nya.
depende ra na kung unsa iya na feel sa iya partner gyud. naa niya ang problema wala sa iya partner kay sya galibog.

[ronz_rodz]

bisag unsaon nato og hatag mga advices sa atong mga friends nga naglibog sa ilang love life " if they can't control their emotion over something they cant do.. " nothing will happen... even thou it is difficult for them to loose someone dear to them out of fear of not getting another one... it's useless....

wake up guys!!! dont be afraid of loosing someone .... someone better will come to you...