Where and How to File an Annullment?

[tamse]

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bro, talk it over sa.. ayaw diritso2x... agree ko sa uban diri.. kay usahay ra ba tungod sa atoa kalagot we decide mistakenly... istoryaha sa ninyo, warn her..tell her how you feel... kung gusto ka mag wild sa iya atubangan para makita niya nga you're feed up, then pag wild.. ipagawas sa na imo gibati wui... ells, let her live her life, leave her... but ayaw sa nang annulment.. let her feel unsa xa kung wa xa and vice versa.

[salbahis]

bro, talk it over sa.. ayaw diritso2x... agree ko sa uban diri.. kay usahay ra ba tungod sa atoa kalagot we decide mistakenly... istoryaha sa ninyo, warn her..tell her how you feel... kung gusto ka mag wild sa iya atubangan para makita niya nga you're feed up, then pag wild.. ipagawas sa na imo gibati wui... ells, let her live her life, leave her... but ayaw sa nang annulment.. let her feel unsa xa kung wa xa and vice versa.

you got some point but how can you talk to a person who is not willing to listen?, talking is only good if the other is willing if not then it's just a waste of time..., thou i have some other option i still have to talk to her father weither she like it or not she will listen to her father.... ang problema naa baya to HB basin ako unya hinungdan... so i have to find the right timing....

[unsay_ngalan_nimo]

give her an ultimatum.. then leave her kung dili siya... para mak tate sa iya own medicine...

[glamconnection]

bro...i think you dont have to rush things.. talk it over..and one thing is, i cant see any heavy grounds
that the judge may consider for your marriage to be annulled. Have you talked to any lawyer regarding
on what grounds u could file? Coz being laagan and a not responsible wife is not a heavy ground for
annulment, basin mag gasto2 lng ka and then ma deny ra imo case. If la na jud ka mahimo sa inyo
relationship, walk over. Leave her sah and let her do things she wanna do.. that would be a good time
to think if you still want her back or you would wait for 7 long years, so you could file an annulment.
Iv gone thru it. talking over, marriage counselling and everything. Then i finally took a stand and filed
the annulment,. The grounds were psychological incapacitated for me cause i am way too young than
he is when we got married..and infedility for the other side for being babaero and everything. strong grounds.
It took a while, but it was worth it.

sakto ni iya bro...kung pwede pabarangay sa mo nga magbuwag mo ug dili man motunga bya-i lang sa..basi makarealize ra na cya ug dili man anha na nga time cguro...hope wala mo mga anak..pero mura man wala kai wala nimo mamention...basi kulang ramo ug bata bro kai bsan unsa kalaagan sa babae once manganak na machange gyud...ako laagan man ko nawagtang sa dihang nanganak nako kai mingawon man ka sa imo anak gusto nimo naa sa imo duol 24 hours gyud

[radnop]

everything is worth another chance bro... try to talk things over sa kay basin magmahay ra ka inigkahuman.. kinahanglan sure na jud ka sa pag buhat ana nga decision.. huna hunaa sa ug kadaghan hangtod nga ma pul-an nalang ka ug huna huna unya di na mo mag annul hihihihi.. joke ra bro ha..

bitaw bro think of it many times jud... kay di na mabalik kung maputol inyo kaminyoon

[tamse]

you got some point but how can you talk to a person who is not willing to listen?, talking is only good if the other is willing if not then it's just a waste of time..., thou i have some other option i still have to talk to her father weither she like it or not she will listen to her father.... ang problema naa baya to HB basin ako unya hinungdan... so i have to find the right timing....

mao sad ang gi ingon sa akoa close friend when i share to her your story, nga dapat nmo istoryahon ang family so that its clear na its not you who's the problem, that its their daughter. if she wont listen, then make her listen to you. hold her tight in your hands if you must to let her see your pain and your feelings, just like drama's in the movie.dba? sometimes you must force someone to see the reality. anyway, if you dont mind me asking, how long have you been married to her? do you have kids? im asking this bcoz if you have a kid, kawawa jd au ang bata.

[salbahis]

mao sad ang gi ingon sa akoa close friend when i share to her your story, nga dapat nmo istoryahon ang family so that its clear na its not you who's the problem, that its their daughter. if she wont listen, then make her listen to you. hold her tight in your hands if you must to let her see your pain and your feelings, just like drama's in the movie.dba? sometimes you must force someone to see the reality. anyway, if you dont mind me asking, how long have you been married to her? do you have kids? im asking this bcoz if you have a kid, kawawa jd au ang bata.

we don't have kids...., 1 year paming married pero almost 3 years ming nag-live-in... i guess this the consequences sa una nga dili kaayo ko strict sa iya... coz i respect her rights that's why im expecting her to do the same....

i did it once nisamot nga ako jud gigunitan iyang kamot... nigara noon ug samot... even iya sister gibadlong sya di gihpon patoo... we plan to see a marriage counselor pero wa nitunga ako ra tawn...

i did gave her and ultimatum ako na siya gipalayas... pero mobalik gihapon... like karon manglaag napud sila karong saturday adto south uban napud anang iyang mga barkada....di siya mouban sa amo family affair kaming tanan mangadto pero siya ra dili mokuyog kay manglaag sila...

i told her not to return home.... plano tana nako i-ikiha iya mga barkada kay mao sige pangalgal... pwede bana?, i dont care if she treat me as her worst enemy, i don't care....

like i said talk is only effective if one is willing else it's just waste of time...

[tamse]

we don't have kids...., 1 year paming married pero almost 3 years ming nag-live-in... i guess this the consequences sa una nga dili kaayo ko strict sa iya... coz i respect her rights that's why im expecting her to do the same....

i did it once nisamot nga ako jud gigunitan iyang kamot... nigara noon ug samot... even iya sister gibadlong sya di gihpon patoo... we plan to see a marriage counselor pero wa nitunga ako ra tawn...

i did gave her and ultimatum ako na siya gipalayas... pero mobalik gihapon... like karon manglaag napud sila karong saturday adto south uban napud anang iyang mga barkada....di siya mouban sa amo family affair kaming tanan mangadto pero siya ra dili mokuyog kay manglaag sila...

i told her not to return home.... plano tana nako i-ikiha iya mga barkada kay mao sige pangalgal... pwede bana?, i dont care if she treat me as her worst enemy, i don't care....

like i said talk is only effective if one is willing else it's just waste of time...

hmmm..have you tried to talk to her friends? ask them if what do they want from you two, do they want your marriage to work out or not? if they do, then if they dont mind helping you to make your wife give time to you and your marriage... do you love your wife? is that what you call love still there? coz if there is, ako pa nmo... akoa kidnapon ako wife. but let her family know... dont tell her where are you going.. take her somewhere na kamo lang jud duha, and there's no other people but you... dont know where, but do some search dba? thats if, you really love her. try this for the last time...at least some few days lang jud bro. make her feel what remains of you for her..char! what do you think?

[salbahis]

hmmm..have you tried to talk to her friends? ask them if what do they want from you two, do they want your marriage to work out or not? if they do, then if they dont mind helping you to make your wife give time to you and your marriage... do you love your wife? is that what you call love still there? coz if there is, ako pa nmo... akoa kidnapon ako wife. but let her family know... dont tell her where are you going.. take her somewhere na kamo lang jud duha, and there's no other people but you... dont know where, but do some search dba? thats if, you really love her. try this for the last time...at least some few days lang jud bro. make her feel what remains of you for her..char! what do you think?

after what she did i don't think there is still love left.... for 4 years nag pakahilom lang ko ug nisabot di man sad pwede nga ako nalang sad pasagdan ako kaugalingon, about her friends.... i already tried to talk to her friends... still sige gihapon sila gal2x.... that's why im asking kung pwede ba sila makiha para ma pugos jud sila ug undang...

i really want our marriage to work.... pero unsaon man kung sige niya lawgawon.... mas mo uban siya sa iyang mga barkada kay sa akoa...., i just bailed out this morning... theres no turning back this time... if she want to save whats left... bahala siya basta im leaving her na... if she will return home tonight baga na jud siyag nawng...

everything has limitations and i just reach mine...

[baldokadyu]

Forget your marriage kay wa pa gani ka makasal, annulment na imo gihunahuna.