Sakto ba ni, Staying in a relationship out of FEAR or PITY?

[maitoots]

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the two choices are not right sis...either way,naa jud sayop ato bsan unsaon pa...lisod na if mukagat ka out of pity coz you will never be happy..samot na ug out of fear kay mura kag living dead ana..most of the time kay in danger imu life kung what pa possible worst case scenario mahitabo..dont torture yourself with this kind if decsion..you'll ruin your life...

sis namatay na daw ya friend oi.. wa ka nagbasa sa top??

[Peenut]

Do what's best in your relationship even it makes you happy or it hurts a lot..

Cause there are no wrong decisions in life....we are only given chances to make it right.

[ierolennail]

sis namatay na daw ya friend oi.. wa ka nagbasa sa top??

na post na nko sis una ko nkabasa...kaluoy sad ani oie....

[Lee_Ryan]

dli kasuway nko ani sauna.sakit au.haha

[andch81]

i think its because the fear of doing sumthng new..bec the girl is use na that the guy is there always ... and feeling though he dnt love the guy he just cnt leave him bec he cnt see herself doing things alone... but for sure if she finds another love...that fear would not matter anymore...

[salot]

tnx for the opinion guys.. my friend died a week ago.. I nu she's happy.. she settled everything before she go.. may she rest in peace.

@TS:

can you share us the story of this thread that you post? na intriga lang ko bah na ang imong friend dili siya maka biya sa iya bf coz nahadlok siya and malooy siya. then suddenly she died happy...

medyo naglibog lang ko gamay sa imong pag ask ug advise bah.

and by the way, what happened to your friend? did she commit suicide?

just want you to share if that is ok with you. thanks.

[public7enemy]

i think u live thinking with no choice....

[lovejing25]

well, ngau xa advice nakO den wako ka advice.. nobody nus naa day xa lain nga nka feel xag love.. ngkastorya mn daw cla sa iyang bf nga nahadlokan nya..at first samok pajud kau..hantod wa xa kahibaw iya buhaton no cry lang daw xa hantod nihilak ang guy.. niingon nga I WILL SET U FREE..

dat was d last tym nga nagkita cla kai my friend died nadsgraxa sa motor..

heavy kaU.. pinaka last nya katok kai ang katong guy na iyang na love. hai naku.. nalooy ko sa iyang EX.. kai naa gihapOn sinz pag adto sa hospital till gilubong..

[destinee]

staying for ALL the wrong reasons..
dili na xa healthy sa heart..

let go..
move on..

[vahnhelsing]

bati kaau ang relationship nga ang haligi kalooy ug kahadlok...
lisod na mogawas sa usa karelationship nga ingon ana ang gisugdan...
naa koy frend nga ingon ana, awa karon pwerting mahay niya
kay la jud syay love sa guy, nalooy lang sya plus solsol sa uban
nga sulayi lang basin mainlove ra ka... awa karon wa jud epek ang pagsulay
nya napuno na noon sa pagmahay....when you get into a relationship be sure you
love the person not just because you want to forget someone or what so ever...