DILEMMA~ ON LOVE AND CAREER~ need advice!

[Beth-MAVPS]

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well, if love jod nimo sya so be with him na lang...coz im sure stable pod na sya didto and hapit namn kaha pod mo kaslon....makakita ra lage ka ug work didto nga ma well compensated pod ka plus makauban pa jod nimo imo fiancee

[maitoots]

dont give up lang sa your job, try lang una to visit your gf sa gwas.. after 1 visit cguro you'll know na what to prioritize.. lisud sad kaau if imo na i give up dayn imo work nya what id dli d ay ka gnahan ddto... all things can be worked out rman it's just a matter of compromise

[Soul Doctor]

wud u sacrifice ur job if u wer on my place?

I will think of myself first.
What if the relationship will not work there?
You would lose a lot.

[ierolennail]

its really hard to decide on that matter..but as you said,its hard to get in the company you are working right now and you we're lucky enough to be in it..you've work hard for that and i dnt think you're fiancee would be selfish enough to deprive you of what you achieved..maybe she can wait..if she's stable there and if you can find a good paying job there,then that would be good..but what if you cant?? people will always start frm scratch if ever mu migrate sila..that wont be easy samot na if nice na ayo kag job here..

[scytheb_2501]

sulti sa sis unsa imo company ky bacn imo fiancee doesnt think its that "elite" as you have described.. hehehe.. mao ganahan xa dad.on nlng ka abroad

[gt_mugen]

well, f u say it s hard to weight out things then... for us who s reading this thread as well can not provide the exact advises that u would want.

the end would tell that ur going to b on ur own with regards to this dilemma

[ian_1983]

If you really LOVE the guy then go for it.Besides its a good oppurtunity for you and your future family to be. For now enjoy lang ka sa imo work cguro gyud....but what would happen 10-15 yrs afterwards...will that career be the same as what you had expected as before.? awahi raba ang pag mahay gyud.

Dont you worry...somehow you will find a way of getting a new career abroad and be successfull..That's how we Filipinos are.

[gilded_butterflies]

need more advice please...

[mikesanjose*poet]

who or what are your priorities in life..... then you will know what to do... you have to sacrifice, take a risk..

“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.”


“Often the difference between a successful person and a failure is not one has better abilities or ideas, but the courage that one has to bet on one's ideas, to take a calculated risk - and to act.”

[kacute.nako]

@TS:taronga og huna2 jud tawn..kay di bya nato tag.an ang panahon bcn dli d.i mgwrk inung relationship dd2..kay ang pgmahay rba dli rba mg.una..dli ko mosulti og adto,,dli xd ko msulti og aya adto..
sa imoha ra jud na ang decision..