hey guys,i dnt know if this thread is already existing but if not,then i'l proceed...i know,the issue regarding this is still quite confusing..we are all divided in believing such notion..but then again, i do think that opinion does vary especially to those single ones who likes to feel they are ok and the paired ones who sometimes insist that nothing compares than being with someone...what really is happiness anyway?do these things have to clash to know and experience such feeling?is it really a myth or not??
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08-04-2009, 03:39 PM #1Elite Member
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single and happy:myth or not
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08-04-2009, 03:41 PM #2
well i think everyone's definition of happiness is different..
look at my sister..
she hasnt had a boy friend her entire life and she is relatively happy
honestly i cant picture here ever having a boyfriend wahaha
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08-04-2009, 03:48 PM #3Elite Member
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precisely...we have our own definition,wether having a partner or not..but then the question goes,is being single and happy a myth or not?heheh
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08-04-2009, 03:53 PM #4
not a myth... i've known many who find happiness in being single... maybe its the mindset of the person or the passion he/she is into..... seldom im a happy being alone though im not really a loner after all..
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08-04-2009, 04:23 PM #5Elite Member
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i dnt think being single and happy is a myth...its not only basing from experience coz i knw at times we long for something but that dsnt mean that we deprive ourselves being happy just because we dnt have a pair..that would be unfair i ges...happiness comes from within...we shouldnt let other people hold our happiness for us coz that would be dangerous. we can still be happy without the things we wanted...we just have to let it grow in us...
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08-04-2009, 04:36 PM #6C.I.A.
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it's not a myth..
of course we can be single and yet be happy about it. murag sumpay ato imo thread na mastering the art or aloneness. being single does not mean being alone. if only we learn to master the art of loving and respecting more of ourselves then we would not be crying by some lost love.. because in every loss we gain.. we gain the experience and the lessons we learned. sometimes we also have to be alone for us to be able to appreciate the companionship of others. happiness.. it's not sumthing we can buy or we can beg from others... it should truly come from within.. before we can say we are happy with the companionship of others..
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08-04-2009, 04:39 PM #7Elite Member
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of course sis..gisumpay ni nko sa pikas..hehehe..its really something to think about man jud..and i really learned by reading and undrstnding it...
Originally Posted by maitoots
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08-04-2009, 04:40 PM #8
As what they say "Be contented of what you have and you will be happy" so if you are contented of being single there is no doubt that you are happy, but sometimes during the night if you feel lonely sleeping alone and you need someone very dear aside from your family member to talk to and feeling lonely then being single will not make you happy.I think it is dependent upon personal preferences.
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08-04-2009, 04:45 PM #9C.I.A.
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Originally Posted by ierolennail
hahaha murag grabe2 jud na imo naagi an dah kay murag grabe man imo soul searching ek-ek
relax lang gamay gud.. life is so beautiful and besides time is still so young..
besides there are just somethings nga ma learn ra nmo along the way
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08-04-2009, 04:50 PM #10Elite Member
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this is precisely what i'm trying to learn and prove to myself that ist ok..right?heheeh...but i'm just intrigue by it...i like to research eh..na consultant nlng ta ko..hahha Originally Posted by maitoots
hahaha murag grabe2 jud na imo naagi an dah kay murag grabe man imo soul searching ek-ek
relax lang gamay gud.. life is so beautiful and besides time is still so young..
besides there are just somethings nga ma learn ra nmo along the way
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