HELP: I'm slowly falling in love with a married guy

[scytheb_2501]

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hala love story mode na...
luoya pd TS oi hehe

OT pd ko.. maw, strya pd na lab story ninyo ni r...

advice nko sa TS. maam ikaligo lang nah bacn hormones ra nah pero kng dli japon mawagtang ang feeling always remember "ang manok nga hiniktan mas.dali dakpon pero pgbantay sa tag.iya"

[chottdae]

@ TS, ikaw ra jd mkastop sa imo feelings.. wa nay lain.. know mn ka na sayop dba? pray for it nalng, hinay2x lng sa... maka recover rasd nya ka

@ the married guy... bilib ko nimo kay imo panindigan imo pagkaminyo, ur not selfish. i-pm nlng si TS ha?talk to her pra ma clear ang tann.. isave ang friendship

[kchisiru]

I find it difficult to sleep right now. Sakitan ayo ko sa iya. He never values my feelings. I know its wrong to fall for him, yet I believe in something.

Sorry for the mess fellow istoryans.

[masterwong]

oi naa mi daghan single adto mn jud ka sa double.. hehehe. im sure daghan single diri parehas nako. hehehe.

[grier]

@TS: sis.. i think nasakitan ra ka sa pag buwag sa imu bf.. nangita lang kag ka divert-an sa imu attention. imu feelings.. xa man imu na kita.. i really dont think love na imu na feel sis..
SORRY

[cp103]

I don't know what came over me, everytime I see him it's like I wanted to know him better. I'm very much aware of his pain and agony. I want to comfort him but my feelings slowly betrays me.

I just recently lost someone who went with the 3rd kind, now my feeling's slowly diverting to him. HELP!

Hi sis, it seems that you're in a very ironic and sticky situation. Ironic in the sense that you want to help the guy get over his pain and suffering, but by doing so, you are starting to fall for him. Well, this is my take on your situation sis, i do hope you don't get offended coz some of the things I'm about to tell you are unintentionally drastic/harsh. But before anything else, maybe you could tell me more by answering these questions first.

1. How well do you know the guy?

2. How old is he?

3. Do you see him often or maybe you talk to him often perhaps ?

I just recently lost someone who went with the 3rd kind,

4. When you said recently, how recent is it? days? weeks? months?


The reason I asked you about...

1. is because of the fact that MAYBE the guy is just making a facade. I could be wrong you know, and i hope I am, but we must consider the fact that there are a lot of guys out there nowadays that would do anything and everything just to get a girls attention, and by that i mean making up stories so that the girl will pity him so that it would easier for him to weasel into the girls affections. But like i said, i could be wrong but it would be safe it we consider this as being probable, especially since you are good looking sis. Provided that it is you in your avatar.

2. Well, it's kinda related to the #1 reason, and that is, the older the guy is, the more experienced he is when it comes to making up stories that would seem to be true. Especially to girls that are young and innocent.

3. Seeing him or just by even talking to him often, you are allowing yourself to be vulnerable to developing feelings for the person. I bet that most of the time nowadays, that you can't seem to get him out of your head and would want to find a reason to communicate w/ him no matter what, right?

4. Related to #3 reason, It wouldn't surprise me that you would start falling for the guy especially since you just "RECENTLY" lost a guy for another person.

If the guy is REALLY having problems about his married life, and not just making up stories to get your affection. Then all you have to do is decide whether you want to continue falling for the guy and accept the consequences of getting involved w/ a married man, or you can walk away now before everything is too late.

If you do choose the former option than the later, then ask yourself these questions. "IF YOU WE'RE IN THE PLACE OF THE GUY'S WIFE,HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SOMEBODY TOOK HIM AWAY FROM YOU?",and you should know how this feels since you recently came from such a situation and another question "ARE YOU WILLING TO BE A PERSON THAT WILL DESTROY SOMEBODY'S MARRIED LIFE?"

I know this is quite a stretch but I'm just pointing out to you some facts that you need to accept.

Well, what ever your decision will be sis, I hope you will always consider and accept the consequences. Good luck and God bless.

[kchisiru]

@cp103:
Bro, I think you need to read the whole post before posting.

I need to sleep na. Night pips

[kchisiru]

Ahak, I keep on crying, I cant sleep. You broke my heart Ching

[darkdevil]

Cos all of the stars are fading away
Just try not to worry you'll see them some day
Take what you need and be on your way
And stop crying your heart out...


hehehe..kantahan nalang

[isabel_marie]

Gee, I'm so shocked Chi. You showed your feelings here in the post.

Dugay na ko nakabantay sa imong feelings Chi and I'm going to say this again (even write this down in your post) "Despite of the turbulent relationship I had, I will always be FAITHFUL with my wife." I made my oath with her and I'm going to stick it in my heart.

I know these words would be a blow but please understand pud. Reality is harsh yet if you learn from it and make it your ally, it will make you strong.

Sorry Chi, don't waste your time on me. If I'm going to die a loner in this world so be it...as long as I did not defile my oath with my wife.

I will a friend Chi but no more, no less.

grabeh.! bilib ko nmu bro.. napa jud diay mga laki na pareha nmu!!! hats off jud!!!!
ma reinforce jud akong trust sa akong fiance tungod ane emu gebuhat bro..

as for the TS
sis if a guy really likes you then he will fight for you.. its quite obvious from his post na he is a good and responsible person.. something that i cant say for you.. i suggest na you take a graceful exit.. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.. sis babae pud ka, and your boyfriend left you for somebody else.. how would you feel if in time nana pud ky husband and another girl would make a move on him.? what goes around comes around.