Clingy, Manipulative and a Nagger Boyfriend: What to do?

[cptn_star]

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storyaon....kng mahusay, obserbahan, kng maayo, padayon, kng wa'y kausaban, buwagan....simple

[hittenmitsurugi]

storyaon....kng mahusay, obserbahan, kng maayo, padayon, kng wa'y kausaban, buwagan....simple

i agree with cptn_star...always try to resolve an issue first by talking about it. Since his problem is being too possessive, you have to explain to him nga this attitude makes you uncomfortable. Let him know nga relationships are built on trust and that you are not doing anything to break that trust. Sa imong part, you have to give him an assurance nga ang nahitabo the other night was unexpected. Missy, sometimes you have to show resilience if ang guy magpakita nga ganahan siya i-control ang imong prede nga buhaton ug di pwede nga buhaton...ayaw jud i-allow nga ang guy ang magsulti nimo what to do and what not to do kay before he came into your life, you pretty much were able to do anything you want and this should be the same case even with him in your life(except of course doing the bad things) good luck though and have a nice day

[emjee17]

Feel ra nako Naa man sad gud uban dala na sa package. Hehehe basin possessive lang jud kaayo siya or seloso. Anyways, I have that same attitude man sad, kanang sigeh ug balik sa pangutana, until nana say lain lalis mahitabo. The good thing, siya maoy ni adjust for me, but sa ako part, I did something pod para mawala/ma lessen ang kana nga attitude. Sad to say, wala nalang mi

I think normal ra man tingae ng mkalimot ka ug text. Mkasabot sad unta siya samot birthday pa jud. Natural naman ng ma busy, then dili mkatext.

Mao ganeh akong nahuna-huna-an, nga normal ra ang makalimot, "honest mistake" kung baga labi nag mga bayot ug mga babai akong kuyog nga way kahumanan ang chika.

Feel nako mura naman gud kog natuok niya, dili nako ganahan ba.

[emjee17]

storyaon....kng mahusay, obserbahan, kng maayo, padayon, kng wa'y kausaban, buwagan....simple

Thanks. Simple i-sulti pero di dayun buhaton. Pero anyway, i'll try your advice. I mean some parts sa imung advice, like storya-an.

Kadaghan naman mi ga buwag-balik pero still the same, kapila nami naka encounter ug ingon aning issues. Often times, maka huna-huna ko if ako ba jud ang naay depekto sa among relasyon kay murg wa nalang koy sakto nabuhat para niya. Tanan sayop.

Kapoyan nakog hatag ug chances ba niya mao lang diay gihapon ang mahitabo.

[emjee17]

i agree with cptn_star...always try to resolve an issue first by talking about it. Since his problem is being too possessive, you have to explain to him nga this attitude makes you uncomfortable. Let him know nga relationships are built on trust and that you are not doing anything to break that trust. Sa imong part, you have to give him an assurance nga ang nahitabo the other night was unexpected. Missy, sometimes you have to show resilience if ang guy magpakita nga ganahan siya i-control ang imong prede nga buhaton ug di pwede nga buhaton...ayaw jud i-allow nga ang guy ang magsulti nimo what to do and what not to do kay before he came into your life, you pretty much were able to do anything you want and this should be the same case even with him in your life(except of course doing the bad things) good luck though and have a nice day

ayaw jud i-allow nga ang guy ang magsulti nimo what to do and what not to do

Mao jud ni ang akong pirmi i-deny sa akong kaugalingon. =c
Nga wala ko niya gi control, nga ako ra ning hallucinations. Diay to, he's really manipulating me.


thanks diay! ^_^

[technowar]

I am even possessive but not to the point nga mag-control ko niya. Mura diay uyab niya ang iyang kaugalingon, ma'am because he is controlling you on what to do. So if unsa gae, you are his puppet and he is your master.

[summerfall]

hehhehe best ana sis is ayaw paanara nga mg ingon ana sya...d sya dapit mgmanipulate nimo..like moingon sya nga ihatag lng nimo ang gift then pwede naka molakaw...ang mahitabo ana is mawad-an ka ug mga miga..lisod kau uyab ingon ana..best advice..sukli ang reason out..if gahi japon aw byai.hehhe..yaw jd pa under.

[Rizzy]

if a guy does that to me.. i would definitely break up with him that instant! hahahaha!

[Rizzy]

wala pa gani mo naminyo.. ingon ana na siya.. unsa man tawon siya.. unsa na lang kaha kung magminyo mo.. PINIRISO naka??

[technowar]

if a guy does that to me.. i would definitely break up with him that instant! hahahaha!

I doubt