LOVE vs/and RELIGION

[apple_jane]

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Don't let someone take control over you. Think about the implications if you are going to convert to her religion. And when you asked her if magbulag mo if dili ka mag convert tas ingon dayn cya "i'll think about it".. what? Haller, i know religion is really important but that's not a basis of love. In the end, it's up to you ra man.

[Pixie77]

Haller?! You're not even married yet she's already making demands as serious as that? I think that is SOOOOO wrong!!! Bisan gani minyo na mo wala gihapon sya right.... religion is a part of us, our faith... mao dili dapat ipamugos na sa usa ka tawo.

If she really loves you, she'll respect YOU and your religion...

Try to ask her this: "how would you feel if i ask you to convert to my religion?"... that way mabati niya kung unsa imong gibati karon.

Love is about compromise BOTH WAYS! Dili kay usa lang kaw tawo mo sige ug adjust... kamo duha dapat. Invite pod sya sa imo church para tabla mo

[xyberblue]

Bro, you know what, pwera nalang sa maigo ha pero correct me if Im wrong...

Mao ni experience sa ako mama.

Gi recruit siya sa ubang religion nga moapil ug mopabunyag sa ilaha. Then ako mama which is catholic
is really devoted to his religion. Kung unsay iya religion, mao ra jud na iyaha dad-on hangtod sa hangtod.
Then she's wondering why this lady tends to be aggressive on recruiting here to baptise in their religion.

Then my mother did a research and this is what he got.

Sa religion sa babaye(iya friend) nga nirecruit niya, if maka recruit daw sila, naa daw sila percentage nga makuha from their church, every individual daw nga ila mapadani sa ila religion. Some sort of networking recruitment... Ohhh may Gulay, bisag networking gi apply sa religion

Bro, bacg mao nay hinungdan why aggressive kaau imo uyab nga magpabunyag sa ila religion.
Ayaw jud bro even magbuwag mo, if she loves you, then she should respect your decision.
If ang love jud ang mopatibabaw, wla jud mo paki sa inyo palibot and dili jud ka mohimog actions nga makapa fall sa inyo relationship... Not in this way.

[otis]

Sa religion sa babaye(iya friend) nga nirecruit niya, if maka recruit daw sila, naa daw sila percentage nga makuha from their church, every individual daw nga ila mapadani sa ila religion. Some sort of networking recruitment... Ohhh may Gulay, bisag networking gi apply sa religion

hehehehe.. what's that religion you're talking about? di pod siguro in-ana akong gf

[hera_82]

kalain pud anang uyab na mo-force nimo to convert uy.. if u convert to another religion, it should be because-- it's your choice.

@otis: religion should not be a big issue in a relationship. make your girlfriend realize that. you can always compromise ra man unta. as long as u believe in one God, i think it should not cause both of you to fight. ang practices raman sa religions ang ga-differ ba. diha lang magka-conflict (most probably). But if you learn to compromise & respect your partner's belief, so wala problema. it's not your religion that can save you baya. It's your faith.

[greystoke]

sa ako tan aw tis...... mas ganahan man ang mga ginikanan ug same ug religion ang :makadayonkung lang ha.) sa ila anak.....try daw ask sa imo GF if sya ba nagbuot ana,,,taig gimandaran na sya sa iyang mama or papa....




PS. bai otis...ayaw lagi anang uyab uyab...makadaut na sa career....

[Subzero]

In my own opinion, Naay reason ngano imo GF gusto ka pasimbahon sa iya church. Lisod man gud kung dli mo same religion most likely mag cgi mo away or lalis just because of religion pro over all dli man ang religion makasave sa usa ka tawo kun dli iya faith to GOD. Whether you are Catholic or Born Again kung dli ka devoted useless gihapon. Pasabta lng imo uyab about ur situatuon ngano dli ka mosimba sa iya church or better yet try wat she wants (which is mosimba sa iya church) kung love jud nmo siya.

[Iamrogue]

kung sa ako lang.. sala man sa imo gf in the first place of why she involved herself with you when she knows dili man kaya pwede sa iyang church... she should face her consequences.. as to you,, just hear her out lang pud, why she wants you to go.,. listen lang sa to her explanation,, yes, do let her explain why you should go.. you have to know her convictions and how deep her faith is. if you love each other,, then you will listen to each other.

[Onins]

Religion is a personal decision, if ganahan ka mubalhin to another denomination (i think this is the right term, coz protestants and Roman Catholics belong to the same religion, Christianity) that is because you found something that you're looking for in a religion. Not because sa imong uyab. Obviously, dili imong uyab na decision na, thats peer and family pressure coming out f her mouth trying to convince you. I belong to a devout Protestant family, UCCP to be exact. My brother married a woman who belong to a very devout RC family, after sila kasal, ang ako sister in-law ngbutang ug virgin mary sa ila room, very big, then every 6 mgnovena sya ok lang namo. Theyre in chicago right now with two kids. I got married with a devout catholic last year, guess what wala pa problema and we're expecting our first child this summer. Both marriages wala niSurface and religion thing. Wala man mi problema sa kasal if ganahan catholic then catholic, the question is ang mga bata asa binyagan? ang Children mgdecide ana ang couple jud dili pwede kinsa paman BESIDES, pgtiguwang ana ang bata ra ghapon mgDecide asa sya ganahan mabelong na religion!

@Luthienne, pila imo nailHan nahitabo diay ing-ana na situation? IF ang RC wala problema pakasal sa protestant, then I would have married my long time GF of 7 years. Her mother forced us to break up because of our religion. Case to case basis of misguided persons.

[bcasabee]

hay salamat, wala jud ko ana nga problema...