HELP Should I trust her or just leave her?

[vaneeh21]

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2 years kapin, me sa ako gf, then this past few months medyo na bz ko, kay sge ko ngita way ma ka money, kay i want to earn para mag kina unsa ay mabuhi nako ako uyab in my on. but suddenly, i found out that she's confused bout her feelings to me.. she has an identified feeling to a guy nga nakauban niya for one week sa ila duty, she still loves me man but wa daw siya kasabot sa iya feelings, medyo nibugnaw ba, kay ako medyo na bz man, sge pangita way ma kwarta for our future,

is it right nga ako gi ingon nia, na Clear her mind first di ko ganahan nga gakuyog me but, but naa siya murag feelings sa lain, di man gud ko ganahan ug kailog, ako loyal kaayo then abi nako loyal pud sya mao trust ko, but nikalit lang jud nga mao na ako na found out, by d way 1st ko nia na uyab nga seryoso.

di ba, if loyal jud ko sa usa ka person mu stick jud ka? kay ako gane i manged not to be tempted kay i know naa siya, but siya, nibigay, its her choice man nga na ing ana siya di ba? should i trust her pa or leave her nalang... what should i do? gisayangan ra man gud ko sa 2yrs, murag iya i puli sa 1 week...

[nitwit]

im in same shoe with your gf sir. the difference is im married. which made it worse but whats good about your situation is she told you straight away that she likes someone else. try to make it up to her for those times that you were busy.

[cheldan_chryss]

huhuuhuh... same here.. just try to make an effort on her... maybe u can still work things out together...

[babyred86]

communication i guess is the best answer..

talk to her nlng bro uie... i think she's cold with the fact na u can't be with her just like before kai xempre ngita gd ka ug kaugma-on ninyo..

just make it clear to her..

aq kai i'm quite in the same shoe as ur gf.. were actually having same situation.. pero my bf will always remind me na he's doing it for our future.. and if aq ang mu bigay.. its not his fault.. its my loss..
so i try to keep my self busy with other stuffs.. not related to guys...

bsta.. just make it clear to her.. talk lng jd bro before you leave.. basin naa pa nai solution..

[the Messenger]

You're right with your decision. Give your GF time to clarify her feelings, but don't neglect to find time to be with her. She probably needs reassurance that you're both still in a relationship.

I don't like her actions though. Bag-o ra gali ka na-busy, and there she is ready to stray. Murag di sya kasaligan. What if you guys end up together and you have to leave for business once in a while? I doubt if you can sleep peacefully.

[istariray]

talk to your gf. expalin to her that wat you are doing for the past few months is for the future of you both. maybe ingon lang na siya na naa na siya feelings sa lain guy is because murag nakita ka niya ato ba. spend some time sad niya oi. kay bisan unsa pa ka ka busy ug love nimo ang tao makakita jud ka ug way para magkta mo.

[sinxnikko]

just wait for a right timing bai.. then u both discuss it when ur ready... kong makaya ma settle then settle it.. kay lain man sd gud ang relationship na napugos nlng ang usa sa n u .. dli gyud mo work ang relationship kong usa ra ang nag mahal kailangan kamo gyud duha sa imo partner ang mohatag og love sa usat usa...

[Soul Doctor]

2 years kapin, me sa ako gf, then this past few months medyo na bz ko, kay sge ko ngita way ma ka money, kay i want to earn para mag kina unsa ay mabuhi nako ako uyab in my on. but suddenly, i found out that she's confused bout her feelings to me.. she has an identified feeling to a guy nga nakauban niya for one week sa ila duty, she still loves me man but wa daw siya kasabot sa iya feelings, medyo nibugnaw ba, kay ako medyo na bz man, sge pangita way ma kwarta for our future,

is it right nga ako gi ingon nia, na Clear her mind first di ko ganahan nga gakuyog me but, but naa siya murag feelings sa lain, di man gud ko ganahan ug kailog, ako loyal kaayo then abi nako loyal pud sya mao trust ko, but nikalit lang jud nga mao na ako na found out, by d way 1st ko nia na uyab nga seryoso.

di ba, if loyal jud ko sa usa ka person mu stick jud ka? kay ako gane i manged not to be tempted kay i know naa siya, but siya, nibigay, its her choice man nga na ing ana siya di ba? should i trust her pa or leave her nalang... what should i do? gisayangan ra man gud ko sa 2yrs, murag iya i puli sa 1 week...

I think I've said somewhere here that a temporary relationship last only 2 years.
So if you wanted to marry her you should have done it before it reached two years.

I bet what she has for you is a temporary relationship.
She is not into you.
Accept that.
Next time around you only have a relationship when you are ready.

Having a girlfriend is like buying a TV.
You do not buy TV if you have no electricity yet in the house.

Have a girlfriend only if you are ready to marry anyone.
Hope people get this.

[alexxx]

your girlfriend is a very dependent woman. one of the reason why she start having some feelings with the other guy is because that guy is closer to her most of the time. she needs someone to be at her side always specially if the guy is similar with you maybe in character or physical. that's why she suddenly confused her feelings. that's what's difficult about dependent partner. best thing you can do is let her decide and do the effort. if she can stay away with the guy then good but if not then slowly try to accept. you can also make some effort by making your presence felt more than before. if your reason of finding money is for your future, i think its impractical if the person you work hard for will be gone. balance work and relationship, im sure that wouldn't be so hard for you

[rennyvonne]

2 years kapin, me sa ako gf, then this past few months medyo na bz ko, kay sge ko ngita way ma ka money, kay i want to earn para mag kina unsa ay mabuhi nako ako uyab in my on. but suddenly, i found out that she's confused bout her feelings to me.. she has an identified feeling to a guy nga nakauban niya for one week sa ila duty, she still loves me man but wa daw siya kasabot sa iya feelings, medyo nibugnaw ba, kay ako medyo na bz man, sge pangita way ma kwarta for our future,

is it right nga ako gi ingon nia, na Clear her mind first di ko ganahan nga gakuyog me but, but naa siya murag feelings sa lain, di man gud ko ganahan ug kailog, ako loyal kaayo then abi nako loyal pud sya mao trust ko, but nikalit lang jud nga mao na ako na found out, by d way 1st ko nia na uyab nga seryoso.

di ba, if loyal jud ko sa usa ka person mu stick jud ka? kay ako gane i manged not to be tempted kay i know naa siya, but siya, nibigay, its her choice man nga na ing ana siya di ba? should i trust her pa or leave her nalang... what should i do? gisayangan ra man gud ko sa 2yrs, murag iya i puli sa 1 week...

i know that's how you plan to show ur love to her.... ang girls man gud...wants to be with their knight... pa princess bya jud na ang girls (you can disagree) murag pa secure bh... and if they feel u are distant... mo.insecure dayn mi... bawi.a lang... i know naa pajud na feelings imo gf...