HELP My girlfriend is pregnant but I'm confused

[sgrnim]

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u got the japanese girl in bed. it means you know how to speak nipongo. it is easy for you to talk about the situation to her and the company boss.

much your japanese boss would be glad to know you speak their language.

that is exacly one of my problem bai..i dont know how to speak nipongo..i only know "wakaranay""arigato gusaimas""atsii" ug "kampai" ra ako na bawan bai...

[unique]

yes my parents already know na..ila responsed ky bahala mn daw ko sa ako disisyon..so in return ako lng japon. courage maybe mao na ako lucking wala jud ko courage sa mga inganai nga sitwasyon. i wanted 2 but how should i approch? no no no no...not to her father..
i cannot relax bai, dili jud ko ka relax ani...ambut..kung bahin lng sa trabaho i have the courage nga makig atubang sa amo presidnt but kani nga matter wala ko...

yup, imo jud na nga decision, its all up to you. but you also have the option of asking for their support/assistance in facing the family of your GF.

dont aproach her father in the office, aproach to her family or father in a normal everyday person as a boyfriend to his daughter outside of the office/workplace.

japanz people are very respectable by nature and they respect you back in return, if you wont face them now the more they will doubt your intentions.

i hope this can help and good luck my friend.

[homer20]

ngita lang ka lain trabaho bay!

[dodie]

It's very ILLEGAL to kick someone out of work just because of PERSONAL ISSUE
Work is work. Personal life is personal life.

If your work is affected because of relationship or marriage.......... That is violating your rights. Are they gods? no. They are not gods to tell you what to do.

[Fern]

bitaw Bro Seriously.... if maka uyab ko ug Haponesa... dili na gyud na nako biyaan... minyuan na dayun na nako

you are the pride of filipino gene!!! nindot gyud nang mu crossbreed ta para ma evolve sad ta.

especially kung Japanese AV Idol Material

ssuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuussssssss pwerteng hamisa ug kutis ana.

[dodie]

saludo ako pre!! hahahaha, nahan pud ko ana. hehehehe.
Kung maka-tour lamang didto, contento nalang pud tawn ta. heheheh

[beloyski]

Marriage will equate to the fact na both of you cannot work in the same office of the company. Why, because if aduna mo mga personal issues (mga away-away sa balay), ma affected inyong performance sa work kay magkita raman mo sa office gihapon. This is true to all companies. At times, it happens that if the company is flexible, maka adjust sila for both of you (work in the same company but different divisions/departments).

It's high time to face her family, inform them of your intention (to get married) & the situation of your wife-to-be (preggie), and really really hope for the best sa outcome.

If her family accepts you, a lot of good alternatives will follow to your family's future.

If her family rejects you, then fight for her. Stick to the basics about your love for her and your responsibility na dili nimo talikdon. Who knows you might win them over in due time.

It would also help if you start scouring for another job. Send out resumes and get interviews. Preparation lang gud para aduna kay option to transfer. Mura mas nindot man iya salary ug benefits if she sticks with the company kaysa sya ang mu resign.

Hope for the best outcome. Lihok na kay kung cge lang ka huna-huna sa unsay possibility manghitabo, it would be too late. Time is not on your side.

[YM24]

nganung na confused man kah imo manang binuhatan??

[sgrnim]

Update....

lamat sa inyo comment.....it helps me a lot..

we are already scheduled for a private meeting togther with her dad and mam outside and we will have our dinner somewhere in cebu. so mao na ni...this is it!! a life changing decision to make in my intire life in which i dont know the out come yet.

in this very moment sa pag post naku ani nga update sa ako problema, may mind is recalling all the happy and unhappy moment sa ako kinabuhi mga experince nga naagian naku mga x nga ni agi sa ako kinabuhi...hehehe...it was funny but yet nice. but now this is it my last chapert of my being single will be end. hope me for the best people...still wala japon ko ka sabut sa ako gi bati...ug unsa un naku pag sulti...thanxxx....

[moy2]

bro e padayun jud na kai lisud kaau na.ayaw na e deport bro.kai na ambt nlng jud.kai ang gaba bro lisud kaau na huna2on jud.