HELP Me, my so-called Boyfriend and his OTHER girl

[~akoni~]

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this is actually a dilemma i have right now..

this started out last year. my boyfriend had a gf then that resulted nga gibuwagan nako xa..
actually, nahulog na ako ang third party since ngkauyab sila before kami, but i didnt know then nga naa xa uyab. when i found out, ako daun xa gbuwagan. we were separated for 4 months. by august, nkigkita xa nako balik.ask ug second chance..since, love paman nko xa nisugot but in condition that he will tell me everything about the girl and he will answer all my questions. needless to say, he did that.he also said that bulag na jud cla sa girl.
ingon xa nga nabuntis na nya ang girl before but nakuhaan.dili xa nahan xa mubulag cause he doesnt want to let the girl feel nga gbiyaan lang nya sa ere after nla.he also asked me na dili lang daw nako xa pugngan if magtext2 cla sa girl kay sooner or later mwala ra jud xa sa life sa girl. niana ko nga ok lang so long iya ko sultian if gatext2 cla.he said ok. wala namo gipabalo ang girl ngbalik mi kay basin lagi daw masakitan ang girl.gatext2 man pud mi sa girl. (that's how i know nga ngkauyab cla before namo. ngtext2 man mi sa girl but this is a different story.)
the girl also confirmed nga wala najud cla and then di napud cla mgbalik.right now, gatxt2 ra cla from time to time, kmaustahan and all. but now gnaawayan na namo sa ako bf. kay kung magtext cla dili xa musulti.musulti lang xa if masakpan na nako sa iya phone. iya irason kay dili man daw importante.nangumusta raman daw xa. i guess, nahadlok lang ko nga magbalik cla and mausab napud ang tanan. ikapila nako namugos nya nga mgbulag nalang mi kay aron naa ko peace of mind kaysa naman nga kami bitaw but dili ko mahimutang, but di jud xa musugot. he said that in time, masultian ra jd nya ang girl nga kami na. dili man pud cla gakita sa girl kay layo man ang girl. his family knows na kami napud...ask lang ko sa inyo mga advices kay willing man ko mubulag nya pra ma peace nako. thanks kaau for sharing your time.

[Sol_Itaire]

it's like you are creating more problems out of the situation.

[~akoni~]

like what man?

[Sol_Itaire]

like keeping the other girl blind. the least you can give the other girl is respect.

[cptn_star]

as a guy, i observed that ur bf is hesitant to tell his ex na kamo na...i dont want to jump to baseless conclusions but i can sense jd na gitago niya sa iya ex inyo relasyon...i do not know the reasons behind it and i dont want to formulate possible reasons behind it either...naa ra jd nmo ang decision...kng dili na jd ka, ayaw papugong...wala'y right imo bf na pugngan ka kay ikaw man jd magdecide para sa imo self...

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

@TS, pa advice ani ni Sol, kay wayok kaayo ni cya parte og gugma, hehehe...joke...

[~akoni~]

yeah, i know. i wanted to tell the girl na ngbalik nami...but i wanted to give that right to my bf to tell her. after all, sila man ngkauyab. sila ang naa relationship. he said that pra niya ang importante lang jud kay ang iya family, majority of his friends kabalo nga kami.

his ex and i dont have a common friend so wala jud makaingon sa girl.

[unique]

sakto ba akong basa nga iya nabuntisan ang iya ex GF, and then so on....bla bla bla

hmmmmm... ikaw, what do you think? is it worth all this feelings.

[~akoni~]

i think he is..
but the fact is, mahadlok ko basin mahitabo nasad ang nahitabo sauna..
i have told him many,many times that if ngbalik cla or if naa na xa nakit-an lain to tell me straight to my face..
but he said that di na daw na mahitabo...kay kami ndaw...hay!

[unique]

ur in love, congrats