How do you regain your trust from somebody?

[mariaClara]

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Unsaon man nimo pagbalik sa imong trust when he/she has lied many times in your relationship? Specially when you know that he/she loves you, and vice versa, but you just dont get the reasons why he/she has to lie to u? If you were in this situation, would you still hold on? after so many years of being together?

thread: How do you regain your trust from somebody?

i think what you're trying to ask is how you are supposed to trust the person again?

kung kada tan-aw nimo niya mag-sakit imong dughan, pahuway na lang..
kung kada conversation ninyo, ma-bring-up ang past, nevermind..
kung wala pa siya nausab, sige gihapon pamakak, kalimti siya..

Love is also a decision..not only a feeling.. (gibalik gyud)

[lemzuico]

I think that the only way to trust someone is by taking a leap of faith. If you choose to forgive him for lying to you you need to 'forget' in a way that he did lie to you and give him the chance to hurt you again. Let him in again and trust him. Be careful but don't throw his past lies in his face all the time or you'll have no chance. If you want this to work with him unfortunately you have to give him the chance to lie to you again. If he doesn't then things should work out, if he does then you'll know. Be careful what you believe though - truth is sometimes stranger than fiction and this can be hard for someone trying to regain trust from someone they love.

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[jlodarl]

ambot lang.. for me, there still love but need to watch and be careful with every situation I need to deal with him.

[dangelndisguise]

Everything happens for a reason

Kita tanan makasala ug mamakak.
Ikaw sa tibouk nimong kinabuhi wla ba ka kabakak niya? Bisan gamay lng na butang?
If you know he loves you, and asking you forgiveness. Why not give him a chance.
We all deserve a chance.

Ngano maminaw man ka anang mga tawo na wala pa jud ka kaila kaayu kaysa sa imong uyab nadugay na mo kaayu.

[Ariesboy]

ako di na...

[YM24]

depende..bsta nakita na gud nmu nga nag bag-o na cya then y u cant give him a change diba??
basig sa last change nga imong e hatag nya mao na time para ma bag.o na gud cya..pero kung wla gud cya mag-usab..aw iya na sad nah..at least imo siya g taga-an og 1 try..ana lng gud nah

[angelbymistake27]

i will give him a chance...lisod kaau ang pag let go sis..and sakit pud na sa part niya..if nag exert siya ug effort to clarify things..why man mag hesitate ka...lisod man jud mag build balik sa trust sis...if mabalik man gani it'll take time and dili ingon ana ka dali jud..kasabot ko ana...but if love jud nimo ang tawo maka pasaylo man ka sa iyahang gibuhat...but if sige2x na pud..dili na pud nah maau nuon...dapat mag storya jud ug tarong...

[dKyOrt22]

it doesnt matter how many times he/she lied to you... mao rani ako masulti aning problemaha..

" As Long as you love the man/woman.. just give him/her a chance.... just ask him/her, why he/she lied to you"

and my answer on how to regain your trust from somebody... "live and forget"

[tsamporado]

i will give him a chance...lisod kaau ang pag let go sis..and sakit pud na sa part niya..if nag exert siya ug effort to clarify things..why man mag hesitate ka...lisod man jud mag build balik sa trust sis...if mabalik man gani it'll take time and dili ingon ana ka dali jud..kasabot ko ana...but if love jud nimo ang tawo maka pasaylo man ka sa iyahang gibuhat...but if sige2x na pud..dili na pud nah maau nuon...dapat mag storya jud ug tarong...

sakto jud ka ani

we are not perfect, we are just human
makasala, makapamakak pero ang importante mousab ug nahigugma gihapon

[jenny223]

it s s0oo0o0 damn hard t0 answer this question...



maybe because right here in me i kn0w he lied....

and i was so0o0o damn stupid t0 believe his lies...

its like, "shame 0n u if u f0ol me 0nce but shame 0n me if u f0ol me twice"...

its up t0 u if kaya pah nimu iyang mga bakak..hehehehe...