Hi just wanted to hear your thoughts:
My gf and I are really in a tight situation right now she’s 24 and im 26. Her parents is pressuring her and trying to convince her to marry some guy who happens to be working in an international sea liner, let’s just call him Davy Jones, 37, Pinoy. Dugay na ni kaila sa ilang family si Davy Jones coz it’s a friend of her aunt. In fact when my gf was still in her college freshmen year ni duol nani si Davy Jones sa parents sa akong gf ky ganahan cya pakaslan but ni decline sila coz gf was still studying and too young for it, that time di pa mi uyab sa akong gf.
After a few years, nagka uyab na daun mi ani akong gf. Everything went well for us. I was welcomed in her family and she was with mine, my family treated her as family already coz they knew how much I love her. I took her of to the extent that a rented a room just for her sometimes gave her school allowances when needed, pay for her projects and sometimes pay for her ticket kng need xa mouli sa ila. Mura mi ug nag semi live-in. Naka sabot ko with their situation ky naa pa sya duha ka brothers nag school mao ni sacrifice jd ko ug gasto para nya. We lived as if we were really couples and my family knows of it pwera lng sa iyang parents ky ang nahibaw.an sa iyang parents ky siya lng ang isa sa room but the truth is almost everyday ko naa didtu. So naabot jud ang point that her parents knew about it and they were really pissed. They say a lot of awful things to her as if she was selling herself to me already.
Ok ra man ta to cla nku sauna mura lag na tandog ang pride sa iyang father pagka hibaw sa whole situation ug sa idea na semi-live in but all I did was show her how much I do love her. Now her parents wanted us to part ways. Ok ra ta namong duha to go under the radar when needed but then again ni balik na sad si Davy Jones with his proposal and because lisud financially ila family karon gi pressure jud akong gf ug mayo coz Davy Jones promised full financial assistance and if mosugot daw next balik ni jones dre pinas pakasal na cla. ***k! this might happen next year na
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Although maayo akong work, at my present situation I can’t do anything about their debts or whatever financial needs they have. By the end of this year they need to pay their debts to a bank kundi makuha na ilang balay. I know and I trust her when she says she doesn’t like to do it. She’s torn between me and her family. As much as I don’t want her to do it murag ako sang gikuhaan ug maayong future ang ilang family kung mamugos jd ko. Wala na jud mi tarong tulog every night coz we kept on discussing the best options. We had plans of getting married after cya mo graduate next year but I don’t know if mahitabo pa ba jud.
It really hurts that I can’t do anything, I’m pretty much frustrated that I don’t have the means to pay that freakin’ bank debts and stuff
, it really hurts to see her cry every night knowing it’s not easy for her to go through this kind of situation.
What am I supposed to do?
kng pde pa lang mabilgya ang soul pra maluwas gibaligya na..hayyz life.. money makes the world go round na mn karon.
sensya na mo sa kataas.
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the real reason behind all this is political not just the financial debt.
political ni ila mga kaliwat sa akong uyab since sa iyang mga apuhan until now ug alliance pud nila ang uncle ni DJ which is congressman sa ila. In short, gipares ako GF ky DJ to stregthen their political ties and insure a continues strong connection. Mao ra jud ni ang primary reason why all of this is happening labi na hapit ng election.
Akong uyab ipakasal sa lain
Originally Posted by mailboy
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