Is it okay if your BF/GF has a textmate?

[cookiemonster]

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kana imong gi solti pede sad na mas nindot na maka-ila gyud ka personally and knowing more about him or her you know sis kanang na-ay mga past na lisod kalimtan labi pag kita ra moy gi binoangan mas maayo na mangitag lingaw kung single na lang ka ky na-a man goy uban maka huna huna gihapon ta sa past but actually most important is the present time man gyud pero maka hinomdom man gud ng uban labi pa ilang kalipy maka-kitag partner di na pang lingaw kalipy na gyud pero di binoang seryos na og tinarong coz para nako the right person is the one who love,care,comfort,help.respect and honest also who had good attitudes,moves og style and malipayon mong duha

haha..uu wa nai blema kung single ui..but sa mga committed na kai d jud na pwede, unless its business.. btu since txtmate2 man jud ning topica, so d jud na pwede kung ang txmate wa ka kaila bah.. but kung friends ra kai ok raman na.. hehehe

[roy_lain]

big no!!!!! samut kung wala ko naka ila aheeheh bawal!!! but its god shes hones... she respect me...

[hunt99]

haha..uu wa nai blema kung single ui..but sa mga committed na kai d jud na pwede, unless its business.. btu since txtmate2 man jud ning topica, so d jud na pwede kung ang txmate wa ka kaila bah.. but kung friends ra kai ok raman na.. hehehe

sad noon kung friends lang ok raman na perog lain nay plano sa ka txt na di nana mao ako bisan laki ko kasagarana baya gyud na mag binoang karong panahona laki baya gyud pero di sad tanan laki ing-ana ky ako sad past reverse man gud to hantod karon usahay basta wa koy lingaw maka hinomdom gihapon ko oi ky sakit man gud kaayo gud pero mas importante man gyud ang present kaso lang kung imong kalipy kungk insay ma partner nimo di na pang-lingaw mao ng kung kita gi binoangan rata onya wala pa ta kita sa new partner na mao na gyud onyak ung di ta mangitagl ingaw usahay maka remember gihapon labi pag wala tay nabuhat ato niya siya ray nag binoang mao ng kung single na lang aw ngitag lingaw

[gamergirl921]

i think it's a matter of trust... it might be test he's doing on you?

[aeonstyle]

I advise through experience. Simply put, texting is not bad, Cheating IS. Cheating is worst but Jealousy is a disaster.

Jealousy without a fact kills a man. Although, ladies, tho your "spider sense" is telling you, that something "crappy" is going on, we men, are still factual. so maintain a good balance between jealousy and discretion.

Girls, i suggest you do not prejudge us. Do not go overboard and go berserk. It would be best to discuss issues properly, rather than throwing the handle at us and raising your untimely "red flags" without warning. Resolve the matter by discussing the text-affair issues personally, not over the phone, not when you're seething mad, ONLY when you are at peace.

Letting go of things will accelerate great results.


On a challenging note, Dear TS, i think it's time you examine your relationship closely. If you have unsettled issues lately; or been quarrelsome; trifling over mundane things, these would cause hidden remorse and guilt-tripping. At worst, tempting your guy to engage in a text-affair, replacing you in the process.

Book of Proverbs tells: It is better to live in a leaking roof than to live with a quarrelsome wife.

I'm certain that as long as you keep your relationship in a healthy perspective, respect will prevail. Put at bay any sign of paranoia and then save the relationship. Maybe it's time to ask yourself the big WHY instead of stewing full steam. Don't burn, but cool it and grab an ice cream!

[camille_16]

txtmate is a BIG no no to all committed individuals...
maninyo, or uyab... dli jud na siya mahimo...

kung naa gani txtm8, ako jud na tirahan og maau bah...
dungabon pa gani nako kung magkinaunsa..

[Soul Doctor]

If you're bf or gf has a textmate, it is a clear sign that there is something wrong with your relationship.
Open it up. Be willing to accept faults.
Talk about problems with your relationship.

[histrionic0311]

a BIG no no...

[camille_16]

If you're bf or gf has a textmate, it is a clear sign that there is something wrong with your relationship.
Open it up. Be willing to accept faults.
Talk about problems with your relationship.

nya? what if ang isulti sa imong uyab kay ingon ani:

"Wala ma'y problema. Ngano diay? Dli na diay ko pwede makigtxtm8 sa lain? Kapuol pud oi kung kita² nlng ang permi mag-txt²? Wala diay ka'y salig na ko?"

[deia]

nya? what if ang isulti sa imong uyab kay ingon ani:

"Wala ma'y problema. Ngano diay? Dli na diay ko pwede makigtxtm8 sa lain? Kapuol pud oi kung kita² nlng ang permi mag-txt²? Wala diay ka'y salig na ko?"

aisuz..... scripted na au na ui... salig bahayaw pag text2 ug lain oi.... ilabay nang celphone kung gahi ug ulo!!!!!hehehhe