LOve Me for what I am?

[dramaturgo]

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hinaot moabot ra ang binuhat nga magmahal og modawat nako sa ingon!

[arahdior]

sakto jd.. love the person bisan unsa pana iya flaws dira.. mao na ang true love.. accepting the person.. bisan unsa pana siya..

[eilrach]

mura man ni song.. "you've got to love me for what i am, for simply being me.." ana gani..

dili lang nimo e.accept ang mga nindot sa usa ka tao.. apilon jud na nimo ang mga bati.. ana gani.. !! ^_^

[petrusnamare]

love because i am worthy but don't love me with force sinister

[chad_tukes]

some people can't love their partners for who they are. instead, they choose to CHANGE that person into their own liking. if their partner won't change according to what they want, they prefer to go away and find another one. and they try to change that other one also. and so on and so forth... it's a vicious cycle.

hantud they realize that they can't change that person at all---so they get frustrated. the other party, in turn, becomes disappointed with the fact that his partner is trying to change him---and he can't be himself anymore. this in turn leads to conflict of interests.

a healthy relationship includes understanding each other's strengths and weaknesses and compromising for each fault committed. if one overpowers the other, the victim feels dominated.

the rule of thumbs is: you love that person for what he/she is, not what you want him/her to become.

[aneluvs]

am basta tarong lang gud og walay binuhatang di maayo

\bro kung dili tarong would you still love her? So you love her for who she is?

mao lagi na makaingon ta nga dili mo matter ang looks
ayaw ko ingna nga pagpanguyab nimo ana imo uyab karon nag piyong ka
gipaminaw lang nimo ang kinaiya?
wat i mean is kung motan aw ka ug tawo sa looks jud ka una ma attract later na ang kinaiya

kung moingon pa gyod ka nga love me for what i am pati na kinaiya bati dapat dawat nimo
dili kay specify ta diha ug kinaiya

Right nawung jud ang una maibgan before ang attitude. What if bait ang attitude?

some people can't love their partners for who they are. instead, they choose to CHANGE that person into their own liking. if their partner won't change according to what they want, they prefer to go away and find another one. and they try to change that other one also. and so on and so forth... it's a vicious cycle.

hantud they realize that they can't change that person at all---so they get frustrated. the other party, in turn, becomes disappointed with the fact that his partner is trying to change him---and he can't be himself anymore. this in turn leads to conflict of interests.

a healthy relationship includes understanding each other's strengths and weaknesses and compromising for each fault committed. if one overpowers the other, the victim feels dominated.

the rule of thumbs is: you love that person for what he/she is, not what you want him/her to become.

You right bro.. Some people can accept but some can't.. Instead the change that person to the kind of person that they wanted to.

But I think that's normal. Cause if you also love your partner you can change whatever your partner doesn't like in you.. and same like wise.. You intended to be the perfect one for your love one so that dili sila maglisod ug accept nimo.

But you can really say that you can accept or love what he/she is. Because we are you humans with limitations. We can accept a person bisag pobre cya, or bisag naa cyay dipikto or bisag dili cya gwapo. Pero diha ra ta kutob. Pwede ta moantos pero not totally accept them. What if killer imo uyab or drug addict.. Will you accept them totally? Of course not.. There should be some limitations. For example. You can love a drug addict but if he/she stops or magantos ka niya hoping nga mausab siya. Pero you don't accept him/her. You only hope nga mausab cya. Yes love nakes us blind that why it can makes us accept a person no matter how he is.. Pero kana nga love mawagtang rana kung mapul.an ka.

So it depends rajud nimo kung dawaton nimo ang imong gihigugma kung unsa dya..
Saun isulti, pero in reality lisod buhaton.

[hunt99]

\bro kung dili tarong would you still love her? So you love her for who she is?



Right nawung jud ang una maibgan before ang attitude. What if bait ang attitude?



You right bro.. Some people can accept but some can't.. Instead the change that person to the kind of person that they wanted to.

But I think that's normal. Cause if you also love your partner you can change whatever your partner doesn't like in you.. and same like wise.. You intended to be the perfect one for your love one so that dili sila maglisod ug accept nimo.

But you can really say that you can accept or love what he/she is. Because we are you humans with limitations. We can accept a person bisag pobre cya, or bisag naa cyay dipikto or bisag dili cya gwapo. Pero diha ra ta kutob. Pwede ta moantos pero not totally accept them. What if killer imo uyab or drug addict.. Will you accept them totally? Of course not.. There should be some limitations. For example. You can love a drug addict but if he/she stops or magantos ka niya hoping nga mausab siya. Pero you don't accept him/her. You only hope nga mausab cya. Yes love nakes us blind that why it can makes us accept a person no matter how he is.. Pero kana nga love mawagtang rana kung mapul.an ka.

So it depends rajud nimo kung dawaton nimo ang imong gihigugma kung unsa dya..
Saun isulti, pero in reality lisod buhaton.

sad noon bro kung ako imong i-ask ana na question nobody is perfect and pareho rata tanan diri tao pede ko mo forgive perog sa kadugay na walay ka usaban mas maayo na i-stop na lang ang relationship pero kung minyo namo kailangan gyud na mangita kag pa-agi na makapa change niya onsay sakto buhaton pero mo pasaylo gyud ka bisan uyab pamo pero kung di gyud ma change na uyab pamo na situation di pamo minyo pasaylo lang pero mangita na lang og lain og binli siyag meessage na id na niya dapat buhaton sa uban ky dili nana maayo and also mo pili kag partner mas maayo ng inner beauty tan-awon og malipayon ka sa tao bahalag di gwapo or bahalag di gwapa ky ako sa una na-a sad koy past sakit sad gyud pero past is past most important is the present bisan single na lang aw ngitag lingaw gud actually di pa man sad ko tiguwang someday maka kita ra goro ta og lain mas maayo ng partner na mo love,care,comfort,honest.help,trusted og respect and also has good attitudes,moves og style and malipayon ka niya og magka-sinabot mo bahalag di gwapo or di gwapa pareho rata tanan diri tao

[peewee_toot]

kng luv gni nmo ang tao, wala jd nay pili.

[maggotron]

bisag unsa pa if love nmu..

[stEphAnyAng]

...waaa, haayz! sa0nz! if only he cud accept me pud... huhuhu... haayz!=(