Kung maka pa mabdos ka then imotionally you are not prepared... biga biga lang to. will you "Wed" sa girl or not? (you are still 20yrs old , unsure of yourself)
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03-16-2009, 10:08 PM #1Senior Member
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Maka pa Mabdos Wedding or No Wedding
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03-16-2009, 10:20 PM #2C.I.A.
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marriage is not the answer for getting pregnant at an early age..
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03-16-2009, 10:20 PM #3Elite Member
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Dpende na sa sabot sa both parties.
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03-16-2009, 10:22 PM #4Elite Member
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dili basihan kung makapa mabdos ka or dili ang marriage bai.. if dili ka ready that means dili sad nimo love ang girl, or kung love man nimo ang girl. dili pa jud ka totally adam para ana nga butang.. so better yet, support nalang ka sa girl or sa baby ninyo.. Total, kung ma inlove naka niya, or kung andam naka, pwede raman mo magpakasal anytime. ^_^
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03-17-2009, 01:17 AM #5C.I.A.
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sabot nga pakasal pero di sa ingon anang edad, kung naa nay work aw gastoi lang pud ang bata para sa gatas.
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03-17-2009, 01:30 AM #6Senior Member
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dili solution ang kasal bai...
problema ra ang resulta ana kung wala kay luv sa girl...
specially dili pa mo emotionally prepared...
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03-17-2009, 01:34 AM #7C.I.A.
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mao jud ni sayop kasagaran sa mga ginikinan nga ipapugos jud ug kasal kay namabdosan... wala sila naghuna2 ug andam na ba ilang mga anak nga mahimong managtiayon. dili gud na maoy solusyon ba.
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03-17-2009, 02:19 AM #8Banned User
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first sad.. mao sad ni ang nakaparat y magsud sud mo ani then d mo kama-o mugawas... (lain na nuon ang mugawas hehehe)
bitaw kidding aside, wedding is not the solution but I can agree with the parents why they would insist nga makasal ang ilang anak.. especially sa girl's part.. to save face.. if inyong sister ba ang ing.anaon d ba kaha kamo maggukod sad sa guy...
i know shotgun wedding is not the answer but there are too many unwed single moms na karon.. some nag edad pag 16 or 17....
for me, you should acknowledge that even if your that age..(e.g. 20 or something) you should take that responsibility na to know that from now on.. naa nakay anak.. and you cant take that out from your system kay its with you and you will carry that all throughout your life..
barogi ang responsibility, (maybe not thru wedding means, but moral, financial support(if applicable)) so that magdako ang imong baby knowing his dad ug ikaw pud nga guy.. knows your basic alienable rights to support your son/daugter... its your responsiblity from now on...
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03-17-2009, 04:03 AM #9Junior Member
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Originally Posted by joshbonz
kamao jud ni si joshbonz mag advice dah.. aheheh...
btaw, true mn sad iyang giingon.. u definitely know right from the start na ur not ready for the responsibility pero ning pursue ghapon ka..
being pregnant is not a passport to marriage sad.. sadly, there are some out there who are wed but later on will get an annulment due to irreconcilable differences... etc... the point is, whether you are wed or not if you happen to know ur responsibility then only you and the girl you are responsible for is magkasinabot lng.. then theres actually no problem ana.. dba?
if you're not ready.. ayaw lng sah pugsa kay lisod na kaau.. dli na baya na basta2x na butang..
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03-17-2009, 04:24 AM #10Junior Member
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Sakto kau ni joshbonz, I admire his thoughts on this situation, responsible guy. Originally Posted by joshbonz
Para nako, as a woman ha? If ever mahitabo ni nako, dili jud na option nako ang magpakasal, as in it will just bring us both into deeper trouble of which dili na mi mahimo nga makalinggawas kay kasado na man mi. For the baby, it doesnt mean nga kung wala kasal iya parents gipabayaan na xa, as long as ang support sa duha niya ka ginikanan naa jud pirmi, wala nay problema.
And besides, ngano karon paman mo magpakasal nga mabdos na? If you really want to be with this girl jud, then why karon paman mo magpakasal, di ba? If sure na jud ka nga mao na ni nga girl imo gusto kauban for the rest of your life, why havent you asked marry her before pa ni mahitabo?
Ang ako is mas maayo ug magstorya mong duha kung unsa inyo plano, if dili jud ka then dont ask her to marry you kay lisud ra ba ang laki kung mapugos like, take for example my officemate, kami tanan lagot nya because of his being irresponsible sa iya wife ug sa iya baby, as in klaro kau nga dili sa andam maminyo kay bata pa kaau maghuna2x, tanawa karn iya wife ang nag-antos.
Advice lang jud nko ayaw jud sulod ana minyo, kung dli pa ka andam. Sala na mn daan ang pagbuhat ana sa dili angay nga panahon, ayaw na pun-e nu sala pinaagi sa pagpakasal karn nga maybe in the long run dili ra gihapon nnu hatagan ug importansya o respect ang sacrament nga nu gi celebrate. hehehe...taasa ato oi... sori ha?
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