During a fight with your spouse, what's the right way to deal with it?

[mybabyfudgee]

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di man ko yawyawan oi..if masuko ko dali ra mawala kay makakatawa man ko nawng niya gud kung magluoy looy na

[high_heels]

i still have to master this art....kapoy sige away..but unsaon ta man..there's no week sa amoa nga di mi mag away...

[thinKingMan]

if mag away, know how to say sorry
this will end all the away and labing labing na dayon

[sc041997]

ako hubby kay nakuha na gd cya ug idea...f masuko nko kay dili nman gd ko motingog sus ana dyn bhala na daw ug utot bsta gkan lng sa akong lawas..ikaw kuno d ka mkatawa ana...pero i dunno f dagko na gd na fight if saler pa ba..

[gamatoy]

dapat dili jud paugmaan ang problema,,dapat both bana-asawa dili na kaau init ug ulo aron am settle nila ug storyaan nila unsay maau buhaton aron pud walay gubot ug dili ma adto sa bati na relasyon sa mag aswa..mao rana sya akong ikasulti...

[grlnxtdor16]

its easier said than done oie....lisod man kaau basta mag away kai sakit kaau sa buot ba.

for me..i just walk away kai basta suko ko..masuko man pod nuon xa. and in the time nga di mi mag tinganay kai grabe kaau akong emotions nga batiun. mag hilak gud ko maau. sometimes maka huna huna nlng lage ko ug bisan unsa tungod sa akong kalagot niya ba. its so annoying!

[urysei]

never settle things and try settling it when both of you are still boiling, you have to be calm and well rested, need not to fix things over night that is an antique way of doing it right, it will just make things worst, i mean take a rest, sleep, then tomorrow is another day or the next day perhaps, also, still do the routine you used to do, like kissing before going to bed, or make a 6 second kiss before leaving the house, then maybe by dinner or lunch together you can talk about it, or maybe you can still make love if you want even you are in a war, just make sure the fight does not sink under the sheets unsettled, still talk things over and resolve the issue, don't be in a hurry, always take one step at a time,,,,, ...

[shang_Corp]

say im sorry kung dili na init ang ulo then get him around to see your point of view later

[hunt99]

it depends rana ninyo basta importante di na pa dugayon og magkasinabtanay namo

[naj ice]

"dili angay pa-ugmaan ang away nga dili masulbad"

I've heard this once that when you're having a fight with your spouse you should end it right there and then. settle it as soon as possible, don't let another day pass by without solving the problem.

my take on this: I'd do the exact opposite. I'll wait until cooler heads prevail like after a good nights sleep. it's hard to tackle a problem head-on when both parties are fuming mad 'coz it may escalate into something that both will regret afterwards.

opinions, suggestions and objections are welcome..

right! i can relate.. not all fights can be settle right away mas mosamot if eforce ug settle then puro mo init ug ulo modako nlng ang issue.. better off let both heads be cooler lng and then by tomorrow u can fix it out. mao pd na ako.