I just can't believe my friend is a Swinger!

[AshmoR]

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how come you guys are so mean to people who enjoy what they're doing?
bakit parang nandidiri kayo pag meron kayong friend na ganun?
hindi na ba sila pwede maging friends?

parang sinabi nyo narin na ang squatter ay sa squatter lang...

don't tell me hindi kayo nanonood ng porno na orgy. don't tell me na hindi kayo naaliw sa napanood nyong porno. si Maria Ozawa ba pinandidirian nyo? i bet 90% sa inyo gusto sya ikama... at gusto syang maging kaibigan.

Life has its own meaning to people... sana naiintindihan nyo na hindi lahat ng bagay na napagkalakihan nyo ay mali...

i respect what they do and they respect what they do. i have friends that are much worse than swingers. and believe me they only talk and accept people who understands them. and if you cannot understand them, you are not worth it...

the Irony of Friendship.

[graphicare]

we are still friends as of this moment, di yata pandidiri lahat ang naramdaman ko sa kanya e..naaawa somehow...kasi alam ko pag may sira ulong lalaki na walang iniisip kundi magpasarap lang mabubuntis ang friend ko...and becoz we're friends masakitan tawon ko kung magkabuang-buang ang iyaha life.

...and talking about respect.. if i dont respect my friend anymore sana ikinama ko narin siya di ba? I warned her lang about sa maaring mangyari because i do care for her. I am learning to accept all the shocking surprises she told me about her life, but somehow it is so alarming to think kasi kahit anong moderno na ng panahon...ang mali ay mali parin. Lalo na ang magpasarap sa mga married na na lalaki... and she's doing it.

Kung may pagmamahal ka sa mga friend mo what would u do? sabihin mo lang na..wow i respect u..i accept u kahit magpagamit ka sa lahat ng tambay dyan.

Dont you want to warn her about the coming consequenses?

[high_heels]

People have their own preferences and at the end of the day it's never a friends decision to decide whatever he/she wants for that other friend. It's a matter of accepting, and helping the person to move forward for the best. But from the way I see and base on your statement, it seems that you have lost your respect towards her. If you are really a true friend and open minded enough to realize that people are different, then it will not be an issue for you.

Truth of the matter is, im questioning your sincerity to this friend of yours. People who do bad or taboo things doesn't necessarily mean they are bad or be treated as someone low.

[sandsss]

Kahibaw man siguro imong friend kung unsa iyang gisudlan. She told you about it kay friends mo - meaning, she trusts you enough to tell you those things. Wala man siya nangayo sa imong pity, opinion, or disrespect. It's her life. It's her choice. What she needs is to be listened to with an open mind and heart.

[jeremiahjay]

bai people may not understand you because what you feel for her (as a friend) d nimo mashare.

anyway i think you care for her so much that you just hated what she had become. kung lain pa tong tawo you would not feel the same way or strongly.

sige lang just care for her. maybe ikaw ra gyud nag care niya genuinely. bai. sige lang muabot ra na siya sa iya senses pray lang part na it would not be too late. maybe things are more than the physical.

[graphicare]

People have their own preferences and at the end of the day it's never a friends decision to decide whatever he/she wants for that other friend. It's a matter of accepting, and helping the person to move forward for the best. But from the way I see and base on your statement, it seems that you have lost your respect towards her. If you are really a true friend and open minded enough to realize that people are different, then it will not be an issue for you.

Truth of the matter is, im questioning your sincerity to this friend of yours. People who do bad or taboo things doesn't necessarily mean they are bad or be treated as someone low.

issue dyod nako kay nicare man ko. Ma issue man gani nako nang mga teenager na nakalit lang nangabuntis na di nako kaila kana pa noon ang akoa friend. Your questioning my sincerity? I'm up for the coming consequences about sa unsa mahitabo sa akoa friend if magpadayon siya ug ing-ana, i dont treat her bad, although i feel bad about of whats happening in her life now, i dont treat her or something na lahi nako ug tinagdan niya, sudden reaction man siguro tong nahitabo naku when she told me about that, but my heart still care, and willing to give light to her

[andy_1904]

i'm not sure but i think swingers are couples who don't believe in exclusive s3x. what they do is meet up with other couples who are into the "lifestyle" and have "swinger encounters." It's a controversial issue as many swingers assert that their lifestyle strengthens their marriages/partnerships.

yup2x mao ni meaning...

[graphicare]

bai people may not understand you because what you feel for her (as a friend) d nimo mashare.

anyway i think you care for her so much that you just hated what she had become. kung lain pa tong tawo you would not feel the same way or strongly.

sige lang just care for her. maybe ikaw ra gyud nag care niya genuinely. bai. sige lang muabot ra na siya sa iya senses pray lang part na it would not be too late. maybe things are more than the physical.

thanks for that..yes i do care for her as a friend ha. lahi nasad nang istoryaha if nagkagusto naka sa friend nimo hehehe..anyway i dont buy that idea na if gusto nimo ang tawo imoha i-friend una dayon after magkaclose mo imo panguyaban ug kalit hahahaaha. kung more than friend imoha tuyo show it hehehe para di maglibog ang girl ba hehehehe

[doydi]

dawata nalang na siya uy amiga bitaw mo...

[kit_kat]

ouch..
acceptance is hard.. but it shows your loyalty as a true friend