@richard79: being such a close minded will never get you anywhere. you see, people are not what we wish them to be, we too are human, we have no rights whatsoever to demand other people what to do and judge them for whatever faults they made, we too commit mistakes. telling people what they should be like is being inhumane, who are we to judge? we aren't perfect ourselves. you may have a perfect marriage but not everybody get to have "the priviledge" like you did.