to each his own time. para way lalis, make a schedule. thats what i did when i was still goin out with my bf and i had my friends and he has his friends. even now that we are married, we prefer to hang out with each others friends and at the same time hang out with each other. a schedule or plan works well with friends and bfs trying to compete for time alone with you. but if your friends and bf/gf are real, they will let you do what you love to do most and not be bitchy about it.