Privacy and Transparency in Relationships

[diem]

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geez, if you're not married... its common courtesy talaga to give your bf/gf some space for privacy...

[gangrene]

geez, if you're not married... its common courtesy talaga to give your bf/gf some space for privacy...

Â* btaw, but only IF... and still, if you two already come to the stage where u both kagreed na inyo relationship will soon move on to the next level na, then you might as well start showing your partner na your worthy enough of the trust he/she gave you, kay honestly it's very different pag-abot sa marriage, gamay nga changes lang from the usual, labaw na kung masupported pa jud ug rumors, guilty feelings, and etc, den mag pa privy privy ka pa when ur spouse ask you na - dako jud nga gubot... trust me kay mao na akong na-experience. bati kaayo ang relationship jud nga walay trust.

[cebu_tux]

geez, if you're not married... its common courtesy talaga to give your bf/gf some space for privacy...

Even married people need to have privacy...

[lestat1116]

privacy on wat? shopping? laag or "laag" sa "barkada"? inom? gambling?

[monrose29]

mostly people here is talking bout the privacy like doing something not good in relationship... yeah ma o jud na ang expectation if ur talking bout privacy...

it is bad to ask a privacy to ur partner? or it is a doubtfull if u ask a little privacy?

maybe ang problema na a sa kina iya sa tawo.. not on the privacy thingy... if palakero ka ayo ka.. then.. ma o nang mangukay jud imong partner sa imong mga personal nga butang....

be matured nalang when it comes to that matter... basta for me everyone of us deserve to have little privacy.. just little..
like sa story sa among clients...shes a government employee then u know.. daghan jud kag mga tawo nga ika chika2x..then one time na-ay ni tawag niya nga babaye ngano daw na-a iyang number sa celfon sa iyang bana.. unsa daw iyang toyo sa iyang bana..

then she answered nga minyo na sya..ni call sya sa iyang bana for a very important reason...

so ma-o na sya..not at all times man cguro u have to tell ur partner whos that person nga imong ka txt. whos that person nga nanawag.. or imong gitawagan.. para di jud mag duda ang imong partner nmo...if u love him/her.. kina hanglan ba jud diay when it comes to that thing dapat maka hibaw sya tanan... then if u failed to tell her/him bout that things.. mag duda na dayon ang imong partner... kinda to-okz to higpitz ka ayo vah..

[monrose29]

privacy on wat? shopping? laag or "laag" sa "barkada"? inom? gambling?

pls read the title of the thread.. "Privacy in Relationship"

[Spiky8888]

not too much & not that little also. mature people know wat aspect of life needs to be shared or can b shared. just make sure you give ur partner d respect & trust he/she deserves. :mrgreen:

[Maverick18]

btaw, sakto-sakto ra gud. bati man sad gud nang walay privacy ang tawo k naanad baya ta ana before naay uyab nya wagtangon ig ka uyab. makabati na sa relationship. for me lng ha. based on experience ra pud.

[monrose29]

not too much & not that little also. mature people know wat aspect of life needs to be shared or can b shared. just make sure you give ur partner d respect & trust he/she deserves. :mrgreen:

yeah this is what im talking bout..

[gangrene]

hey guys, dont get me wrong! daghan man gud connotation na word na privacy... depende pud na sa tao up to asa iya limit sa word na privacy... ako, im the type of person na when i give trust, i gave it a hundred percent. kung naa instances na my partner did something to betray that trust, i can still forgive, kay in-ana pud ko ka pasensiyosa, but once tainted, lisod na pagbalik sa trust back to a hundred percent, i believe puwede pa ibalik, but it will take time jud... kung nakasala ka na ngano tuyuon pa man nimo buhat balik ang sala? i guess thats the point where mag-away na ang couple sa privacy issue.

simple ra man gud na. and i guess this applies to all man guro, if you want your girl/man to give you privacy, likewise trust, then don't do something that could definitely spoil that trust. :mrgreen: