please advice: nalibog na jd ko

[sarang]

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bros and sis, I need your advice/s,we just turned 5 months sa akng bf. Pero, I feel sad kay dili kaau xa mo storya and there are times na ma bored ko, although if I talk,maminaw jd xa, I just don't want to be the one to talk, kapoi ngita ug topic, is this just me or naay prob? I opened this to him, ingon xa hilumon lang jd daw xa, pero I still don't get it, it made me think na he doesn't like me that much, sakto ba ni?

[Siobhan]

hahahaha ana sad ako uyab sauna hilomon kaau......pero makasure man kaha ka na inlove cya nimo? bitaw naa jud mga taw n ana...... anara na ug maau na motabi pangutan a unsa iyang hilig..pag joke2 sad mo or d gani yaw jud talk.tan awn nato d ba cya makatingog!

[zenbryz]

ako sad naglibog nimo...hehehehe

[sarang]

makalibog d i ang thread?hehhe.

[akosabni]

try asking him, unsay d niya gusto istoryahan.

[koontz_circle]

if hilomon jud sya then its very normal, naa man gani uban way tingogay kay dili chatty. that's his personality. cgruo mo evolve rana sya in the long run. ok raman ikaw mo open sa topic basta ur picking the right topic that will make him rolling with you, maybe si sya nahag non-sense topic like most girls are having. if he likes basketball perhaps you should open it up to him para motingog sya.

[michaelocana]

learn more from him... try ask kung unsay mga likes and dislikes nya... topics like current events, movies, sports... pero indirect nga pg ask ha.. ayaw nga mo ingon ka "unsa man diay gusto nimo storyahan?" not that approach... mora ba ug "hey naka kita ka sa fight ni pacman yesterday?" or "nakita nmo ang news last nyt?" pg taas taas iyang reply nimo meaning one of the topic nga gnahan nya... something like that... di ba?

[koontz_circle]

sakto si michealocana

reading the news HEADLINES is very useful for the two you to talk about. take it from there.

[jackyboy]

learn more from him... try ask kung unsay mga likes and dislikes nya... topics like current events, movies, sports... pero indirect nga pg ask ha.. ayaw nga mo ingon ka "unsa man diay gusto nimo storyahan?" not that approach... mora ba ug "hey naka kita ka sa fight ni pacman yesterday?" or "nakita nmo ang news last nyt?" pg taas taas iyang reply nimo meaning one of the topic nga gnahan nya... something like that... di ba?

bitaw sakto. mao pud ni ako gibuhat sa ako gf. hilumon kau. pero mag open up lang ko niya ug mga topics na malingaw pud cya. like kana mga headlines sa news, mga crisis and how it would affect the people. kadugayan ana cya na ang cge mangutana kay nalingaw. hehe. sometimes mudive sad ka sa gusto niya. like sa case ako gf gnahan kau ug dancing ug mga pop songs. nag research2x lang pud ko about dancing & pop nya nangutana ko niya unsa iya tanaw, cya ra sad kadugayan mag dala sa storya. and naka appreciate ra pud ko sa iya mga likes. hehe.

[beachbutton]

each person is unique. u cannot expect ur bf to be like you. he has his own characteristics that make him special, just like you. 5 months is really not a very long time pa to be with somebody. my advice is you give him time to loosen up..to be himself. it takes effort to stay in a relationship. so make the move to make conversations..talk to him how you feel, from time to time. remind him that for communication is very important. not talking that much it doesn't mean he's not into you. basta be patient and give him time.