HELP My Girlfriend is pregnant but I have doubts

[Ichigo97]

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goodluck bai sa imong steps na buhaton. don't forget to ask HIS guidance in case you make your final decision.

[boylaang]

bro lisud au jud na if magduda din magpakasal mo magcigi jud mo ug away ky lisud naman papason sa u huna huna ang pagdududa bisan moingon pa ciya na ikaw jud tag iya gawas lang ug ma dna test uya ma confrim na imo jud anha pa muloag u paminaw gudluck nalang ky pwerti jud ni sakita ug kalisod labi na inlove ka niya

[estoyra]

bsan na maconfirm nmo bro nga imo ang bata, da fak lng nga ngduda ka kng gibirahan sa laki imo uyab sus mgrigor jd imong utok ky imagina lng imo uyab gibalibali bira sa laki sus paita...

[turff_y]

bacn naikg balik ra na nimo kay kabalo man buntis cya..plus bcn kabaw cya na la ayo ang iya guy na naka pa buntis nya..so balik cya..naa raman jud na nimo..try to thnk ha..if dili ka nya kay tungod sa bata, luoy ang bata...if dawaton ghapon nimo cya kay love nimo cya..lipay ang girl ug naa sad father ang bata..but along the way, la pka kabalo sa unsay mahitabo ninyo..dako kau possibility na masamok mo..kay mo abot ang time na they still hav to communicate katong guy ang real father..ma samok jud inyong life..
but imo na na own risk..either idea naa ghapon risk..so apili ug prayers sad.. na will be having the right decision.

[UNWANTED]

First... you have to have an OB check-up and count the days when she got preggy (if ever she really is preggy) and if it doesn't match the days you had her with you, then leave her and move on... I know it's a difficult thing to do, specially that you seem to be very inlove with her, but is it worth it? can you live with that, that you're the only one who's inlove? and if she tells you that she loves you, that's a total lie. No offense bro, but I think your gf is the type of girl who can't keep her legs cross... but the decision will still be yours... just choose... get hurt now and move on till you'll meet someone worthy of your love, or stay with her and doubt all the time and live in pain... your choice bro gudluck!

[unsay_ngalan_nimo]

first pa-PT muna... para sure....
if +, just ask the girl..
be honest about it... tell her your doubts...
taw ra sad you have the rights to have doubts... especially nakig-buwag gud siya sa imo... dili malikayan na makahuna-huna jud ka ana...

Take her word for it.
Kay kung dili na sa imo mkonsensiya ra na siya in the long run.

babies are blessing... kahit na hindi sa iyo... ayaw pakasli kung dili ka ready... marriage and having baby are two different things... you dont have to marry her kay tungod buntis siya...

To ensure intelligent ang baby nyo mag-take siya ng Bcomlex na vitamins... ung 1-6-12... ingo nila maka-bright na sa baby ug iron sad... and milk also.. maminaw siya ug classical music.. lalo na kay mozart at bach...



Goodluck...

[humprey_bugoy]

hulat lang ug 2 weeks gkan karon if d cya dug.on,,ipa PT jud nmo,,,if ever + ,,mismo cya girl kaila kinsa amahan ana,.,naa rana sa girl if mo 2g.an sa tinood,.,.

[egent_kakashiZero]

parts preg test nlng jud imo pag-asa...pero parts mhiba-an mna count d days d last tym you had *** with her...nag condom pud ba mo?..or paslak ky paslak lng?..she's a slot dude..your just wasting your time nya parts...

[Lavinz]

Pray and ask for his guidance...talk to ur gf...u have the right to know the truth!!

[chad_tukes]

dude, i was like shaking my head when i read what the TS posted.

i thought i experienced the worst problem in the world, naa pa gyud diay mas worse.

@TS: that's really tough brother. i'd say getting a PT should be your top most priority. don't dwell too much on asking her if she had *** with that other guy or not--that doesn't make a whole lot of difference. you gotta find out who's the father of the baby first or if she's pregnant, so make that your priority.

granting that you are not the father of the baby, ask yourself this: would you be willing to accept the baby eventhough the baby is not yours?

take note: keep in mind that a delayed period doesn't necessarily mean the girl is pregnant. the only way to know is to again, get a PT. if it is indeed positive and the baby is yours, then all is good.