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  1. #41

    Quote Originally Posted by GOthique View Post
    hurt my self no uie ... but hurt them yes kaayu

    +++ hAlaaaaa...ayaw oy..u know bya 8s bad to hurt other people dbaH? esp. family members...mmmmmm btaw be sTronG lang..d btaw na forever..


    ive been carrying this burden for years

  2. #42
    @Kyl_Turbo

    things like this man gud very sensitive kaayo....

    naka try naka notice na bac nag balik balik ang problema kay both ninyo walay maminaw or at least nag effort lang gyud maminaw sa inyo mga explanation?... ayaw lang ka offend ha pero i think bac divided kaayo mo beacause of pride?... Oftentimes man gud when pride becomes the person, it will deceive you to subconsciously justify things that are beyond the norms into something sensible or acceptable... Worse pa gyud, mahimo na ni cya guiding principle...

    Bitaw bro... sometimes man gud mahimo ta self-righteous... like muingon ta wala tay sala nga gibuhat.. which is not true kay naay gyud tay sala... however learning to acknowledge those "little sins" that we commit everyday will somehow help you para mas mo broad imo panan aw sa kinabuhi and in a way, you can judge things in different perspectives... It's sad to learn man gud na mas mulala pa ang sitwasyon when you could have patched it up earlier unta pero na overlook lang ang basic nga remedies... like respect, understanding...

    i try lang kuno for a week na naa ka sa state on non-aggression...

  3. #43
    Quote Originally Posted by freudz View Post
    @Kyl_Turbo

    things like this man gud very sensitive kaayo....

    naka try naka notice na bac nag balik balik ang problema kay both ninyo walay maminaw or at least nag effort lang gyud maminaw sa inyo mga explanation?... ayaw lang ka offend ha pero i think bac divided kaayo mo beacause of pride?... Oftentimes man gud when pride becomes the person, it will deceive you to subconsciously justify things that are beyond the norms into something sensible or acceptable... Worse pa gyud, mahimo na ni cya guiding principle...

    Bitaw bro... sometimes man gud mahimo ta self-righteous... like muingon ta wala tay sala nga gibuhat.. which is not true kay naay gyud tay sala... however learning to acknowledge those "little sins" that we commit everyday will somehow help you para mas mo broad imo panan aw sa kinabuhi and in a way, you can judge things in different perspectives... It's sad to learn man gud na mas mulala pa ang sitwasyon when you could have patched it up earlier unta pero na overlook lang ang basic nga remedies... like respect, understanding...

    i try lang kuno for a week na naa ka sa state on non-aggression...

    bro ing ani man gud ... ang sala sa ako brother ... ako ang ga bayad ... ako ang singittan ... ako ang mahayan ... which is very unfair ... i dont deserve to be treated that way

  4. #44
    if you think that you've made the right decision without any regrets, then go for it. make sure that you can live and stand on your own now ..

  5. #45
    Quote Originally Posted by n0vicE_guRL View Post
    if you think that you've made the right decision without any regrets, then go for it. make sure that you can live and stand on your own now ..
    pwede kaayu ... usahay mag pa luoy luoy sila ug mga nawng kung suklan .. ako pa daw ang walay batasan so nitubag gyud ko unsaon nako pag respeto kung dili ko respetaran bisan dili anak but respetahan as a person nalang

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl_Turbo View Post
    pwede kaayu ... usahay mag pa luoy luoy sila ug mga nawng kung suklan .. ako pa daw ang walay batasan so nitubag gyud ko unsaon nako pag respeto kung dili ko respetaran bisan dili anak but respetahan as a person nalang
    Ako, parent na baya ko ron, pero kanumdom ko sa una kung motubag mi to air our side or to complain, ingnun ta nga walay batasan kahuman kung di ta mutubag ingnun sad mi nga "gitanaw lang ko ay... "

  7. #47
    have been into this situation before .. what i did is forgive and forget .. wala ko nagrebelde coz i know that i still cant stand on my own, i need my family pa. goodluck dude! i know that you're on the right track. keep up!

  8. #48
    Hello Kyle,
    I hope you are feeling much better now by voicing your sentiments. Let me tell you something, you may or may not accept them, it's your choice. At the end of the day, we make our own lives, not even parents can make lives for their children.

    1. I may agree with you that you are really hurt, but, ask yourself also, is my family hurting too, probably yes.
    2. If you feel you have bad parents, how are you as a son? are you a good son or a bad son?
    3. In our life time, we will only have one father and one mother. You can have many friends, relatives, siblings and even wives, but parents, you will only have one set. When they are gone, their gone forever.
    4. Educate yourself, education makes the empty mind become wise and mature one. I am not saying you have an empty mind, I am saying is make your mind work properly.
    5. There is no better way than to share your success and failures with your family. Even if you will be the riches/most successful guy 10 years from now, it is useless without a family to share it with, don't you agree?
    6. Forgiveness is a process, but once achieved, it will open new doors for you and your family. If you get there, it's like you jump from a tower yet you landed on both feet alive and well. If you won't forgive, it's like you are walking in a tunnel carrying two bags of cement.

    I believe you are an inteligent person. You rebeling is part of your life-path. You did not mention your age. Think about this, life is brokendown into stages. There are things you can do at 20-30 years old which you will not be able to do when you are 40 already. That's just the way life is, so choose wisely.

    People will always look up to where you are and not where you came from. So if you choose to stay where you are right now and will result to runing yourself, people will remember you as a big failure. But if you will come out and do the right things and be a man of actions and accountability, you will be remembered as such. It's your choice, would you prepare to be dragged down by your hate or prefer to get out of it and stop being slave of the past.

    For it doesn't matter how you fall, what matters is how you stand up and recover from the fall.
    These are not just words taken from books Kyle, these are from my box of experiences when I was your age.

    God bless you

  9. #49
    member ka sa gay community then imo dad suko?

  10. #50
    Quote Originally Posted by HenryLiwanag View Post
    Hello Kyle,
    I hope you are feeling much better now by voicing your sentiments. Let me tell you something, you may or may not accept them, it's your choice. At the end of the day, we make our own lives, not even parents can make lives for their children.

    1. I may agree with you that you are really hurt, but, ask yourself also, is my family hurting too, probably yes.
    2. If you feel you have bad parents, how are you as a son? are you a good son or a bad son?
    3. In our life time, we will only have one father and one mother. You can have many friends, relatives, siblings and even wives, but parents, you will only have one set. When they are gone, their gone forever.
    4. Educate yourself, education makes the empty mind become wise and mature one. I am not saying you have an empty mind, I am saying is make your mind work properly.
    5. There is no better way than to share your success and failures with your family. Even if you will be the riches/most successful guy 10 years from now, it is useless without a family to share it with, don't you agree?
    6. Forgiveness is a process, but once achieved, it will open new doors for you and your family. If you get there, it's like you jump from a tower yet you landed on both feet alive and well. If you won't forgive, it's like you are walking in a tunnel carrying two bags of cement.

    I believe you are an inteligent person. You rebeling is part of your life-path. You did not mention your age. Think about this, life is brokendown into stages. There are things you can do at 20-30 years old which you will not be able to do when you are 40 already. That's just the way life is, so choose wisely.

    People will always look up to where you are and not where you came from. So if you choose to stay where you are right now and will result to runing yourself, people will remember you as a big failure. But if you will come out and do the right things and be a man of actions and accountability, you will be remembered as such. It's your choice, would you prepare to be dragged down by your hate or prefer to get out of it and stop being slave of the past.

    For it doesn't matter how you fall, what matters is how you stand up and recover from the fall.
    These are not just words taken from books Kyle, these are from my box of experiences when I was your age.

    God bless you

    thank you sir , god bless you 2 and your family

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