Ask me Any question about life

[Soul Doctor]

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is life like a box of chocolates? you never know what you'll gonna get?

Yes, life is like a box of chocolate, you will never know what you'll get.

(Kulang pa nag line so akong sumpayan)

But, you always get what you deserve.

[Soul Doctor]

bro, i hav another question:

is it true that love happens for an unexpected reason??

It is quite a tricky question you have there, if you study it carefully.
You could create a chess puzzle. You have the talent of a chess puzzle maker.
If this were a puzzle, then this could be hard to solve.

The only way to approach this type of question is simplification.

Simplify the question.

Does love happen unexpectedly?
Or
Does love happen for a reason?

Yes and yes.
Love could happen at unexpected times and situation.
Love happens for a reason.
Mostly it is there to give you a lesson.
Love does not just happen.
Love is desired, it is felt.
Your body feels love because it needs to feel love.

It means that if you are already in-love (real romantic love),
you do not just fall in love immediately with another person.
But Love could easily be confused with infatuation and lust.

Even Lust could not happen with out a reason.

Everything happens for a reason, even feelings and emotions happen for a reason.
We are just too intoxicated with the emotion that we cannot recognize the reasons.

[babynforce]

thx au soul doctor aq ning buhaton.... =P

[cosplay]

A 'thanks' is the appropriate response. Not further questioning.

[Soul Doctor]

thx au soul doctor aq ning buhaton.... =P

Ngee wala pa gani ko nahuman. hehehe

Bitaw adto na lang sa - helpwithsmoking.com
basaha tanan didto.

[am_believer24]

thanks, but i think abnormal man gud ko..hehe!
i don't want to be the center of attention kay i dunno how to react, mag-blush pa jud ko, then mag-sweat..ggrrr!!
how can i overcome those things?Ü

[Sinyalan]

thanks, but i think abnormal man gud ko..hehe!
i don't want to be the center of attention kay i dunno how to react, mag-blush pa jud ko, then mag-sweat..ggrrr!!
how can i overcome those things?Ü

Join a toastmasters club!

[am_believer24]

^^ any suggestion? thanks...Ü

[harris]

@Soul Doctor - Why you feel love? What is the cause of love? Where does love come from? will most of the answer comes from the heart but any further explanation to that?

[Soul Doctor]

thanks, but i think abnormal man gud ko..hehe!
i don't want to be the center of attention kay i dunno how to react, mag-blush pa jud ko, then mag-sweat..ggrrr!!
how can i overcome those things?Ü

I think something happened when you were young.
You may have experienced it in school or at home.
Please try to remember anything traumatic events or experiences.
It could be a product of any form of maltreatment.

I too, has low self confidence when I was young.

My father left us when I was 4.
My mother was unintentionally exposing us to bad programming.
Somehow she lashes out on me, because I was my dad's favorite child.
She programmed my mind thinking that our father is a bad person (because he left us).

This programming has negative impact on our emotional development.
Inside our childhood mind it suggests that our father is not a good person,
therefore we are not a good person too.

Its effect were more visible on my younger siblings.
I , as the favorite child,
manage to resist her programming
by thinking of the things my dad did for me.
I think of ice cream and different toys
that my father brought home for me every time gets home.