i need an opinion...

[kagulo...]

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hirs d thIng.....,


gnahn ako uyab sa isa ka grl b4 pa mi nagkaila.. as in gnahn KAAYO sya.... nanguyab sya sa girl pro wa man sya sugta, so wa nlang sya namugos. ka2ng tym na uyab na mi, i've heard na gnahn sad daw kaayo ang girl nya...

i knw my bf loves me. he has proven it a lot of tyms alredy. wa naman sad daw sya gnahi sa girl na. pro the thought still wont come out of my mind. i trust him so much and dats why it scares me. wa ko kbw, 2ngod sa akng salig nya, kalit lng sya og kawa nko... SHOULD I WORRY?

[zengatsu]

no you shouldnt..if he trully loves you, then you shouldnt worry..you should just trust him kay basin kung dili ka musalig niya nya murag imo cya dudahan basig maglagot noon na cya nimo unya maapektohan iyang feelings for you..nya mawala noon cya..just let him feel that the trust you have for him is a trust that he shouldnt break..

[kagulo...]

tnx..... i really appreciate it. at least d na kaayo ko maguol rn...

would you have done the same if ever you were in my place?

[zengatsu]

oh i wouldnt worry if were in your place, coz as you said his love for you is proven..i dont think hed simply just go around breaking your heart..well, if he does, then doesnt really love you and if that is the case, then he doesnt deserve your trust and your love.

just dont worry, chill out..

[Pixie77]

korek jed! if he has proven his love to you several times na then you shouldn't worry.... he may have liked the girl before but past is past.... hinomdomi important kaayo ang trust sa isa ka relationship.... jealousy and suspesions are like poison that will eat at your trust.... and ultimately, your love and relationship...

just pray and have faith in him and your love for each other

[zengatsu]

sakto! hehehe

[HOmebRew]

ok....sakto sad...

[barakz]

express yourself dude!!!!!!!!!

[Subzero]

If he truely loves you why worry. Trust is one of the basic foundation of a good relationship. Kung masakpan nmo nga namakak siya den naa siya lain ayaw pag duha2x buwag naay daghan laki.

[Musette du Coudray]

hirs d thIng.....,

gnahn ako uyab sa isa ka grl b4 pa mi nagkaila.. as in gnahn KAAYO sya.... nanguyab sya sa girl pro wa man sya sugta,
so wa nlang sya namugos. ka2ng tym na uyab na mi, i've heard na gnahn sad daw kaayo ang girl nya...

i knw my bf loves me. he has proven it a lot of tyms alredy. wa naman sad daw sya gnahi sa girl na. pro the thought
still wont come out of my mind. i trust him so much and dats why it scares me. wa ko kbw, 2ngod sa akng salig nya,
kalit lng sya og kawa nko... SHOULD I WORRY?

One thing we should learn to accept when we love a person, is their past, whatever that is. Trust also, is one of the biggest factor in a realtionship. If he had proven himself in so many ways, then I wouldn't think there's something to worry about. Based on those phrases, I have come to speculate that your lover is sincere but then again, I do not know him personally. Although, many have come to pass this stage on a specific relationship, some chose the wrong direction rather. Like an old friend would say, men are needy. I would hope this isn't going to happen here. Give it a chance Mademoiselle Kagulo, do not hold him back. If he chose to be on other way, let him be. It is never easy, I give you that, but would you rather stay in a love that is made out of deception? That, is for you to decide.

And as for my way of thinking Mademoiselle, if you choose to hold him back, that would be selfishness on your part. Why? Wouldn't it be selfish enough to make him stay because you need him? Love, is about taking risks. Some say, it is a gamble.

For now, don't think about it too much or people might also think that it is insecurity. Understand the scenario, accept his past, trust him (limits would apply, of course) and tell him what you really feel, communication really helps.