Can this be considered sukob?

[AnGelicFace_07]

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i also agree ... if there's no problem postponing your engagement party, then do that

But I think the girl will get angry if she discovers that their engagement party will be cancelled.. how sad

[yokam]

Focus on other things other than worrying about this "sukob" belief. It's just a belief and it's up to you to dictate the course of your life. If you believe and continue to believe in such, then for sure your life and your family will experience and suffer different mishaps because you already have a preempt notion of things to happen in the first place. Chill and go on as planned. There are no such things as "sukob". There are no concrete basis for it's existence. Even luck and misery doesn't exist, we create them.

[kenai]

my fiance's grandmother died yesterday and we were supposed to tie the knot this November. should we go on our plans or we should postpone it or something....i don't know if we should continue to plan for our wedding or just have it another year.... need your advice here thanks

[jlodarl]

I think its ok... kay pila pa bitaw ka weeks ang ang paaboton.. may unta the next day na inyo kasal.. ok ra na wui..

[kenai]

I think its ok... kay pila pa bitaw ka weeks ang ang paaboton.. may unta the next day na inyo kasal.. ok ra na wui..

ok thanks for me its ok coz after all the preparations

[jlodarl]

Bitaw supertitous belief ra man na.. You love each other so why not..

[john_yo]

i dont see anything wrong with that. nature is come and go, now i dont see whats your grandmothers death have to do with it.

honoon daghan kaau beliefs ang filipinos, hehehe pero para nako ok ra oi, push it thru.

[kamikaze426]

SUKUB na.. if mutuo gyud ka sa philippines supertitous belief

[jlodarl]

I think dili ni tinuod...supertitous belief lang.. ok ra na wui.

[cp103]

It's up to you if you want to believe superstitions or not, nobody can dictate to you bro coz you make your own decisions. But it ain't so bad din nman if you follow it dba? I mean, wala man siguro mawala dba? unless your girl can't wait any longer that is, but for me, a few months of waiting shouldn't be a problem, I mean, how many years gud mo nag.w8 til naabot ni nga time karon dba? and look at it this way, at least your giving the impression to the old folks ( especially to those that said nga dili pwede) that you value your decision dba? and you know how wonderful it feels that your ideas are being valued, at least, watever time they have lefty on this earth, at least you have made them feel happy pud dba?

so if you can hold off the engagement for a few months til next year, then do it, it's better to be safe than sorry....