Are You Attracted to Someone More Similar or Different From Yourself?

[crush_23]

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weird ug utok...hehehe

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..sOmeone who is different from me in a very similar way.. toinx! ..do i make sense?

[WengIA]

kanang may deperensya gamay

[ronzenajes]

I do believe in the saying "Opposite attracts"
I prefered to choose person who are opposite to me
but we both have same goals and principles in life..

[esoteric]

IMO base sa layo ra nga panan aw mas attracted ko sa similar nakog batasan...pero wa pa sad ko kahibaw kung magkaila nagyud mi kung mao nagyud.....depende ra gyud na kung magkasinabot mo.ang sa soulmate kay ....kuna man gyud na base sa ako natan awan sa Oprah kung unsa imo perception sa imo kaugalingon mao pod na ang maattract nimo for example kung hambugero ka hambugera pod ang imong maattract then mo mature ka as a person hangtod na maabot nagyud na ang para nagyud sa imo...naa pod baya ang lalake mas mature pa sa babaye..naa poy baliktad.

[hunt99]

In this question I am referring to personality and character rather than physical appearance.

I know that probably in most cases people are attracted to those who are similar enough to themselves to make communication and mutual understanding possible, but different enough to make the relationship interesting.

In some cases opposites attract. But I wonder how often that really occurs, and whether it really works out when it does occur.

And then there are cases in which a person becomes attracted to someone who is very similar to him/herself. Most people would probably say that this will become boring and stifling because it would be like being in a relationship with yourself. But on the other hand, two people who are on a very similar wavelength could result in a deeper connection.

So which is the case for you? Do you tend to be more attracted to someone very similar to yourself, very different, or somewhere in between? What has been the case in your past/present relationships?

I'm also wondering what people think of the concept of soulmates. Putting aside the issue of whether or not you think such a thing exists in reality -- what, to you, constitutes "soulmate"? How would you define it? Do you think that two people have to be very similar to each other in order to be soulmates?

am bro i cannot tell my past but in your questions when attracted to a similar person to you it doesn't mean that it will get boring as long as your serious and you love, care, comfort, help and respect that person and you have good attitude, moves, and style towards the person and you and that person you attracted are both happy no it cant be boring but there is also possibility that it will be boring it only depends on you and the one you attracted with but in a different to yourself it can still not be boring coz still thesame our serious and you love, care, comfort, help and respect that person and and you have good attitude, moves, and style towards the person and you and that person you attracted are both happy no it cant be boring but still thesame there is a possibility it will be boring it only depends on you and the one you attracted with but in a between still thesame it depends on the person yourself and the one you attracted with pero naka solti ko ani ky na-a man gyuy tao na ma change gyud ma tarong or dili pero it's up to you ra gyud on how you will get attracted and choosing

[Vortex_xxx]

kami sa ako wife totally different au mi like sa foods ako kaon ko bisan unsa siya pilian kaayo pero magkasinabot ra man pud mi kay magsinabtanay man mi...sulti lang jud unsa imo gusto og dili gusto para maka adjust daun mo...

[hunt99]

kami sa ako wife totally different au mi like sa foods ako kaon ko bisan unsa siya pilian kaayo pero magkasinabot ra man pud mi kay magsinabtanay man mi...sulti lang jud unsa imo gusto og dili gusto para maka adjust daun mo...

thats one of the things i mean sa ako gi post above this am bro sakto gyud gihapon na bro

[aLohaBby]

kami ni madredrive kay similar mi ug interests but different mi'g personalities... siya kay medyo passive and while i'm the aggressive type...

[KASAAC]

well, I can't really tell at all...bisan pah ug opposite mag kauyon man gihapon, so it depends rajud
Mura vah ug kung unsai naa diha maoy dawaton...