HELP How to reject a Guy when I already agreed (forced) to be his GF.

[uani]

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help

as in tabang gyud...
last saturday i got into a trouble... naa dugay na ni court nako na guy... human hubog au xa... nya he asked me kng pwede mi tok... kyog ra sad ko kay safe ra man i tink...

human sa pub, grabe confess au xa sa iya feelings towards me, ke sho he loves me daw and na sakitan daw xa kng d ko mutagad niya...

as in super kulit au xa, nahan daw xa sugton nako xa dha dha dayn...

i honestly dont like him, its not that i dont really realy like him, kanang di pa lang gyud ko ready makigrelationship... been there and bag-o lang gyud ko nahurt...

i know the feeling of rejection, and im so afraid to reject him... kasuway man gud ko.. pero i also dont want to fall sa iya tungod kay naluoy ko... unfair sa amo duha dbA?

sus... pagpadung na namo uli ni luhod xa sa tunga sa dan.. grabe... di ma take oi.. daghan au ni tanaw na mga tawo..

tapos cgi xa shagit2 na he luves me daw... uwaw na kaayo ko... ako xa nasugit sa di oras... help guilty au ko ganahan ko bawion pero dont want to hurt him...

i really cant say karn kng serios ba sha. or nakasulti lang xa ato kay hubog xa...

help guys dont know wat to do....



hope u can do help...

[elle]

ei girl!! wa ka mag inosara oi!!!! pareha ta duha.. tell him straight to the point you dont like him nga wa gyd kay feelings nya.. kay kung love pa ka niya gyd sa tinuod mosabot cya oi.. atay pd na oi!!
na kung di gyd kasabot as in kulit kau patabange na oi psycho na!

[jonz]

dear.. you dont have to feel pity on him....after all life sometimes so unfair.... all i can say is be true to what you really feel after all.. pg dili tinud anay imo gbati pra niya.. unfair pud kau para sa iyang part... explain to him in the most pleasant way...

[dakki]

Telling him the truth will set u free. Mao ra nay kasulbaran sa imong problema. Hinoon its not easy to get hurt and i understand that you put urself into his shoes nga kung imong buwagan, sakit jud. But the longer ur in that relationship man gud the deeper sad sa iyang sakit mabati. so while early you got to cut it off. doing that, you need to say it in a nice way...i mean in mellow tone kana mura ka nag am am ug gamy bata hehehe....tell him also that you're not ready for another relationship and you can only give him friendship....at least malessen sad ang burden nya ky u said makulit sha...kana ra ba mga klase sa tao ky maporsigido nya ngita way and moabot sa point nga magpakaaron ingnon nga wa kagets sa boot nmo pasabot... basta be yourself, be honest and be kind lng pud... guess mao ra na ako makahatag nmo...gudluck! :mrgreen:

[greatSicnarf]

y dont u giv him a chance! try lng nimu... lets say 4 a month lng.. basin ma learn ra nimu cya lov..
mayb tarung gyd diay cya n worthy sa imu lov! every1 deservs a chance... so try lang!
n after dat tym wla ghpn ka filings 4 him, den 8s tym 4 u 2 tel him d truth!! i xplain lng nya tarung...
although ma hurt cya, at list u gave 8 a chance!! :mrgreen:

[garilaps]

naghimu diay kag lain nga thread bahin ani?

nagpost naku sa usa nga thread.. anyway kaya mo yan girl.. be honest to yourself..

[tolstoi]

first U shud take into consideration that he was only acting up like that for the reason that HE'S DRUNK!..if he can do that again when he's already sober then i guess he is true to his feelings

[Onins]

And if he is really true to his feelings then he deserves at least be given a month then assess your feelings towrd him. If you eventually fall for him you ask urself another question, given that he's still as madly inlove as you said he is, would you rather love more or be loved more? kahilak mansad ta mga ing.ani oi!

OT: asa man sya dapita na dalan niLuhod? hehehe

[diem]

i just wonder, should promises given to drunken guys be kept? if he was really really drunk to lose all inhibition to make a fool of himself, how could he remember you saying yes to his proposal? Was he really drunk or was it a trick? If he was drunk, just deny that you ever said yes. He'd think it was just a wet dream.

If he wasn't drunk and it was all a trick, you got to hand it to him-- he was a fool for you. There's just something about you that drove this guy crazy. How to deal with that, just ignore him. Just don't care. Act like he doesn't exist. Because if you confront him, you're just giving that little naughty boy the attention he wants, no matter if its good or bad, he just wants your attention. Just stop being a nice girl (because everybody abuses nice girls) ignore that prick, and move on.

You're not the victim unless you want to be.

[clare]

It could go both ways, that he was manipulating a situation and therefore not giving you a choice but on the other side, you might have found your 'man'. But only time will tell. But if dili jud nimo matake, hala! buwagi! way kwenta!