Merged: Selos or Jealousy in Relationships

[Gypsy]

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what dya think?

[eCpOnO]

yes very much ! i can attest to that!

i am an insecure person when it comes to my relationship ( which i know should not be) that's why i am jealous at the same time.. heheÜ

why are u asking?

[BeoR]

yes and no... sometimes jealousy is not a sign of insecurity but of pride...

[trabunco]

yes and no...

i agree with this... but i see jealousy as a sign that you really care for that person...
if there is no jealousy in me, nah i don't care maski mag-unsa ka diha...

on a partner's point of view, well the same lang... i like if she gets jealous... maski wa pa ko niya gisugot...

[Gypsy]

yes very much ! i can attest to that!

i am an insecure person when it comes to my relationship ( which i know should not be) that's why i am jealous at the same time.. heheÜ

why are u asking?

thought its healthy and normal at first but when it comes excessive and overboard then its a real pissed of..like when it reach to a point that the other person spy on you...intrude into ur personal stuff like emails etc...always become suspicious of ur activities and no matter what you do to give him emotional security, his just too jealous and insecure and has become super possesive that his presence makes u feel as if there's a green eyed monster around.... a real turn off , makes u wanna screw him.

Some guys claim that they just care and protecting the relationship but for me , its a blatant way of showing they just dont trust you.....

[shokoi]

it's normal to get jealous... dli lng sobra...

[CrasHBURN]

sakto.... mo tanan!

[n`gel]

There is a point to what you said earlier Gypsy, depends actually unsa klase nga pagselos. Of course when it's too much it wouldn't be good for the relationship. I also agree to what Beor and trabunco said too. But is jealousy a sign of insecurity? Hmm... nobody's perfect right? Let's say if the relationship is on its early stage, I think both can't avoid jealousy. For me it means you care for the person and yes you get jealous... but with caution though, too much won't be good. Pa cute cute lang kuno.

[Gypsy]

well, im never unreasonably jealous unless provoked...u have to get into my nerves in order to really see me explode w/ jealousy other than that im always cool and understanding about my partners external affairs coz i always put a lot of trust in every relationship im in, that's why i cannot understand how he cant give the same amount of trust his been getting from me

[eCpOnO]

im always jealous.. wa nay mulalis! heheÜ

"Our God is a jealous God.."