HELP What to do with my friend's GF?

[ainzzy]

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i have this guy friend and we keep in touch often since we dont see each other at all..
the problem is with his girlfriend...she hates it when my friend and i communicate...my friend told me they quarrel over me..it's totally funny coz i treat my friend like an older brother..
how will i explain to her that im not a threat to their relationship?? plss help... tanx...

[AMD_infinium05]

in anyway... that could be a little "threat" jud... but you know what... possibility can happen, i think her gf is is just making sure of some things... you know..... maybe his gf loves him that much......

suggestion: make his gf your good friend, be close to her first before her bf.....

sad to say, i had this situation with my gf, can't easily solve my problem, yet i could give help to others... sighs....

[rishee]

maam, if you were in her shoes, you'd be hurt too. trust me, you will.
just stay out of it.
Don't count on the guy to settle things with her GF.
Try to leave them alone, and if the guy chases after you. Explain to him that as a girl, it would really hurt to have your boyfriend "communicating" (I quote this because I'm sure you know what I mean)
with another girl.. especially sa OLDER BROTHER type.

C'mon now.. we're not that much of a dummy.
Just let them be... find a new OLDER BRO, one that's not taken.

I feel for the GF because as you know, guys can't realy be trusted with intimate friends..
or let me retract that.. TAKEN people can't really keep it in their pants to save their lives..

In the long run it might hurt you because you might FILL IN THE HOLE. ya know..
you might fall in love with the dude, and it might make matters worse..

or WORST... you might break them up.. tsk tsk tsk.. why break up happy people?
Not unless you intend to.. right?

[ainzzy]

i befriended his gf...i thought we're really friends but sad to say my friend told me she's jealous of me.. i really don't get it.. we used to text (the girl..)...but i don't think she's open to being real friends with me..

[ainzzy]

FYI..we've been friends long before he met her...

[rishee]

FYI..we've been friends long before he met her...

but still... that would hurt-hurt...

Just try to feel her pain. You're a girl too...

[ainzzy]

actually,they break up a lot...i tried to help by making friends with the girl and asking for her side and tried to advise my friend on what to do to resolve their problem..

[ainzzy]

i've been staying away from them lately but my friend texted me one day...it was just a friendly text but his gf got mad..as usual..

im willing to sacrifice the friendship but i dont want her to think of me as the third party...wat should i tell her?

[rishee]

i've been staying away from them lately but my friend texted me one day...it was just a friendly text but his gf got mad..as usual..

im willing to sacrifice the friendship but i dont want her to think of me as the third party...wat should i tell her?

I think that you should tell her that you're willing to sacrifice the friendship

[xidor]

maam, if you were in her shoes, you'd be hurt too. trust me, you will.
just stay out of it.
Don't count on the guy to settle things with her GF.
Try to leave them alone, and if the guy chases after you. Explain to him that as a girl, it would really hurt to have your boyfriend "communicating" (I quote this because I'm sure you know what I mean)
with another girl.. especially sa OLDER BROTHER type.

C'mon now.. we're not that much of a dummy.
Just let them be... find a new OLDER BRO, one that's not taken.

I feel for the GF because as you know, guys can't realy be trusted with intimate friends..
or let me retract that.. TAKEN people can't really keep it in their pants to save their lives..

In the long run it might hurt you because you might FILL IN THE HOLE. ya know..
you might fall in love with the dude, and it might make matters worse..

or WORST... you might break them up.. tsk tsk tsk.. why break up happy people?
Not unless you intend to.. right?

bitaw ..STAY AWAY ..