It really depends on the situation but most of the time i'd rather pick my bf first before my friends. My friends have been very understanding to me as well as my bf. There are times that dating my bf & friends would conflict so what i do is i just let the other party understand what happened why am cancelling on 11th hour, if i get a positive response then well and good, if not then i'll cross my fingers & examine my heart which date to meet then come what may afterwards!