Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[emow]

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moving on is a conscious decision. others can decide in an instant, but mostly others may take a while. It's just natural to reminisce all the things you've been through but ultimately u must decide to move on. Often times, it's not that you can't move on but rather you don't want to. you move on or not may each bring u happiness or pain. As i've said, it's a conscious decision..

[Soul_Captive]

........I hope its as easy as saying it. Just earlier I saw him with the girl, I texted him about it since I cant help what I felt earlier. Tsk,tsk,tsk.....ana jud nang mga guys sah? D jud mu angkon bsan caught in the act nah.... but he'll see... he'll be sorry in no time.

What did you say sa imo text niya?What did the act of texting brought to you?

[Soul_Captive]

ako bai kay nilarga jud ko para malimtan nko. and so far, she never crossed my mind for some time. a sign that i can do it. and so can you.

padayona na imung larga bai. you'll see. your world doesn't end with her.

I agree..Actually, I've read your story and somehow, the relationship has been long and quite deep, so it's really not going to be easy..Just be firm in your decision to move on..Ang imo paglarga might be a great help..So padayon with it..Distance and a new environment should do something good for your heart, bro...

[topaz]

be firm that you wanted to move on na. be strong. it really takes time to move on.
i have experienced this and it's really hard. i even changed my number so he wont contact me anymore and i have willed my self not to text him or try to contact him. at first lisod jud kaau..
there's the desire to call him , to text him , mangamusta then even thinking of begging him back but
if you think dili na jud pwede, wala na jud. lisod pud pugson nimo..

try to surround your self with supportive and good friends and family. command yourself to move on. to continue moving on.it works for me. hope sooner you will completely move on.

[Donzki]

Thanks kaau mga friends. I guess this is a new beginning from me. I know i can't bring things back to normal paninguhaon nako nga mo move na ko. Only god knows unsay para atoa.

@Topaz, Soul_captive, Mogul, Ilovepooh and pazziegirl thanx ninyong tanan, Even though naa na ko sa layo. Active lang gihapon dri sa istorya. I feel comfortable here. God bless to all u guys and take care...

[kul_03]

wow ha, grabi ka ug mga advices soul_captive...u must be tough when it comes to that..

[Soul_Captive]

@ Donski
No problem bai..Ok ra na..Take your time to heal all the wounds..Time ra jd ang kinahanglan ana bro..God bless you pod sa imong gi undergo na process right now..Be strong..Everything will be alright..

[Soul_Captive]

wow ha, grabi ka ug mga advices soul_captive...u must be tough when it comes to that..

Not tough dearie..Actually, I have my soft spots, but experience is one hell of a teacher jd..I try to be realistic and practical for self-preservation..

[kul_03]

Not tough dearie..Actually, I have my soft spots, but experience is one hell of a teacher jd..I try to be realistic and practical for self-preservation..

yeah i agree with you and you must also have a hell of an xperience pud cguro..thats based on your advices ha...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

...guys pls give your advises...

After more than 5 years of being together, the relationship just ended a week ago. How do you guys move on from a long term relationship?

OT: got one here i broke up with my gf for almost..more than two years?how did i move one?surely for now..dpa din...it happened weeks ago pa lang..but what am doing is focus in myself and school...