*I've found that the one who was the dumpee is always the one who improves themselves and moves on to a better life.
*I've found that I can come and go at will.
*I've found that I am unhappy only if I choose to be. It is an option.
*I've found that one can live cheaper than two.
*I've found that dating and being single can be fun.
*I've found that my friends get tired of listening to me, but that my cats will sit patiently for hours and let me wail out my tale of woe.
*I've found that I am not alone in my feelings of break up, depression, melancholy....
*I've found that everything and everyone is here only temporarily. Everything and everyone comes and goes. We are all just passing through.