HELP In Love with a Pregnant Girl

[emperadorse28]

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kung unsay tan.aw nmong sakto buhaton bro... maoy buhata... total kaw rman mkahimo sa final desisyon...

total para nku it doesn't make you less of a man if you fall inlove with that girl... knowing nga nana extra package... kung imo barugan imong desisyon to push through despite the situation.. lalaki jud ka bro may paninindigan... hehe

[Baeybe_Bryce]

baby boy, payo'ng ate lang ha? don't be like this. u may protest with what i'l say, but it's disheartening to know it. my point is, what if same thing would happen to u guys? i mean, what kau mga lalake, makabuntis kau, without knowing na un nga, nakabuntis kau. then u'd find out about it na malaki na pala ang bata? wudn't u be happy na may tumayong ama for ur own child na hindi nyo nagawa when the child was still infant? let's all be happy that despite these circumstances, may mga tao pa ring malalambot ang puso to accept children na hindi kanila. let's be happy that somehow, may gustng ipadama sa mga bata ang pagmamahal ng isang tunay na magulang. besides, why include the child with the rift? it wasn't the child's fault na magbunga ang "pagmamahalan kuno" ng ORIGINAL PARENTS niya. wag na natin idamay ang bata.

ate..dat's not my point..i bet alam ng lang hi ya ama nung bata na buntis c girl..wid dis am not going to take it dat way..selfish na kung selfish..dapat nga di madamay ung bata eh bakit in d first place ung bata ung ginawa reason?and d blame shud be sa girl..even it's too late na for blaming her i can say that mahiya siya..if am d girl i won't let someone take over my baby's dad's resposibility,..anoun?remake?but for d guy..kaw bahala tutal if un gusto mo kaw naman sasalo ng lahat not us...i may say for both of you...work for d relationship first..before you take hold any responsibility...sa girl?be sure uy!dapat mahal mo ung guy!di ung for ur own sake lang!at kay guy?think think think!

[Giant101]

imoha ra jud na nga pagbuot bro unsa imo buhaton, advice ra ni amo...
for me, bisan pa nadala nana ang loob sa girl nimo nya ikaw wala kay pagbati niya, yaw nlng padayon.
pero kung luv sad nimo cya, go 4 8!

[laagan_si_organizer]

ate..dat's not my point..i bet alam ng lang hi ya ama nung bata na buntis c girl..wid dis am not going to take it dat way..selfish na kung selfish..dapat nga di madamay ung bata eh bakit in d first place ung bata ung ginawa reason?and d blame shud be sa girl..even it's too late na for blaming her i can say that mahiya siya..if am d girl i won't let someone take over my baby's dad's resposibility,..anoun?remake?but for d guy..kaw bahala tutal if un gusto mo kaw naman sasalo ng lahat not us...i may say for both of you...work for d relationship first..before you take hold any responsibility...sa girl?be sure uy!dapat mahal mo ung guy!di ung for ur own sake lang!at kay guy?think think think!

baby boy, don't be judgmental about this. hindi naman cnabi na ibinaling nia attention nia kay WIA it's bcos gusto nia si WIA na maging fall back. again, let's not be judgmental. i should know because i have a cousin who's like this. good thing, mabait at mapagmahal ang husband niya ngayon. and much to our happiness, tinanggap nia ung bata ng buong-buo na para na ring sa kanya. he has given the kid unconditional love like a real dad. kahit alam na nung bata na hindi nia totoong dad un, mas minahal pa siya ng bata. nung tanungin namin ung pamangking kung bakit (she's still 7 years old right now), sabi niya love niya ang daddy niya kasi hindi sila iniwan ng mommy niya nito. at sabi din niya sa akin, love daw ang daddy niya kasi love daw xa ng daddy nia, kahit may bunsong kapatid na xa.

my point is, kung magpapakita ka lang ng unconditional love both the mother and the child, mas magiging happy kau. nevermind, the utang na loob out of carrying the burden. isipin mo, magiging maligaya ka kung tatanggapin mo xa ng buong buo. be open minded about it.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

baby boy, don't be judgmental about this. hindi naman cnabi na ibinaling nia attention nia kay WIA it's bcos gusto nia si WIA na maging fall back. again, let's not be judgmental. i should know because i have a cousin who's like this. good thing, mabait at mapagmahal ang husband niya ngayon. and much to our happiness, tinanggap nia ung bata ng buong-buo na para na ring sa kanya. he has given the kid unconditional love like a real dad. kahit alam na nung bata na hindi nia totoong dad un, mas minahal pa siya ng bata. nung tanungin namin ung pamangking kung bakit (she's still 7 years old right now), sabi niya love niya ang daddy niya kasi hindi sila iniwan ng mommy niya nito. at sabi din niya sa akin, love daw ang daddy niya kasi love daw xa ng daddy nia, kahit may bunsong kapatid na xa.

my point is, kung magpapakita ka lang ng unconditional love both the mother and the child, mas magiging happy kau. nevermind, the utang na loob out of carrying the burden. isipin mo, magiging maligaya ka kung tatanggapin mo xa ng buong buo. be open minded about it.

OT:un ay kung worth it c girl...

OnT: bro think mo lang pwede mgyari..and if mahal mo panindigan mo ng buo!wag ung now lang bukas iba na...just be open minded na lang if u go for it...stand for what ur heart says at ung kaya mo but don't forget to think first...make up ur mind.,..be sensible but don't take it for fun lang...d least u can give urself and d girl is sincerity and honesty!

[harveyboy2007]

Bro...ukaya sah...mailhan mana nimo kung in love ba gyud ka sa gurl ....basin uwag ra na imo...

[makathy]

actually ako sad gitambagan ang girl ana ko nga why man ninyo gipadayon inyo relationship ato nga guy dako kaayo na og cons kung wala amahan ang bata? ana sya nga wala na daw kuno sya gugma unya ang guy wala kagustuhi sa iya parents..motuo ba mo ana nga reason guys?

it's not a problem if you really love the girl.. the problem is.. are you sure she loves you?!

based on experience.. sometimes the family plays a big part on a girl's relationships.. esp. if they are close.. i've had a bf of 5 yrs. but my family was against it.. daghan na talk.. confrontation.. drama.. eventually.. coz they were always saying negative things about him.. i just got tired nlng to fight for the relationship.. there really are times when we just fall out of love.. maybe that's what your gf meant..

because let's face it.. boyfriends come and go but family will always be there.. through hard times & good times.. through the 1st trimester.. thru the prenatal.. thru the labor.. thru the delivery.. and thru the growing up years of the baby.. with or without the father of the child..

just be sure she's not on rebound.. why don't you wait until she gives birth to decide if you're really willing to commit.. wait until you actually see the baby face to face.. right then and there.. you will know if you are willing to accept her AND the baby.. just be there for her if she needs you.. but don't make any harsh decisions as well.. this is your life & your future that you'll be deciding about..

good luck..

[fingolfin]

ing ani ang sitwasyon.. naa kay nainlaban na girl tapos nahibal-an nimo nga 3mos pregnant na diay sya sa laing lalake pero bulag na sila. unya ang girl kay nahulog na ang loob sa imo.ipadayon pa ba nimo ang imong gibati?

.. if you want to be a MARTYR.. then go...

[Silver_clone]

We dont know na sa imow d.i na maliwat ang bata..joke

bitaw bro..if love nimow siya ok ra na.. natural ra na..^^..

but ang makalooy ang bata jud,,if matured enof na ang bata

[WengIA]

Hunahunaa lang gyud tarong bai..lisod lang ug magkadayon mo nya basin magaway mo maabot sa point nga imo na i sumbat niya. Ug hunahuna nimo makabuhat ka ana ug magkalisod na gyud ayaw na lang padayon.

naa sad ka point bro. ang nakapaet man gud karon kay nibati pa kog kaanyag..hihihi bitaw bro di man sad jud kalikayan maistoryahan man jud na sya nga butang naay posibility masumbatan jud nimo. mao nahuna huna nako dako og kadaot mahitabo kung mo padayon ko but sa pagkakaron di lang sa ko kay gibati pa kog kaanyag' padayon lang sa kog palanay sa girl..hihihih :B kay para sad malipay sad siya luyo sa iyang naagian.