MERGED Broken Heart needs Revenge: Is this Right?

[voix_jomz]

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i feel u my friend.... it happened to me as well.... in a very same situation, ive been there already, and i tell u, revenge is not the answer. the more u think of sumthin like that the more u push urself down and will just hurt u more.

even though i know wat u feel right now, no one can stop u on wat u wanna do.

solution? just be happy na ur single again, free urself from burdens like going out with ur kid or think of anything that would divert ur attention. it may not be an immediate aid to ur wounded heart but i tell u, ull be thankful sumday.

this is how cruel our life is......

its just a good thing na im done with it, and already moved on... even though im still single as of now, i didnt regret anything, u know y?...... becoz i see the beauty and importance of my life more than anything else... love urself bro, and u will find peace in ur heart....

[mykelchua]

ayaw lang baws bro. sakto sila. spend your time with your kid. ipagawas nalang nang imong kalagot sa maayong paagi.

[mykelchua]

bro murag imong problema kay imo pud gi post sa lain thread. custody case nalang over the children if you really want to have revenge but i dont advise it. think of your children kung wala pud sila mommy. tuod sakit para niya pero mas sakit para sa imong mga anak.

[cla_kylem]

they are right, revenge is not the answer...u will never be happy and will never have peace in your heart if u choose vengeance..
i've thought of doing this before but just the mere thought of it made me even hate myself..
so i chose to let go of the pain and forgave the person who caused it and there i set my self free..

forgiveness is the best remedy to forget..it may take time for u to forgive and move on but in time u will find it in your heart..don't let hatred overpower u..
just try to enjoy life being single and enjoy your kid's company instead..
somewhere down the road, at the right place & time, u will meet someone who's all worthy of your love & affection..

[voix_jomz]

yah i strongly agree...

yes its true how hard it is to be in ur shoe.... u know wat bro?? it took me 2 years to move on.... its really hard....

well newayz, i hope ull get over it soon..... i cant think of anything that u shud do right now..... coz i know that ur heart overpowers ur mind.... but sumhow, think of ur kid so that ull have sumthin that wud divert ur attention.....

as for ur EX wife, she doesnt deserve u..... and she doesnt know that she just messed out her life.....
hahahhahah...

y dont u try to go out with ur chix hehhe as uve mentioned ur a "habulin type of guy"... unfortunately not like me.... well gudluck!!

[DyslexicHeart]

Dudung Donski, sa imo pikas nga thread, imo gi-mention na imo live-in partner ang nagbinuang... Time pa, minyo ka legally or live-in na?

[DyslexicHeart]

bro murag imong problema kay imo pud gi post sa lain thread.

Ahehehe... Bitaw, Dudung Donski, ga-pakli pakli ko from one thread to another kay gi-post sad nimo imo suliran sa lain nga hilo... Makahilo sad gamay! Ahehehe...

[fhineltots]

if you really love her.. then fight for her. you want 5 years to go down the drain that easily? that is.. if you really think she's worth it. but if that doesn't work out for you.. chill lang sa.. remember that if something is taken away from you.. it's because something better is comin your way. you deserve much better. IF you just treated her well before the break-up lang sad and IF you didn't give her a reason to think twice about you too..

[voix_jomz]

yah thats wat makes me think as well, there must be a reason why she left you...

on my own opinion, there's no point in fighting for her...... BECOZ, she left u on purpose and went together with sumbody elze... now thats the undeniable truth.....

im not saying that there's no chance anymore.... of course there is, but maybe its only 1 out of 10...

see? she just wasted ur 5 years relationship! not to mention that you already have a kid, right?

as im gonna stress on this >>> REVENGE is not the solution.. forgiveness?? its ok that u dont, just think about it later... wat u shud think as of the moment is how can u recover and the future of u kid....

well newayz, u might be thinkin y i kept on replying to ur thread.... as ive mentioned on my first reply, it happened to me as well.... haha how nostalgic.....

[voix_jomz]

i dont know y the threadstarter isnt replying to his post.....

hahahaha