Kaminyoon nako but ako laki dili pah!

[shandrea marie]

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I need your advices!!

The story goes like this...


Been with him for about 6 years now and in my part i am really ready to take this relationship to the next level,but when i talk to him about this,he ignores me and changes the topic. At first i thought that maybe his just not in the mood to talk bout that matter but few months after that i ask him again bout it and if his ready too to take this to the next level and he said ( no i dont like responsibilities and im not a marrying type) hala na shock gyud ko.. but after another few months napud his the one nah pud ang mag cge ug storya about minyo2x nag libug na gyud ko mga sis,pls give me advices...

[emperadorse28]

try to ignore it... sometimes gud ang mga laki d gnahan mag hisgot parti ug marriage... labi na ang mga babae mo brought up sa topic... let him brought up the topic about the marriage thing...

[COMCAM]

why mga sis ra imung ge ask ug advice? I suggest you join the discovery weekend. ask for info at sacred heart church - just call either your a R. Catholic or not, its nice to find it out sa discovery weekend. Bisan ako di ko ganahan mu attend kai gasto, but I did not regret attending it. It helps me in my married relationship now.

[rishee]

hi there

ana jud na ang guys.. do0o0o0ogay sila mka realize ana..

it must be miserable he feels that way but wa tay mabuhat ana maam.
mas maau na imo pasagdaan until mka realize siya on his own.
i know waiting is an agony but then diha ka mka realize kugn siya ba jud imong gusto..
it wont really matter if pila na mo ka years.. even if naa namo mga apo, possible ghapon na mag buwag mo

just understand na marriage is like "I'll give up my life and go ahead be bald and have a beerbelly" thing sa mga guys.. im happy not all guys think this way pero at least most of the guys i know..

cge lang maam.. antusa lang usa na imong tax deduction na single.. hehe

this situation will give you time to think.
marriage is not an easy thing and if you've come to accept that true concept, congratulations, mature na jud kah...

char... mura jud kos kinsa ni advise.. harharhar....

[COMCAM]

6 years naman gud mu, asa man diay mu padung ana diba? alangan mag cge rasad ka hulat as babae, I understand that you also have to crack the question

[shandrea marie]

its just i dont wanna waste his and my time in a relationship nah wala ra dai padulngan...tnx sa mga advices ninyo hap..heehehehe.. nya mka sapot pa gyud kai cge lang gyapon siya hubog2x..

[rishee]

6 years naman gud mu, asa man diay mu padung ana diba? alangan mag cge rasad ka hulat as babae, I understand that you also have to crack the question

taas bitaw paminawon ang six years.. but dli man gud pareho ang growth sa relationship in couples.

naa man uban na tig 10 years na niya kulang pa jud lang knowledge about each other
or ang spiritual connection nila is still shaky bah..

the marriage thing comes in different ways.. naa gani ana stimulus ilang ghuwat..
like i know the story of this guy and girl na on and off ila relationship, or even to the point ne open nlng ilang relationship but nagkasakit ang girl ug cancer niya kalot2x ra siya ug ka luya, but gi minyo siya sa guy kay ngadto siya nka realize na ang girl jud di iyang gusto sa iyang life
sad noh? but sometimes, kailangan pud ta hapakon ug kusug aron mu mata

d man jud ka makibalo cguro when you are truly ready for marriage,
it's just that people take risks. some succeed and some fail

cguro if maabot na sa point na kabalo na jud ka sa dagan sa utok sa usag-usa
niya d na ka mahadlok mu tago ug secrets, niya nakasulay na jud ka na imo partner wil always be there through thick and thin, maybe just maybe.. pwede nka mag minyo.. well, it's always easier said than done

but nothing's ever certain here and that's the concept..
kbaw jud ko ana kay my dad went through several failed marriage attempts..
niya it affects everything man gud.. mao na careful jud in your decisions..

sus.. akong mga migo batan-on pa kaau huna2x miski mga tiguang nah...
but they will have their time and so will your man, gurl

go with the flow lang usa.. i knw sakit kay taking it to the next level can mean the ultimate
"i love you" but sometimes, its still not enough to mean what you really want to say...

char char char galore... na unsa naman ko oist.. hehehe

[rishee]

its just i dont wanna waste his and my time in a relationship nah wala ra dai padulngan...tnx sa mga advices ninyo hap..heehehehe.. nya mka sapot pa gyud kai cge lang gyapon siya hubog2x..

sus maam... imagina na kung mag minyo mo,
mu ana dayun na"ngano man d nako pwede mag hubo2x?!!!!!"

i personally feel na bata-on ghapon ug huna2x ang guys..

us women, we need REAL MEN to love

kay kung kita baya ma higugma, tinud-anay baya.. dli lang pa tweetums,

cguradoa usa na willing ka mu apas niya sa beerhouse kada gab-e-i aron paulion na siya.. hahahaha

[shandrea marie]

yeah maybe his just not mature enough for this and besides daghan paman pud siya ganahan nah buhaton pud.. hai tas anai nalang gyud mi ug utong ani..

[shandrea marie]

hala btaw pud.. but im always with him if mag inum siya sis,paapasun man gyud ko ana nya pag mag drinking 2x nah sila iya barkada... we always do the same thing together...