HELP My BF is behaving oddly! Playing around or am I Paranoid?

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

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tnx guys..

gtg..duty pa ko..then i'll talk to him later..i'll keep you all posted!

tnx sa support!

[mykelchua]

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[chormatus]

It started that your BF started behaving differently. I'm glad to hear that you were alert to respond to it. Unfortunately, all your attempts didn't changed the situation. I did not read all your post but he should have told you the real reason/s (not excuses) why he is behaving oddly and both of you should have worked together to resolve the problem.

I suppose he was uncooperative and did not change so you initiated to end your relationship with him. Now you want him back and he refuses to cooperate with you, instead, he blames you for hurting him.

There must be a reason why your BF fell out of love with you. Perhaps there is a need that you could not provide. The need created an aching vacuum in him which made him changed the way he feels about you.

It seem to me that you have done so much to save your relationship already. Sis, you can only give too much... you have limits because your not God. Your BF is an immature person because instead of dealing with the problem in your relationship he opted to stay away from discussing and resolving the problem with you.

Perhaps, just perhaps, the good Lord is allowing you to go through pain because He wants you to understand and learn that he is not the right guy for you.

Please be careful because a guy can pretend he still likes you but the he is also taking advantage of you to satisfy his carnal nature. You should be able to tell the difference.. how? His words and actions should match, otherwise he is insincere.

[borgy1981]

When you talk to him... just think that it is his loss not yours.
if you talk again... please dont agree going to the motel to settle it(if he ask to)...

kung sya ni set sa meeting mas maayo ayaw siputa.
kung ikaw ni set mass maayo ghapon.. in this way it can threaten him.. it ill only mean nga ready naku mo let go nya.

ayaw textc kung mo text, ayaw tubaga kung motawag...
best, change ug number.

ngiga jud aning Dr. Phil oi.... Dr.Love nalng jud akoang tawag nimo taga_ipil... kuha kaau nimo ang possibile scenarios...hehehe


bitaw, naa na unta sa iyaha ang momentum pagpakigbuwag niya...sayang nabalik sa laki after ni bare all cya nga she wants him back... karon ang laki, makaingon cya nga ngano buwag2 d man diay kabarog...or if tarong jud cya ug pangutok walay hambog, maglibog cya if gitest ra cya sa girl.. i hope the latter is what he's feeling right now....

[princezzz_pucca]

sus ako yabs...pirti au ani...but i love to hear frm him all his modus operandi in our relationship...i want him to be honest wth me even if it makes me jealous...i know he is flirting wth a lot of gurls online, over the phone, or wherever...of course im not cool wth it...pero nabalaw na kog pakigbulag niya almost everyday...oftentimes i just laugh it out...

[rishee]

It started that your BF started behaving differently. I'm glad to hear that you were alert to respond to it. Unfortunately, all your attempts didn't changed the situation. I did not read all your post but he should have told you the real reason/s (not excuses) why he is behaving oddly and both of you should have worked together to resolve the problem.

I suppose he was uncooperative and did not change so you initiated to end your relationship with him. Now you want him back and he refuses to cooperate with you, instead, he blames you for hurting him.

There must be a reason why your BF fell out of love with you. Perhaps there is a need that you could not provide. The need created an aching vacuum in him which made him changed the way he feels about you.

It seem to me that you have done so much to save your relationship already. Sis, you can only give too much... you have limits because your not God. Your BF is an immature person because instead of dealing with the problem in your relationship he opted to stay away from discussing and resolving the problem with you.

Perhaps, just perhaps, the good Lord is allowing you to go through pain because He wants you to understand and learn that he is not the right guy for you.

Please be careful because a guy can pretend he still likes you but the he is also taking advantage of you to satisfy his carnal nature. You should be able to tell the difference.. how? His words and actions should match, otherwise he is insincere.

kahilakon koh! this is the best piece of advice i have heard lately...

but its definitely do HARD TO DO!!!

waahhhhh.. faet ang life

[Baeybe_Bryce]

i've never been open like this jud guys..as in ako man jud ni tago-an pirmi akong nA-FEEL..
aw, karon ra gyud ko kapagwas sa akong gibati..tnx guys..supportive kaayo mu nako..

just follow your head not your heart,if he's happy being with you who knows he might be happier without you?!
let's put it this way, by the end of this you might lose him but you can never lose yourself?ryt?
it's not being selfish it's just giving yourself a good choice,if you still love him and you want him back then be strong.

no one can protect you than you do yourself

[rishee]

with what i know, guys can drama more than gurls can

SO if now, he's giving you the excuse of "I don't want you back because you hurt me shTi*"

than, how true could that be?

Wat f that's just a thingy aron dli mu gawas na he's an AHoLe for trying to hide so many kinky things especially if the subject involves other women..

Hm.. lisod na na life maam.

it's just so hard to trust men even if you've been with them for an Eternity

mu usab ilang wants and needs. makatilaw ug lain sud-an,
mubalhin sa pikas suki.

unsaon!

[Baeybe_Bryce]

with what i know, guys can drama more than gurls can

SO if now, he's giving you the excuse of "I don't want you back because you hurt me shTi*"

than, how true could that be?

Wat f that's just a thingy aron dli mu gawas na he's an AHoLe for trying to hide so many kinky things especially if the subject involves other women..

Hm.. lisod na na life maam.

it's just so hard to trust men even if you've been with them for an Eternity

mu usab ilang wants and needs. makatilaw ug lain sud-an,
mubalhin sa pikas suki.

unsaon!

hmm,not all...almost but not quite...gender is not the basis,if you fool around...

[rishee]

hmm,not all...almost but not quite...gender is not the basis,if you fool around...

true.. sorry! no offense to the guys.. just offending one particular guy! wahahha!


btaw oi... that was a G2G advice.♥