before magpakasal, we are looking forward na ang ating mapangasawa eh for the rest of our life na.. but come to think of it, nowadays, we do have lots of reasons why both parties would give their marriage up. physical and emotional abuse.. we dont want to suffer for the rest of our lives just accepting all the pain and being hurt all the time. One has its own limitations on where to stop.Nevertheless, we should make sure that we really knew who we are marrying to completely. If both parties would want to work it out again, then they have to try and settle things first before it will come to worst..