HELP: Coping up with my 1 yr old..

[tracktrix]

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Im a mom of a 1 yr old boy. im really having a hard time coping up kay akong 1 yr old in love kaayo nako. dili nako maka do sa household chores kay each time he sees me around, always jud mo parayg. he wants to play with me, magpa kugos, mo eat daw xa, mo drink, maski unsa nlng as long as ako ang iyang gi kuptan. I find it very inconvenient kay di na ko maka do even my personal stuff, (like going to the comfort room) even when im taking a bath mag atang xa outside then mag cge cry. It breaks my heart to hear him cry para ma tagad lang nako..

Please give me tips on how to cope up with this. Any ideas are welcomed... Who knows, it might work.

Thanks so much for your time.

[cosplay]

Have a psychologist detect his type of mentality and kind of personality. I'm sure that they know best. This way, you would know the best strategy to enforce kay if magpataka ra ka og impose on an order or demand, who knows nga ang iyahang mentality kay "retaliation" diay?? He might have a reverse relation with you -- sobra sa hate instead of the present "sobra sa love".. In other words, total revert.

[tracktrix]

Thanks for the quick reply cosplay,but dont you think its too early for me to consult matters with a psych? I mean ma read na ba na nila ang kind of personality at this age? 1 year and 8 months? I really want to bring him up well and good so i want to get ideas from mothers out there who might have gone through the same experience as I am undergoing now.

Thanks again...

[cosplay]

No problem.. Is the father around?? What is his reaction to the father...?

[tracktrix]

Yes the father is around. he does not bother his father. As if no one else exist when Im around. I tried to ask his nannies about his behaviour when Im not at home, they would say that he is just fine. He follows their instructions, and dili daw mag cge cry. He plays with his toys on his own and keeps them by himself when he is done playing. But when im around, he is really super noisy...

[cosplay]

He is really addicted to you. Maybe you are just one mom full of love... Be happy..

[tracktrix]

My heart is really flattered by "his" being so in love with me but its really difficult at times because i cant do the things that needs to be done... hahay... cge! panganak pa... lol!

[Galadriel]

when he is asleep that is when you do the things you have to do.

[tracktrix]

@Galadriel: He rarely sleeps during the day.. He only sleeps long hours during the night from 7pm til 6am.. I go to sleep during those hours as well because i get tired of the long day with him... Its not that I dont like my son being so in love with me.. maluoy lang ko niya na mo cry pag ayo basta dili ma tagad nako.

[tracktrix]

@cosplay: How are you today?