Recommend a Licensed Psychologist Please

[Dorothea]

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^In the Philippines, unless it's something tangible, something they can see and feel, be it a gash, a wound, an oozing sore...then it's not a valid medical problem. The word depression is a joke to most, and if not, certainly nothing that a good buddy-buddy session and a bottle of beer can't cure. Some people even say, "imagination ra na nimo oi, i-utot na!".

[diem]

[color=navy]@akosibert, why how about trying the Cebu Paranormal Society for information? They promote intuition development and balanced living so they could know someone who could be like a life coach. From time to time they hold seminars. Maybe they can guide you to alternative methods in acquiring inner peace.

Contact details here.
http://www.cebuparanormalsociety.com...tact/Itemid,3/

[akosabni]

@akosibert, paita sab ni bai ... kung pwede pa lang ako ni ihatag ang budget nako sa balay, ako ni buhaton pero ako naman sab mag problema

what i can offer is just to hear you out, maybe if you unload some of your problems, you would feel a little better

[akosibert]

@all....ako i tell u...manikamut jus ko ngita trabho aron mak tabang ko sa akong pamilya...unsa man lain mga establishimento way jus ko dawata, or call center fell nko pasar ko sa 1st exam dha jud ko kutob! Kaibaw ka g unsa ko sa mga call center...SORRY U DID NOT PASS! ako murag malas ko ani! ako cge ko g ampo sa gino-o la jud work! ako after ko sa exam nag hagbung ko....kahilakon ko! ako mama ngita tawn kawarta para bayad sa 3 ka credit cards!ug akong papa sad. na-a mi tindahan...pero gamai ra halin.

[chad_tukes]

what can you do man? kamao ka mubasa ug mag english? if yes, i can help you.... [br]Posted on: May 09, 2008, 12:59:48 PM_________________________________________________

honestly, i think you're too black.. suwayi gani na padaghanay mo ug problema sa imong mga kauban o-- tanawa kinsay daug--- if ever ikaw daug, email me kay ill prove u wrong.

ayaw lng huna2x problema gud.. katawa lng ug maayo!

your statement is not really helpful to someone like AKOSIBERT who is on the brink of giving up. the guy is depressed, let us help him.

@akosibert: you're not the only one, daghan ta. just wanted to let you know you are not alone. kita tanan daghan ta mga problema may it be family, friends, lovelife, or money it doesn't matter. it affects us in some way and maka ingon ta nga ganahan na kau ta mu give up, worse magpakamatay. mao lang ni timan-i bro, "habang may buhay, may pag-asa"... corny pero tinuod.

keep trying lang bro. afterall, life is about ups and downs. nahagbong tuod ka karon, but who knows, makapasar diay ka next nimong suway? mao nay ilang giingon nga "try and try until you succeed." life is all about challenges so keep on trying.

i'll leave you a quote that you may want to ponder on.

Love the moment. Flowers grow out of dark moments. Therefore, each moment is vital. It affects the whole. Life is a succession of such moments and to live each, is to succeed.

---Corita Kent.

[fingolfin]

.. aahhhh, it's a monetary problem afterall. That's too easy to solve. Find a job, don't give up. If you fail in call centers, try again, at least now you know what their exams are all about. And you say you have a store, then help your mom in keeping the store rolling.


.. but here's the advice i'll give you, no offense to your dad, but keep that credit card, cut it in half, or don't ever use it ever again. That's the root of your money problems, again, no offense, but that's where the problem arises when you mis-manage your credit cards. It feels like money but it's not.

.. anyway, don't wallow on your problem, smile and don't give up in looking for a job. Coz fact of the matter is, Istoryans or psychologist can ONLY give you advices, it's you who should do the problem solving itself.


.. no one can help you but yourself. But always keep in mind, that you're not the only person who have problems. If i'll tell you mine for sure you'll smile coz your problem is so miniscule compared to mine. Trust me dude, be optimistic and you'll be able to solve your problem.

[rishee]

your statement is not really helpful to someone like AKOSIBERT who is on the brink of giving up. the guy is depressed, let us help him.

@akosibert: you're not the only one, daghan ta. just wanted to let you know you are not alone. kita tanan daghan ta mga problema may it be family, friends, lovelife, or money it doesn't matter. it affects us in some way and maka ingon ta nga ganahan na kau ta mu give up, worse magpakamatay. mao lang ni timan-i bro, "habang may buhay, may pag-asa"... corny pero tinuod.

keep trying lang bro. afterall, life is about ups and downs. nahagbong tuod ka karon, but who knows, makapasar diay ka next nimong suway? mao nay ilang giingon nga "try and try until you succeed." life is all about challenges so keep on trying.

i'll leave you a quote that you may want to ponder on.

Love the moment. Flowers grow out of dark moments. Therefore, each moment is vital. It affects the whole. Life is a succession of such moments and to live each, is to succeed.

---Corita Kent.

sometimes you have to bisslap peeople for a reality check. Empathy is nice, but it doesn't work all the time.

[akosibert]

@all i dont know how to solve my problem! every wake up in the morning...mao giapon adlawa, orasa nko problema. ako mama cge problema sa kwarta! ako gani mka tiguwang ko wala jud ko trabaho ug kwarta aron mka bayad sa credit cars sa kong ginikanan. maskig pusta ko sa lotto d mu da! maskig pray d mu da! unsa-on nalang. tga adlaw nko sa kwarto cge ko huna2x unsa-on pamaagi ngita trabao, ngita kwarta.

[rishee]

@all i dont know how to solve my problem! every wake up in the morning...mao giapon adlawa, orasa nko problema. ako mama cge problema sa kwarta! ako gani mka tiguwang ko wala jud ko trabaho ug kwarta aron mka bayad sa credit cars sa kong ginikanan. maskig pusta ko sa lotto d mu da! maskig pray d mu da! unsa-on nalang. tga adlaw nko sa kwarto cge ko huna2x unsa-on pamaagi ngita trabao, ngita kwarta.

kulang pa imo prayers bro! pray more....

[topaz]

@ akosibert : u probably have some friends na may negosyo na ginagmay para mkahelp nimo like extra2 lang sa sa work. bisag minimum pay lang sa so that you have money to use para mka apply sa mga big companies.atleast lang ba naa ka pansustento sa day to day expenses nimo. we always have to start small. be humble enough na dili sa ka mamili ug work, bisag gamay basta maau lang. that could be your stepping stone. then if possible, ayaw soloha tanan, for sure bisag usa ka tao naa ka msultian with out judging you.

by the way, you can also try to apply online para less imong expenses. :mrgreen: