Letting Go of the One you Love

[Lavender_babe]

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lavender_babe....

do the things nga wala pa nimo ma buhat sa una..... youre free now....relax your mind.... i close sa na for a moment ang imong past.... think and think kong unsay ma ayong buhaton... right now ang imong mind gubot pa ka ayo..... thats why sometimes u cant stop youre self.. crying and crying.....trying to find the answer.. and if u foud out.. nga ma o diay.. nah.. basin masakitan nasad ka.. much better nga dili nalang nimo mahibaw-an... .... one is enough two is too much..... . sakto bahhh.. hehehe..

Hi monrose29..thanks ha! im already doing it right now...im occupying my mind with my studies...Hopefully, mawala na ang sakit...im not mad or anything to him....he told me that he loves me but he has to let me go or he has to go...d ba painful au....la nalang ta cya ingon nga love ko niya! mas d pa tngali painful....

[Lavender_babe]

...... You're human after all! It's time to look for somebody who is more deserving of your love. Let's say.....rums_field. You might ask yourself, what about rums_field? Well, that's for you to find out. I'm sure that once you know him, you'll have a new perspective about life. Try to PM him. Sa man?

Hu's rums_field? sounds interesting

[roselyn]

take time for yourself, spent some time to think all over..
you can still find another love, just spend more time with your friends and that you can easily move on.. if you will come to say that you can't move on, you can't, just be strong and have faith in God..period

[tempest]

Hey Guys! what's up? Hahay! im back ! Drama jud ang life karon! Ive been to a very painful break up with my first ever BF...hehehehe ....EX-BF na diay! this weak lang jud..the reasons was not that clear to me and im unsatisfied bout it....sa text ra man jud m nagbreak up....it's so hard to move on considering the fact that there are still a lot of unresolved issues...Gusto nako mo let go and mo move on...but how? i know how but why is it so hard to do? i dont wanna think bout him anymore but everytime im alone, it always pop up on my mind. i dont wanna cry but cant stop the tears.....kung pwede palang lage unta duklon nko ako self, ako na gibuhat....I become so stupid already!

I need an advice!

Oh moving on. Easier said than done. Actually there is no hard and fast rule of moving on. It depends upon in any given situation. Unresolved issues? Leave it the way it is. There are really things you cant do anything anymore.

To tell you about my experience, I broke up with couple of girlfriends without any reason at all. One happened almost 18 years ago. The other 11 years ago. We still have unresolved issues. Both of them are married already. But I can assure you I am not the one with issues its them.

Anyway, it all depends to you. But moving on is relative. you might forget some but not all. Its up to you really.

A piece of advice, try not to be too attached in case you fall in love again. Be careful. Pray.

[sulfura]

i dont knw how to let go of material things, how much more to let go of the one i love most??!!! ... so hard ...... god's guidance is all i need ..

[Lavender_babe]

Yah! its really hard but i feel much better now unlike last monday and yesterday...i have read a lot of advice but im thinking of following the one advice..i havent made up my mind yet

[~kilua~]

be with your friends........enjoy,,,,,but pray..............

[chellee]

hey, just think of it mag bulag man gani ang mag asawa how much more ang uyab palang.. go on explore life enjoy , make the most of it...just always think and put it in your mind it's not ur lost its his lost ...it's nice to meet other people.. if the relationship didnt work then look for another ..its always like that learn from your experience that will help you become mature and wise in handling another upcoming relationship..a piece of advice Love yourself more always use the head ist then the heart para dili ka kalolouy in the end..diskarte lang na somtimes ikaw ang maka hurt, sometimes pud ikaw ang ma hurt...

[P-Chan]

tiwasi nalang na imong "unresolve issues"

[Lavender_babe]

Unsaon man pagtiwas oi? la naman m commication this past few days