Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[karlyn]

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just start loving yourself again

i agree with this one.

[mrs_sipi_mr_yoso]

ayaw ug iwas sa mga butang na maka pahinumdum nimo sa person. That's what I do, para mawagtang iya significance sa akoa.

I also read that from some psychology book, it helps daw para dili naka ma anchor sa iya or sa inyung memories together.

[rainwax]

ayaw ug iwas sa mga butang na maka pahinumdum nimo sa person. That's what I do, para mawagtang iya significance sa akoa.

I also read that from some psychology book, it helps daw para dili naka ma anchor sa iya or sa inyung memories together.
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agree ko ani..
mao pud ni akong gbuhat..
effective for me..

[HIRO_NTA]

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ayaw ug iwas sa mga butang na maka pahinumdum nimo sa person. That's what I do, para mawagtang iya significance sa akoa.

I also read that from some psychology book, it helps daw para dili naka ma anchor sa iya or sa inyung memories together.
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agree ko ani..
mao pud ni akong gbuhat..
effective for me..

nya what if kana na butang is the also the only thing you have para maka move on ka yati, lisod explain..its like hilig au ka ani na butang (ex. photography) nya siya sad, i mean its the one thing that keeps you distracted nlang kay la na cya, but at the same time its the one thing that constantly reminds you of him too kay kibaw gani ka na siya ra pud ang ma excited or maka relate sa imo chika and stuff about it ..haaaayy pwede maboang..paets

[rainwax]

nnya what if kana na butang is the also the only thing you have para maka move on ka yati, lisod explain..its like hilig au ka ani na butang (ex. photography) nya siya sad, i mean its the one thing that keeps you distracted nlang kay la na cya, but at the same time its the one thing that constantly reminds you of him too kay kibaw gani ka na siya ra pud ang ma excited or maka relate sa imo chika and stuff about it ..haaaayy pwede maboang..paets

same situation here bro..
naa pud mi something in common na when im in that it's so distructing to the extent it wud make me cry..
but i think that's part of it..it's ok if mabuang ta..basta dili lang forever..
time will heal the wounds someday..

[sexyjelly]

BE The person you were before you got into the relationship.
You were happy before you met him/her. You just have to find yourself.

Keep busy. go Out. Its hard but its worth it.

this is true... karon pa jud ko maka relate ani imu g.mean... hard at first but... its for the best for both of you..

[frenchfries]

sayon raman pra mak move on.
kabalo mo anang word na "pretention?"
try to aply 8 nd bliv me it wil work jud.
pretend nlang ka na ok k then ipakit sa tanang tao na kaya nimo.
ako,iv bin der na...and look at me now.blooming inside and outside.

[frenchfries]

Pick up the shattered pieces of myself and decide that life still must go on. Panget na yun!

[frenchfries]

if makita naku sya na naa lain ...hmp!
Maghahanap agad ako ng pwedeng kalandian, tapos makikipag-PDA (public display of affection) ako within viewing distance of my ex. I'll show him/her na madami pa din nagkakagusto sa akin!ahehehehe

[kismequik21]

Just recently, a friend got her heart broken. When she recounted the whole story of how it happened and why it happened, I couldn't help but remember the times when I was in her shoes. Getting your heart broken is the most painful experience a person in love go through. I remember when I was the one crying and retelling the story to my friends. All those questions filling your mind. What went wrong? Why did he do this to me? Is it me? etc, etc, etc.

The most difficult part is moving on. Getting up after the fall, dusting yourself off, and moving on. It is very difficult to move on when every single thing you see reminds you of the other person. Even to the last detail of every single day reminds you of the other person. When you know for a fact that you have to accept the fact that he is no longer yours, that he will never come back, and yet, you can never find it in your heart to let go.

You know that you have to move on. But the question of how to do it is there because you can't accept the fact that he is gone. You know that he is not coming back but how can you accept that fact? What do you have to do to accept it? What do you have to do to move on?

Depression sets in. You get depressed because you cannot move on. The intention is there but the drive to do it isn't. Others may see that you have moved on but you can never deny the emptiness in your heart, the longing in your heart.

The question now is how long will you long for him? How long will you hope that he will come back to you? How long do you have to punish yourself by hoping that he will come back? How long will you know the facts but can never accept it? How long will you have to suffer before you can move on? How long will you be tortured by the pain and grief before you can move on? Days? Weeks? Months? Years? Decades? How long?

You want to move on but you can't because you don't know how...How to move on? I wish I knew....