Letting Go of the One you Love

[Lavender_babe]

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Hey Guys! what's up? Hahay! im back ! Drama jud ang life karon! Ive been to a very painful break up with my first ever BF...hehehehe ....EX-BF na diay! this weak lang jud..the reasons was not that clear to me and im unsatisfied bout it....sa text ra man jud m nagbreak up....it's so hard to move on considering the fact that there are still a lot of unresolved issues...Gusto nako mo let go and mo move on...but how? i know how but why is it so hard to do? i dont wanna think bout him anymore but everytime im alone, it always pop up on my mind. i dont wanna cry but cant stop the tears.....kung pwede palang lage unta duklon nko ako self, ako na gibuhat....I become so stupid already!

I need an advice!

[heerlijk]

is that really what you want? ayaw mo na ba talaga?think it twice girl.baka magaya ka sa akin.
same den tayo 2 months ago nagbreak kami.and nagsisi ako...
why dont you email me.will chat over there.myt i cud help.or you cud advice me too..heheheh...
heerlijk_horn@yahoo.com<----- thats my add.

dyahe kasi pagdito ko lahat eladlad.heheheh.

[kid_05]

...... You're human after all! It's time to look for somebody who is more deserving of your love. Let's say.....rums_field. You might ask yourself, what about rums_field? Well, that's for you to find out. I'm sure that once you know him, you'll have a new perspective about life. Try to PM him. Sa man?

[monrose29]

lavender_babe....

remember me? its been a while wala na jud kay post2x.. u know what mahh friend natural ra man jud sya... bisan unsa pa imong buhaton di gyud na nimo maka limtan dayon.. cge lang agwantaha lang usa na.. gud.. di baya na diha2x dayon maka limtan nimo... di bahhh.... why dont u go out wd ur friend... meet new friends..date wd someoneles para hinay2x ma wala sa imong mind ang sakit sa imong past relationship...

and deli lang pod sa istorya lang ta kutob ani.. u need action.. na-a man gud uban.. cge lang tando.. nya wa gibuhat..... if u want to move on.. start it now... tell me kong unsa na ka bug-at ang imong gipas-an.. karon nga problema kay daghan me mo tabang nimo.... youre not alone....

do the things nga wala pa nimo ma buhat sa una..... youre free now....relax your mind.... i close sa na for a moment ang imong past.... think and think kong unsay ma ayong buhaton... right now ang imong mind gubot pa ka ayo..... thats why sometimes u cant stop youre self.. crying and crying.....trying to find the answer.. and if u foud out.. nga ma o diay.. nah.. basin masakitan nasad ka.. much better nga dili nalang nimo mahibaw-an... .... one is enough two is too much..... . sakto bahhh.. hehehe..

bitaw oyy..... kaya lagi na nimo ikaw pahh...

[MrBiddle]

Someone in here taught me this. Think only of the things that are possible after it has taken place and try doing this everyday... and then go out and be open to anybody and everybody... at first he/she might seem irreplaceable but know that there are better people around you.

[pamila]

i suggest, if kaya pang estoryaan, dapat jud higayonan ug panahon para ma settle pa... but if there's no other choice then look for another one...

[heerlijk]

hope you get a lesson from this story...
sencya na kung mahaba

" Touching Story"

My husband was an engineer. Since I met him, he was always an unflappable rock in my life. I knew he always had his feet firmly planted on the ground, and it seemed that no matter what else went crazy, he would be the one constant.

Three years of romance, and two years of marriage later, I got tired. He was the most unromantic man I know. He never bought me flowers, he never surprised me, and nothing changed in our marriage. After some time, I finally found the courage to tell him that I wanted to leave him. He just sat there, speechless. My heart froze... what kind of man was I married to that didn't even know what to say to make me stay?

After a while, he spoke,"What can I do to change your mind?". "I will stay if you can give me a good answer to this question," I replied coldly. "If I asked for a flower that grew on a cliff, and you knew that getting it for me means certain death, would you get it for me?".

His face grew troubled. "Can I give you an answer tomorrow morning?" He asked. Hearing that kind of answer, my heart died. I knew that I could never be happy with a man who couldn't even give me a answer straight away. The next morning, when I woke up, he was missing. In the living room, under a warm glass of milk, was a note. My eyes grew misty as I read it... "Dear, I have my answer. I will never pick the flower for you if it meant certain death. But before you leave, I hope you can give me a chance to give you my reasons....

You will always sit in front of the computer and type about for the whole day, but everytime you will end up in tears cause your formating will always go all over the place... I need my fingers, to do the formating for you, so your tears will become smiles.

You like to travel, but would always get lost... I need my eyes, so that I can bring you to the nicest places on earth.

Everytime you leave the house, you would always forget your keys... I need my legs, so that I can run home to open the door for you.

You never knew how to take care of yourself... I need my hands to help you get rid of the pesky white hair you hate so much when you grow old, to trim your nails, to feed you. So you see, that's why I can't pick the flower for you. Until I find someone who loves you more than I do, I will need my body to take care of you.

If you accept my reasons, then open the door, where I will be waiting with your favourite muffin." With tears streaming from my eyes, I opened the door, and there he stood, with a extremely worried look on his face. He still had nothing to say, but just stood there waving the packet he had in his hand in front of me. And then I knew for a fact that I will never find another man who will ever love me as much as he does. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have...

Fly me to the moon... Let me play among those stars... Let me see what spring is like... On Jupiter and Mars...



"Somtimes Love Hurts,But If It Doesn't Hurt Then Its Not Love"

U said one day isn't enough to luv me..
not enough for forever..
>
> THIS IS WHAT A GIRL TOLD A GUY:
>
> If you see me walking the road with someone
> else, It's not because I like his accompany...
>
> Its because you're not brave enough to
> walk beside me.
>
>
> If you hear me talking about him all the time
> Its not because he pleases me
>
> Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat
>
>
> If you feel me falling with someone new
> Its not because I love him..
>
> But because you're not there to catch me fall
>
> If you feel lost, I too am nowhere
> I too don't know where the road is going
>
> Are we gonna cross each other's path
> Or just completely turn around?..
>
> Will we just let go of what we had
> Or go to the place where love is bound
>
> Don't let me walk with him, It's you I want to walk with..
>
>
> Don't let me talk of him, it's you I want to talk with..
>
>
> Don't let me fall for him, It's you I want to fall in love with..
>
>
> "HOW DID THE GUY REPLY?"
>
>
> When you thought I wasn't brave enough to walk
> beside you
>
> I was behind you every step of the way
>
>
> Still filled with awe because of the beauty that
> stand before me
>
>
> When you thought I was too deaf to hear your heartbeat
>
> I didn't want to assume anything And I was afraid to lose our friendship
>
>
> When you thought I wasn't there to catch you,
> It was because you never gave me the chance
>
> You never reached the bottom, you've already grabbed a branch
>
>
> If you feel like you are nowhere, I too am lost
>
> I too don't know where the road is going
> Are we just going to turn around,
> Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
>
> Will we just let go of what we had
> Or go to the place where love is bound?
>
> Don't let me walk alone I want to walk by your side
>
> Don't let me talk of something else
> It's you I want to talk with
>
> Don't let me fall for someone else
> It's you I want to fall in love with.
>
>
> WHEN I SAW YOU...
>
> I WAS AFRAID TO TALK TO YOU...
>
> WHEN I TALKED TO YOU...
>
> I WAS AFRAID TO HOLD YOU...
>
> WHEN I HOLD YOU...
>
> I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU...
>
> NOW THAT I LOVE YOU ...
>
> I'M AFRAID TO LOSE YOU...
>
>
>
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> SOMETIMES LOVE HURTS...
> BUT IF IT DOESN'T HURT...
>
> THEN IT ISN'T LOVE...
>
>
>
> HOLD ON TO THE PERSON U LOVE...
> BEFORE HE/SHE SLIPS AWAY...
> AND U CAN NEVER GET HIM/HER BACK

"If God wanted me to touch my toes, he would have put them on my knees"

[belle]

i understand what you're going through ryt now... i can feel ur pain coz i've been through that also... although lahi lng kay la pa ko kauyab... but anyway, here's what i'll say to you..

if u want to cry, cry lng jed coz it's also a way of letting go.. u'll feel better after crying.. therapy man sad na cya.. but don't get too caught up sa imo emotions nga magcge na lng ka hilak.. feel the pain... and after feeling the pain.. detach urself from that feeling... i know sumtyms maglagot ka sa imo self.. nya feeling nimo stupid ka.. but don't be... yaw pag self pity.. be glad nga nkafeel ka ani coz u'll learn a lot from this experience..

try to talk to ur friends.. it helps jud.. a lot.. yaw soloha imo problem... kay d jed maau na.. mabuang lng ka cge huna2x kng unsa jed reason ngano nakigbreak imo bf... i know u need closure... kay mao man jed na ang key in moving on.. pero cguro, immature lng jed kaau ang lalaki mao na sa txt ra ka niya gibulagan.. faet sa life oi.. nano daghan man immature sa kalibutan.. wahaha.. awww.. sori.. serious man diay ni.. hehe... time lng jed ang mkasulti if ur ready to move on.. basta cheer up lng jed and as d saying goes, "this too shall pass.." kaya ra na nimo.. basta don't forget to pray to HIM... He is the only one who can help you... hope you'll feel better..

[splendid moonlight]

cellphones are bad influences to people. tsk tsk.

[kyuusai]

lavender_babe welcome back...*hugs*kirig paka!!..hehehe..

Gah, things happen in an unexpected time of our lives and above all this you have to accept all this things. What you can do right now is to move on and pray na mawala na ang hurt sa dughan. Like what you told me before diba!..Find something enjoyable that would erase the memories of ur bf. Why would just hang out with us.. enjoy jud... kaw arti man ka di kud ka!!. kirig karon.. hehe...Just leave all this thing to a nightmare and drink some cup of coffee. hehe.. pakatawa lang taka gah.. parehas sa imong pagpakatawa nako sauna na wala jud kakatawa.. bawahaha.. bruha ka!!. hehe...